They did not meet with the player.
They studied his film. They talked to his coach, who was a former Cowboy coach so we had the insider connection there and trusted it. And, yes, we actually did meet him and evaluate him in-person. I'm sorry if the coach we sent wasn't a big enough name to please you, Your Highness, but we sent a coach.
And the scouts had him as the next best player on the board behind only Andrew Luck. They said he was the highest-rated corner on their board since Sanders.
What more do you want? You wanted the team to lock in on him? And also make a big show of how locked-in on him they were? Bring him in and make a big show of running him through drills with our star players for our head coach and our coordinator? Like in 1997 when we made it obvious to everybody that we were locking in on Tony Gonzalez, which therefore cost us any shot at him?
We quietly did our homework on a guy who, by all rights, should never have been available to us. So we didn't 100% lock in on him. Why is it bad that we didn't lock in on one guy? We scouted him. We met him. We researched him. We wanted him, and we didn't even overpay in the trade up. We did nothing wrong; the guy just didn't pan out. Which happens. It especially tends to happen when you make coaching changes that completely change, overnight, what you value in a position a player plays.
If we traded up for a guy who wasn't supposed to be drafted for another round, I'd understand the whining. But he was a consensus pick to go super early as the best corner in the draft.
If we locked in on him from Day 1 and didn't consider any other course of action, I'd understand the whining. But we were perfectly ready to remain at 14 and pick there before the trade fell in our laps.
If we got bent over and screwed with our pants on in the trade, I'd understand the whining. But we paid a reasonable price. We didn't get taken for a ride because we wanted the guy too much to have any leverage and keep our cool.
If the scouts actually hadn't rated him highly but we picked him because some emotional coach or GM was overruling them, I'd understand the whining. But the scouts were apparently gushing for him based on all the film work they did. It's not like the scouts were saying he's mediocre but we traded up for him anyway because Rob Ryan held a gun to someone's head.