Really, Hostile nailed this. Love your child and don't be a barrier to their growth. Let them be who they are. Be there to guide them and advise them properly when they stray from a good path in life. Other than that... Love them w/ all that you are. Lol: I am late to this thread. Gratz on the new runt! Your life should be second. If your life isn't, then you have issues you probably should work on. That is the barrier I mention earlier. You will succeed.