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Parcells says retirement fits


By BRIAN ETTKIN, Staff writer
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First published: Sunday, August 12, 2007
Saratoga Springs his happy place


SPRINGS -- Bill Parcells looks as if he's retired from coaching, tanned and smiling, sitting at a table in the bar at Sargo's, the fine-dining restaurant at Saratoga National Golf Club, sheltered from the siren song that urged him on for the better part of three decades.

Parcells, who turns 66 on Aug. 22, sounds as if he's retired, though he has sounded this way before. When he announced Retirement II, as Jets coach, Parcells said: "I've coached my last football game. You can write that on your little chalkboard." At the time, not even Parcells knew of the chalkboard eraser concealed behind his back.

"I knew when I stopped coaching this time that that was it," said Parcells, who admits, "I felt that way before. I really did. When I left the Jets, I really thought that was it. Quite frankly I know it's it now. My age, I don't want to say it's prohibitive, but it's a young man's game. I recognize that. I don't want to stay too long. I don't want to be propped up out there."

Parcells feels as if he's retired.

When he coached, Parcells used to relish the "off-season," going to the Senior Bowl and NFL scouting combine, evaluating free agents, perpetually plotting and planning.

"Generally speaking you were eager about that," Parcells said. "That wasn't quite the same these last couple of years. If you're a responsible person and a coach, someone who kind of prides yourself on you show up to work, that's what you do, you could force yourself -- I basically forced myself to do the things that had to be done.

"It was more by necessity than by desire. I knew I had to do some things, so I did them."

Parcells, who will work a couple days a week during the NFL season as an ESPN analyst, said he doesn't envision accepting a GM job.

"I don't think so," he said. "That's just as bad (as coaching). All the GM does is deal with problems: salary cap, injuries, player replacement and holdouts. That's all life is."

He wasn't driven from coaching by Terrell Owens. "Not really," he said. "It's hard to explain. He's really not a bad kid. But you know some people just have to have certain things. I think he's one of those; he has to have certain things." (Read: attention.)

"He's a pleasant enough kid," Parcells said. "He's not mean-spirited; he's not vulgar. He's really OK in that respect. ... He didn't have anything to do with me (retiring) at the end of the day."

Parcells wasn't unhappy before, but because of the all-consuming nature of coaching and his perfectionism, Parcells experienced long periods of frustration and exasperation broken up by fleeting bursts of joy.

He's happier now.

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Saratoga Springs, where he built his 7,500-square-foot house, across the lake from and above Saratoga National's 15th hole, is his happy place. Some mornings he watches thoroughbred trainers with whom he's friendly, such as Shug McGaughey, Nick Zito and D. Wayne Lukas, work at the Oklahoma barns. Some days he golfs (he's an 8 handicap) or attends the races (he's "not much" of a gambler). Some days he doesn't know what he's going to do. He likes that feeling. For now.

"I can't tell you how my life's going to be structured," Parcells said. "All I'm doing is kind of playing it by ear right now. What do the kids say? 'I'm going with the flow.' "

When he lived and coached in Dallas, he'd see his three daughters and three grandchildren only once a year. They visit more now, all staying with him in Saratoga last week. Parcells took his 17-year-old grandson golfing and his 13-year-old granddaughter to ride with Lukas.

Friends such as New Jersey Nets coach Lawrence Frank visited him this summer. Members of the Parcells coaching tree who wouldn't have called to pick his brain when he was competing against them now do, friends such as Romeo Crennel, Chris Palmer and Sean Payton. Three NFL coaches invited Parcells to spend a week at their training camps, but he declined.

He performs mundane tasks he never had time for when he coached, like hand-writing letters (Parcells' personal secretaries would type his letters; he doesn't know how to type), making photocopies at Kinko's and mailing overnight packages.

He's even shopped for lower insurance premiums.

First cavemen. Now Tuna.

He says he's done. Finished. Gone fishing forever.

He speaks like a retired man.

