It was collectively bargained, but what is transpiring now, with the new penalties against domestic violence was not agreed upon by the Player's Association. The League's motive was the appease the public during the height of the Ray Rice and Adrian Peterson controversies, but they did not go through the correct process of getting this a ratified modification of the policy because it would take too long. The Player's Association hasn't agreed to this modification.
The point of the Player's Association is to make sure the League doesn't start treating the players unfairly. When you put a player on an exempt list because they have been accused of something, it is still somewhat of a punishment due to them not being able to help the team, the lost in value of their capability to be a quality teammate, and the uncertainty of when they can return. Just because they are still getting paid doesn't make all of those negative aspects go away. I think "time-served" needs to be an aspect that is considered for these cases, and the NFL can't just ignore the NFLPA just because they don't want to consider it.
This is my problem with the argument. The guy was trying to say, because the court did not find him guilty, he should not get suspended. HE paid off his victim. People use steroids, and do not get arrested, but that does not mean it did not happen.
Hitting a woman, you should not be playing in the NFL.
Now, if you want to discuss, whether or not Goodell has the power to do these things, you can. But, I have no interest. In the NFL, the NFL has the power. In the MLB, the players have the power.
What Ray Rice did, is almost what this guy did, but his was on video. I am glad that Rice is getting blacklisted.