The officiating of the game was questionable at times, but the Cowboys need to stop using this as an excuse. I don't think the fumble would have been overturned with replay. The guy was down before the ball came out. The picture of his head touching the turf shows this very clearly. It is a lame excuse.
That is not to say there were not a few iffy calls in the game. First, there was the delay of game not called. I know the refs give a fraction of a second grace period, but the snap was well after the play clock expired and the play should have been blown dead, the clock stopped and the Cards penalized 5 yards. Two of those things would have benefitted the Cowboys a lot.
The other play that has me a little riled is the FG when the Cowboys had to call a time out. The rule on substitutions does not say the Cards cannot send the QB and place kicker on the field together, but it does say that a team cannot send substitutes on the field to confuse the opponent. The refs should have stopped the clock and allowed the Cowboys to get the correct personnel on the field depending on whether the Cards were going to kick or go for it. Sending Murray and the kicker on the field at the same time confused the Cowboys defense and forced them to waste a time out.
I didn't like the holding call on La'el Collins or the called on Connor Williams, but the calls on Schultz and Tyron Smith were definitely holding. So was the call on the Cardinals lineman. Without reviewing the game it is hard to see what else they missed but there was one defensive holding I saw on a Cowboys running play where the Cardinals DT help Connor Williams from getting to the second level to block the LB who made the tackle. It was clear, out in the open and would have resulted in a first down instead of a stuffed play.
The Cardinals had 7 penalties for 44 yards and the Cowboys have 10 for 88. I don't see this as a significant difference.
The fact is the Cowboys lost this game because the offense struggled for 3 quarters. Dak struggled at times. The play calling was awful at times and the defense could not stop the Cardinals short passing game. Kyler Murray was throwing deadly accurate passes and Dak was not.
I do think penalties disrupt the flow of the offense so those 4 holding calls which all negating good gains were definitely a problem. But they have to overcome those penalties like they did early in the season. Dak dinking and dunking is not going to get it done. The have to get back to running the football and using play action to set up a vertical passing game which seems to disappear in these bad games.