I'm saying that older folks have a knack for saying things that aren't socially acceptable a lot more than younger folks. I used my own grandmother as an example. How easily can "I wish he was dead" turn into "I wish somebody would kill him"? I am not doubting Hos at all. He's been an awesome Mod and poster. I'm just saying that phrasing and tense can change a meaning quickly and he probably said something that on paper looks very dangerous.