No BP ..... all I said was that sexual fetishes should not be a reason to establish laws ..... against or for ...... unless the fetish is illegal. I have already said if there is not a law forbidding gay marriages ...... I do not see the need for one. I also do not see the need for creating a law that makes it legal. Sexual Fetishes only define a person when they allow it too define them. There are ways to get insurance and benefits for 2 men .... there are ways to make sure your life partner gets everything when you die. If the only reason they want to get married is to be like "everyone else" ..... well sorry to tell them but they are never gonna be like "everyone else" Just like someone who gets tattoos all over their body or facial piercings. As long as gay couples are heavily outnumbered by straight ones they will never be "Normal" ....... sorry but thats just the way it is. Its not right but its just the truth. on a related story about people not "fitting in" One of the guys who work for me has a gland problem ..... all of his hair (eyebrows, eyelashes, everything) fell out when he was 9 years old. He has always stood out in a crowd. A few years ago he got tattoos all down his arms, neck, and the back of his head. He is never gonna be treated normal by people who just meet him .... it bothers him sometimes, yet he continues to do things to make him look more and more odd. He is also a great person who is the best guy I have ever had run my 110 press.