Just finished listening to the Lunchbreak guys in Dallas, today was about T.O..
One of them,( I think it was Josh) he said that in the Arizona game, when the ball was fumbled and it was right by Gurodes feet and he did not see it, well Gurode said that the clip that Fox showed T.O. supposedly yelling at him, did not happen after that play, Josh said that Gurode said it when T.O. was caught talking to him it was on an earlier series when they went 3 and out, because the Ol did not hold up, anyway he said Gurode said that T.O. told him that those are you guys you get them together, (talking bout the OL).
The reason I posted, this is to show how the media, cuts, and twists and turn things around to make T.O. out to be a bad teammate/Cancer.
He has a past, everyone does. But to continue to dog a person about things he has admitted he made mistakes in the past is assinine.
And therefore that is the reason why, some people who really did not like T.O. from the start, now likes him because he is constantly getting a raw deal from the media.
Look the guy will not back, he has a strong personality, will and he is determined, and speaking form experience(because I am the same way) if you keep attacking him he will continue stand strong in his convictions, beliefs, that is not a way to get through to a strong person.
I'm not saying you have to coddle him, but you have to be understanding to how he feels and what he believes, and even if you do not understand at least show that you are trying and not holding the guy's past over his head.