View Full Version : Brother-in-law breaks into house, loses my dog.
ChldsPlay
10-09-2009, 10:44 AM
I swear, my in-laws just feel the need to take my generosity and repay me by kicking me in the nuts.
My sister-in-law and her husband already owe me over $1400 because they stopped paying off a loan that I graciously opened in my name last year to help them with their bills, forcing me to make the payments. They make more than me and my wife, but for some reason can't get their **** together, and are amazingly behind on every single bill it seems. I have no idea how that happens.
Apparently their gas is off too, so they can't take hot showers. So my sister-in-law tells him he can get into our back door pretty easily (there is a window that needs replaced). So without getting permission from us or anything, and while we're both at work, he decides to break in to our house to take his damn shower. While doing so he spooks my dog and lets him bolt outside and into the neighborhood.
In the past when he's gotten out he's come home later in the day. But he never came home last night and we checked the usual places he runs too.
My wife has been freaking out and wants to kill my brother-in-law.
First of all why are you helping them if they make more money then you :confused: It is not your problem they can't pay their bills. I would have to cut them off. This is insane. I would want to kill him too.
Hopefully you find your dog soon. How sad.
Bob Sacamano
10-09-2009, 10:55 AM
hope you get your dog back
your bro-in-law should just got to a hotel, and take a shower in the pool area showers
Yeagermeister
10-09-2009, 10:55 AM
Never go in to business with family or friends
TheCount
10-09-2009, 11:02 AM
Call the police, report a break in and get him charged. I wouldn't care if he's family or not, that **** would not stand.
WoodysGirl
10-09-2009, 11:17 AM
Call the police, report a break in and get him charged. I wouldn't care if he's family or not, that **** would not stand.
I actually kinda agree with this.
Especially since his actions caused your dog to run away.
ChldsPlay
10-09-2009, 11:32 AM
Just went to my kitchen to get something to eat and looked out our back door and he was there laying on one of his beds that I put out there last night in case he came back while we were asleep or not at home.
Happy to have him back, but still pissed off.
Bob Sacamano
10-09-2009, 11:34 AM
Just went to my kitchen to get something to eat and looked out our back door and he was there laying on one of his beds that I put out there last night in case he came back while we were asleep or not at home.
Happy to have him back, but still pissed off.
awwwww
I'm glad to hear you have your dog back, but you should probably shut these people out of your life for a while.
Helping them apparently gave them the impression that you're an endless well of resources for them to use. Fix up that back window and change your locks if necessary and don't avoid telling them what they caused and why you're not interested in seeing them for a while.
TheCount
10-09-2009, 11:36 AM
Just went to my kitchen to get something to eat and looked out our back door and he was there laying on one of his beds that I put out there last night in case he came back while we were asleep or not at home.
Happy to have him back, but still pissed off.
I'm sure he's wondering what the big deal is too like he had every intention of coming back anyway, so he doesn't see why you're so surprised to see him.
Bob Sacamano
10-09-2009, 11:38 AM
I'm sure he's wondering what the big deal is too like he had every intention of coming back anyway, so he doesn't see why you're so surprised to see him.
yeah, I know, right?
the dog was like, "the ****, I was gonna come back"
bbgun
10-09-2009, 11:40 AM
Karma for your "duct tape" post.
Bonecrusher#31
10-09-2009, 11:48 AM
My ghost faced bully busted out 2 weeks ago and had me freaked out(He was expensive) but the outta shape slob knew better than to go more than 200 feet from home.....:D
ChldsPlay
10-09-2009, 11:51 AM
It appears he may be injured. He seems to be favoring one of his back legs a little. He's not putting my effort in his jumps, even for a snack, and just appears to not want to put much of his weight on his back legs. I don't see anything the looks like an injury, so I wonder if he sprained or pulled something.
As for my family, we don't really talk to them much as it is. They mostly avoid us when we do go out of the way to get in touch because they don't want to deal with me bringing up the fact that they need to start paying up. I know I never should have helped them out, especially considering their history, and only did so because we arranged it so that part of her paycheck was direct deposited into my bank account that made the loan payments. Six months in she got laid off. She returned to work pretty quickly, but they never got the direct deposit set back up with her new employer, and they only made a half payment to me one time since. At least the loan is paid off now and I am not forced to make even more payments. For some reason they think I always have money and have no bills or something. Nevermind the fact that I've lost over $5,000 (and climbing) this year in lost wages due to a work injury, and you add that $1,400 on top of that and I'm running pretty damn thin myself. And I might lose my job because of my work restrictions in the near future. Despite all that I've never missed any of my payments on anything. I've had to sell quite a bit of crap on ebay, but hey, whatever it takes.
TheCount
10-09-2009, 11:56 AM
It appears he may be injured. He seems to be favoring one of his back legs a little. He's not putting my effort in his jumps, even for a snack, and just appears to not want to put much of his weight on his back legs. I don't see anything the looks like an injury, so I wonder if he sprained or pulled something.
