You're missing an important nuance. When posters speak about Romo's records, the conversation generally focuses on those records in light of the Hall of Fame. Furthermore, the context is never that there's a record in reach but we don't want Romo to achieve it. Romo's records have come in the course of the season. I don't recall any records he was trying to achieve at the end of a season that the coaches wouldn't let him achieve because we were saving him for the playoffs.
As it relates to Zeke, he is close to a record he can only set once. We're not arguing that by letting him get the record this somehow improves his Hall of Fame chances.
And I'm not upset he won't get the record. It would be nice to see him get it, though. I don't buy all this "saving him for the playoffs" rhetoric. A team and a player enter the game understanding the risks. You can't play the game like that. And some players want the chance to break records and be great. Let them.
At the end of our season, if we don't win the Super Bowl, there will likely be some regrets that we didn't let Zeke break the record, probably by Zeke himself, though he'd likely never tell us. And should we win the Super Bowl, Zeke and many fans will likely regret the we didn't let him go for the record because we could have had THAT too. That's how the mind and ego work.