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Good Gawd -- guess I'm due to get re-acquainted with a world that I've either outgrown or that's outgrown me?! Hello!!
When I was very young, we went through the mental conditioning School of Hard Knocks. That's one that sticks with you forever!
I get it and agree our kids are far too coddled these days...I grew up in the 80s and am technically an old melinneial...and many time I get pissed at my generation as well as the young millennial for their soft and self centered mentality.
You have to grow up with some adversity in your life to generate an appreciation of the result of hard work and toughness...I'm struggling with my 3 kinds 7,5,1 on how to develop that....as a father I've worked my life to this point to give them a much better life than I had growing up, but there are negative aspects that I am still trying to work through.
Awesome reply post lol“Mental Conditioning Coach”?!?!
My parents were reasonably well off as middle-class folks who were raised through the depression and many hard times, as well. Both my mother and father were the products of parents where one of them was an alcoholic and had to work for everything they got. Fortunately, I was raised under the same conditions, expect for the alcoholic part, although, my dad loved his beer and even brewed his own throughout the depression and later.
Both of them were somewhat religious, especially my mother, who spent a great deal of time in a convent being schooled, raised and trained by nuns. Even though I was fairly well provided for in terms of home life, I never got coddled and was expected to act civil and work for whatever I got. I've been fortunate in many respects, even though never having the advantage of mental conditioning. My parents kept me honest, hard working and willing to get along with those around me. Of course, it hasn't always been easy. I've had employers that weren't always considerate.
My son has anxiety that he appears to have trouble overcoming at times, even though he's of an advanced age. He has a very stressful job, so I attribute much of that to his mental struggle to cope at times. He's extremely intelligent, however, and that seems to help him greatly in the long run. I can see where the modern world might offer difficulties that I never really had to cope with during the long life that I've been blessed with. Staying positive seems a real challenge these days. I really hope you and yours have a life as fortunate as mine has been.
To be fair to us old folks, we didn't have everything handed to us or a sheltered upbringing, so most of us are mentally tougher than most of the younger generation. I grew up on shows like Good Times, The Jeffersons and All in the Family, so a mere word doesn't harm me/us like it does to some now. Not trying to say that having a "Mental Conditioning Coach" is stupid or a bad idea. Just trying to explain to you why some won't understand the need for this since they appear to have a great life with money that most of us can only dream of.
No way back when I was a kid would this type of behavior be allowed. These kids will probably need a Mental Conditioning Coach when they get old. Hell they need one now. I blame the parents, btw.