So, you just act like you're a teenager, got it "brah".
There's your issue "brah", thinking that you have the right to tell anyone else what they should be doing. You don't. You think you even know what "50-50" is, or should be. Newsflash to you and your ignorance, you don't. You get to decide for exactly one person - you.
You proclaim to not be "dwelling on crap that happened 20 years ago", and yet, here you are, continuing to post in a thread about it? I guess that fact escaped you as well? Seems to be a pattern, and a whole mountain of stuff that you don't realize.
I gave more than fair warning of what I was talking about in this thread, starting with the thread headline, and then several times at the very beginning. If you couldn't handle it - and you clearly can't - you could have and should have avoided it then. But given that it's had 9 pages of comments, other people actually did want to talk about it and were mature enough to handle an unpleasant subject. If you can't, that's your weakness.
But neither you, nor anyone else, gets to dictate what fan can and can't talk about. Get over yourself and go buy a clue.