Possible, if it's bad he'll let you know. Is he limping? Does he squirm when you extend his legs?
My dog got a mysterious limp once and it turned out he just skinned his pads running around on concrete like the fool runs around on the wooden floors. He found out concrete is a lot less forgiving when you try to make skidding stops.
Faerluna
10-09-2009, 12:00 PM
Possible, if it's bad he'll let you know. Is he limping? Does he squirm when you extend his legs?
My dog got a mysterious limp once and it turned out he just skinned his pads running around on concrete like the fool runs around on the wooden floors. He found out concrete is a lot less forgiving when you try to make skidding stops.
I was going to say that, or check in between the toes for anything like a little rock or sticker burr that might be stuck in there and irritating it.
ChldsPlay
10-09-2009, 12:02 PM
Possible, if it's bad he'll let you know. Is he limping? Does he squirm when you extend his legs?
My dog got a mysterious limp once and it turned out he just skinned his pads running around on concrete like the fool runs around on the wooden floors. He found out concrete is a lot less forgiving when you try to make skidding stops.
That could be it. He doesn't react when I feel around his leg, and doesn't really limp much, but he seems to walk a little gingerly. At first I thought maybe he was just a little lethargic, but I think something is bothering him. I'll have to check his pads.
ChldsPlay
10-09-2009, 12:05 PM
Yep, looks like his pads. They appear to be slightly swollen, and I found a blister on one.
big dog cowboy
10-09-2009, 12:16 PM
Glad to hear you dog is back. I know how I feel about mine and I would be livid if something like that happened. If you don't notice any improvment soon, consider taking him to the vet to get checked out. At the least lots of TLC this weekend.
As for your brother-in-law, I'd consider calling the police also. That is better than beating the living crap out of him with a baseball bat then you end up in trouble.
CATCH17
10-09-2009, 12:18 PM
My ghost faced bully busted out 2 weeks ago and had me freaked out(He was expensive) but the outta shape slob knew better than to go more than 200 feet from home.....:D
I love English Bulldogs.
Coolest dog ever.
Hoofbite
10-09-2009, 12:19 PM
I think we've all have some "choice" relatives who seem to be a bigger pain then they are worth.
Hoofbite
10-09-2009, 12:20 PM
My ghost faced bully busted out 2 weeks ago and had me freaked out(He was expensive) but the outta shape slob knew better than to go more than 200 feet from home.....:D
Haha. He gets down the road a little ways and gives up. Just starts barking to come pick him up.
daschoo
10-09-2009, 12:48 PM
Just went to my kitchen to get something to eat and looked out our back door and he was there laying on one of his beds that I put out there last night in case he came back while we were asleep or not at home.
Happy to have him back, but still pissed off.
wasn't sure if you meant the dog or the brother in law when i first read that post
TheCount
10-09-2009, 12:49 PM
Yep, looks like his pads. They appear to be slightly swollen, and I found a blister on one.
Sounds about right, my dog was fine by the next day (but took it easier once outside, so maybe he's not as stupid as he pretends to be), we just clipped off the skin he peeled off and my fiance insisted on using antibiotics on the blister, which he promptly licked off.
If you're feeling particularly glad to see him, you can soak his paws in a little epsom salt and warm water to help with the swelling and the pain if you have it around, but he'll probably be fine by tomorrow even without it.
Haha. He gets down the road a little ways and gives up. Just starts barking to come pick him up.
Yeah, I'm got a Staffordshire Bull Terrier (along with a mutt from the pound, which is the one that skinned his pads) and a buddy of mine has an English Bull Dog, they play hard for about 15 minutes when they see each other and then the English Bull Dog is pretty much calls it a day.
CowboyFan74
10-09-2009, 01:00 PM
Sounds like they have some kind of addiction, ie drugs, alcohol, etc..
You should never loan money to friends or family unless you don't care about ever getting that money back. Otherwise you wreck relationships, and not always just with the offending party. Anyways, 1400 bucks isn't much. I'd just forget about it and make it clear they should look elsewhere for financial help.
Sam I Am
10-09-2009, 01:32 PM
I swear, my in-laws just feel the need to take my generosity and repay me by kicking me in the nuts.
My sister-in-law and her husband already owe me over $1400 because they stopped paying off a loan that I graciously opened in my name last year to help them with their bills, forcing me to make the payments. They make more than me and my wife, but for some reason can't get their **** together, and are amazingly behind on every single bill it seems. I have no idea how that happens.
Apparently their gas is off too, so they can't take hot showers. So my sister-in-law tells him he can get into our back door pretty easily (there is a window that needs replaced). So without getting permission from us or anything, and while we're both at work, he decides to break in to our house to take his damn shower. While doing so he spooks my dog and lets him bolt outside and into the neighborhood.
In the past when he's gotten out he's come home later in the day. But he never came home last night and we checked the usual places he runs too.
My wife has been freaking out and wants to kill my brother-in-law.
Torture them like you like to do to other animals. :laugh2:
Oh, and let them borrow your car while you're at it! :tongue:
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