Have to laugh.
Son enlisted in Air Force end of 2023.
Last year, he deployed to the middle east. His deployment got extended, not certain when he's coming home, but he'll never eat chicken and rice ever again, and he can tell you with some expertise now how you can tell if you're getting hit with a drone or a ballistic missile.
That said, he's glad he's were he is at, grateful that he is serving his country and overall happy with his decisions. He just laughed telling me when he was over there he thought he never thought he'd get to see some of the crap that has been going on over there because as he jokingly stated "he joined the chair force".
Having my father be career air force and doing a stint in the Army myself, he pretty much knew what was going to be expected. That said, military is nothing like it was in the 80's , let alone the 50's, but it's still hurry up and wait as some things never change dealing with large groups of people.
He's getting another stripe while he's over there, and he's looking forward to becoming a NCO, which is next up on his end.
Still not certain if he wants to stay in as he has another close to 4 years left on his enlistment, but he's already sent me info on what looks to be like some pretty good trade schools and mentioned that if he does get out, he can go to school pretty much free on his end. Boy was never a straight A high school student and college was never on his radar, but the Air Force has impressed upon him how important getting a education is.
I will always believe that the military is a good "training ground" option for our young people.
Biggest advice I would give anyone is don't enlist trying to get a specific job, but enlist first to serve your country and wear our uniform. Go in with a open mind, and realize you may not get what you want, but while your in always keep a positive attitude and remember it's ALWAYS a team effort and to always give 100% no matter what BS they throw at you. Son wanted us to stay out of his enlistment process so we did.
What my father told me in the 80's held true then as it does in the 2020's, as it did for my father in the 1950's, and that is don't ever take the word of your recruiter LMAO. What we didn't know is son apparently got in on a "open ended contract", which means he graduated from basic, they would pick his job. Man, you want to talk about our son sweating it out because he was in holdover (or whatever they call it today) waiting to get assigned to tech school. Reality is, he wanted either auto or aircraft maintenance, and got neither. He ended up in logistics, and the reality is he's actually liking the job. Too many young people want what THEY want, and they want it NOW. Told my son, no matter what they give you, give 100% and keep the same work ethic as he did working for 3 years in high school and he'll do fine. Where you get to ask for something is when your enlistment is up and then you can see how much you mean to them if they want to keep you in after you put your first stint up