"There's not too many people luckier than me," said Parcells, who won two Super Bowls with the Giants and became the first coach to lead four different teams to the playoffs. "I feel very fortunate; I know that. I leave the game with nothing but really good feelings."

This retirement seems like the real thing.

And it probably is.

Brian Ettkin can be reached at 454-5457 or by e-mail at bettkin@timesunion.com. Check out his blog at http://blogs.timesunion.com/.
 

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Good for him...

No matter how some feel, when a person walks away, and doesn't lob a bunch a crap on the way out, that's all I think should be said.
 

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Good article. He certainly left a large shadow in Dallas, and I think he left the team in much better shape than he got it. I'm glad he's happier now.

I do think that article should do away with a lot of the silly notions that people have submitted. He didn't quit because of TO. He did feel burned out. He did his job, but he felt like it was a "have to do" kind of thing. Actually, I thought his teams kind of played like that at times too.

Anyway, I wish him all the best, and I appreciate what he did.
 

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Sounds like he is enjoying his time away from grueling NFL lifestyle, good for him.
 

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Chocolate Lab;1586989 said:
When he coached, Parcells used to relish the "off-season," going to the Senior Bowl and NFL scouting combine, evaluating free agents, perpetually plotting and planning.

"Generally speaking you were eager about that," Parcells said. "That wasn't quite the same these last couple of years. If you're a responsible person and a coach, someone who kind of prides yourself on you show up to work, that's what you do, you could force yourself -- I basically forced myself to do the things that had to be done.

"It was more by necessity than by desire. I knew I had to do some things, so I did them."

Yeah. That's when you know you've got to go.
 

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IMO he earned it.

I'd play golf every morning and enjoy the hell out of my remaining days.
 

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Chocolate Lab;1586989 said:
My age, I don't want to say it's prohibitive, but it's a young man's game.

Thanks for finally realizing that, ya old windbag.
 

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WoodysGirl;1587004 said:
Good for him...

No matter how some feel, when a person walks away, and doesn't lob a bunch a crap on the way out, that's all I think should be said.

Yep!!
 

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Parcells really turned our organization around.

And he stoically walked away from a huge salary this year, because he knew he no longer could do it. That is very admirable.

Coach Parcells still has a place at the top of greatest coaches that ever coached this game. Not a Lombardi or Bellichick, but right there at the next tier of greats....
 

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I was equally happy the day BP was named head coach as I was the day he announced his retirement.

BP should have retired a long time ago, and enjoyed himself the rest of his life. Being a coach in the NFL is a tough, lonely life.

I know that when I am first eligible to retire, I will be out. I will do something else, maybe sell real estate with a goal of selling one home a month. And I will spend as much time as I can with my wife, kids and grandkids.

Good luck to BP and may he have a great retirement.
 

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I am glad he coached Dallas, but it was time for him and the organization to move on.
 

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I live up here near Saratoga. He is like the local spokesman for the place now. I have seen him on several goofy commercials and always seems to be the honorary guest at events. I would retire to this over being a head coach. Plus, you should see his house on the golf course.
 

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I think Big Bill did a good job here with what he had to work with. He never had a stable QB and without that you can't win consistently with the likes of Carter, Vinny, Bledsoe, and Romo. Bledsoe and Vinny did all they could, Bledsoe played his way out of the starters job, and no one even expected Vinny to last a whole season. Carter scared me every time he went back to pass and Romo is a work in progress. Overall, I thank Parcells for turning this thing around and now its time for a new voice to maximize the potential in the players Parcells bought in
 

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Golfing? Relaxing all day? Grandkids you can send back at anytime? Cool summer evenings at his favorite pub?


I hate him.

He's the best thng that's happened to Dallas in quite some time. You can't help but appreciate that. We have something here we hadn't had for awhile. A chance. I love to hear deep into the playoffs and possible SB talk. It's got some stank on it these days.

Still hate him tho........................golfing everyday.........big jerk. :)
 
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