I'm not sure there exist such a thing as "more wrong" than what you wrote above. The Dallas Cowboys owe us nothing. Jerry Jones owes us nothing. You say, "I bought tickets, I bought merchandise, I sacrificed time I could be doing something else to watch the game and talk about it...I deserve (nay, demand) something in return!"
I say, "You got tickets for that money. You got to watch the game. You got clothes and decoration for your home with that merchandise and you got something better to do than the other options at your disposal. You've got everything your money and time paid for...period."
As an entity, the fanship does have control, Here's the problem with that statement: No fan base has less control than a single Cowboys fan because no fan base is as big as the Cowboys fanbase. So, yeah, you can boycott watching games, buying tickets and buying merchandise, but unless you are the extent of the fan base, it won't do you or the team a lick of good. This fan base is too big for the individual to affect change. Therefore, you can get on the bus or get off it...makes no difference, because this bus is going where it is going regardless of what anyone else has to say. You can either accept that or drive yourself crazy trying to change an unchangeable narrative. Makes no difference to me.