Rick Reilly: The Victim of A Cowardly Act

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The Victim of A Cowardly Act
by Rick Reilly

Hey, Titans cornerback Pacman Jones. I noticed you took out a full-page ad in The Tennessean, saying that when the NFL suspended you for the entire 2007 season, on April 10, it was "one of the worst moments of my life."

And I just wanted you to know you're lucky. Because Tommy Urbanski is having a helluva time deciding what the worst moment of his lif is.

Urbanski is the 6'6, 340 pound former pro-wrestler who was shot three times and left paralyzed below the waist shortly after the melee you helped whip up at the Vegas strip club where he worked.

It was 4:45a.m. on Feb. 19, NBA All-Star weekend. Urbanski was just coming on as the morning manager at Minxx. He didn't know about all the fun you and your posse had had that night, how you came in with a trash-bag full money, how you started raining the bills on the strippers, how they started scooping them up and how you bellyached that the money was still yours, as if you were throwing it around for visual effect.

Let me get this straight: You've got a contract with $13.5 million guaranteed and you want your tips back?

Nor did Urbanski, 44, know anything about the brawl that broke out next or the woman in your group who smashed a champagne bottle on the head of security guard Aaron Cudworth. What he does know is that ouy and your posse had been thrown out of the club by security about 10 minutes before he arrived.

True, Pacman, the Clark County district attorney's office hadn't filed any charges against you as of Sunday. And Vegas police have reccomended charges against you related only to the brawl involving you and your crew: one count of felony coercion, one of misdemeanor and one of misdemeanor threat to life. But in an acocunt of the incident in a search warrant, witnesses said you kept reaching behind your back during the melee as if you had a weapon; and that threat-to-life charge is based at least in part on the club employees' contention that they heard you say you were going to kill someone.

Soon, three people were shot - Urbanski, Cudworth and a woman, though the latter two would walk out of the hospital on their own. Police said that you personally are not a suspect in the shootings, Pacman, but it is rather an alarming coincidence.

Urbanski was saying goodbye to customers at the front door when, he says, "I turned and saw a guy walk out from around the plam tree and start firing a gun at me." Urbanski was shot twice in the stomach (one bullett lodged in his spine) and once in the left hand.

The last thing he remembers is lying on the ground, watching his blood pool and searching for his cellphone, wishing he could call his wife, Kathy, to tell her he loved her "because I thought I was dying."

Three weeks later he awoke from a medically induced coma in the kind of painthat can make someone wish he had.

Now he's rehabilitating at the Craig Hospital in Englewood, Colo, wondering how he's ever going to play guitar again, or go back to selling real estate, or pay medical bills that would break a mailman's back. People are trying to help - on June 3 there's a Harley-Davidson benefit ride for him in Las Vegas and another in New York City (tommyurbanskifund.org)-but it's goin to be a long haul.

Urbanski says he didn't gt a good look at the shooter but knows he's a coward. "Real tough guy-shoot people and run," Urbanski says. "Where I come from (Commack, NY), a tough guy says, "I'm coming down to kick your ***." That I can respect. But just shooting me for no reason, that's bull****."

It's so weird to see the big wrestler like this. Wasn't he once The Eliminator? Used to pick up 275 pount lugs, hold them upside down and give them the dreaded brain buster? He hardly gets a scratch in the ring, yet he ends up with wheels for legs because he stood by the wrong door?

So, yeah, Urbanski has a hard time choosing the worst moment of his life, because the daily headaches are "20 on a scale of 10", and he's got only a 6% chance of walking again, and his hands don't work right, adn his spleen is gone, and he's on two-hour megadoeses of painkiller that last only an hour and a half.

If Urbanski could talk to the man who shot him, he'd say one thing: "You took my legs, but you'll never take my life."

I saw in your ad, Pacman, that you believe NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell, who suspended you for conduct detrimental to the league, was giving you "unprecedented punishment."

Urbanski can relate to that. He's just trying to figure out what he did...​
 

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Big Dakota;1520358 said:
The Victim of A Cowardly Act
by Rick Reilly

Hey, Titans cornerback Pacman Jones. I noticed you took out a full-page ad in The Tennessean, saying that when the NFL suspended you for the entire 2007 season, on April 10, it was "one of the worst moments of my life."
And I just wanted you to know you're lucky. Because Tommy Urbanski is having a helluva time deciding what the worst moment of his lif is.
Urbanski is the 6'6, 340 pound former pro-wrestler who was shot three times and left paralyzed below the waist shortly after the melee you helped whip up at the Vegas strip club where he worked.
It was 4:45a.m. on Feb. 19, NBA All-Star weekend. Urbanski was just coming on as the morning manager at Minxx. He didn't know about all the fun you and your posse had had that night, how you came in with a trash-bag full money, how you started raining the bills on the strippers, how they started scooping them up and how you bellyached that the money was still yours, as if you were throwing it around for visual effect.
Let me get this straight: You've got a contract with $13.5 million guaranteed and you want your tips back?
Nor did Urbanski, 44, know anything about the brawl that broke out next or the woman in your group who smashed a champagne bottle on the head of security guard Aaron Cudworth. What he does know is that ouy and your posse had been thrown out of the club by security about 10 minutes before he arrived.
True, Pacman, the Clark County district attorney's office hadn't filed any charges against you as of Sunday. And Vegas police have reccomended charges against you related only to the brawl involving you and your crew: one count of felony coercion, one of misdemeanor and one of misdemeanor threat to life. But in an acocunt of the incident in a search warrant, witnesses said you kept reaching behind your back during the melee as if you had a weapon; and that threat-to-life charge is based at least in part on the club employees' contention that they heard you say you were going to kill someone.
Soon, three people were shot - Urbanski, Cudworth and a woman, though the latter two would walk out of the hospital on their own. Police said that you personally are not a suspect in the shootings, Pacman, but it is rather an alarming coincidence.
Urbanski was saying goodbye to customers at the front door when, he says, "I turned and saw a guy walk out from around the plam tree and start firing a gun at me." Urbanski was shot twice in the stomach (one bullett lodged in his spine) and once in the left hand.
The last thing he remembers is lying on the ground, watching his blood pool and searching for his cellphone, wishing he could call his wife, Kathy, to tell her he loved her "because I thought I was dying."
Three weeks later he awoke from a medically induced coma in the kind of painthat can make someone wish he had.
Now he's rehabilitating at the Craig Hospital in Englewood, Colo, wondering how he's ever going to play guitar again, or go back to selling real estate, or pay medical bills that would break a mailman's back. People are trying to help - on June 3 there's a Harley-Davidson benefit ride for him in Las Vegas and another in New York City (tommyurbanskifund.org)-but it's goin to be a long haul.
Urbanski says he didn't gt a good look at the shooter but knows he's a coward. "Real tough guy-shoot people and run," Urbanski says. "Where I come from (Commack, NY), a tough guy says, "I'm coming down to kick your ***." That I can respect. But just shooting me for no reason, that's bull****."
It's so weird to see the big wrestler like this. Wasn't he once The Eliminator? Used to pick up 275 pount lugs, hold them upside down and give them the dreaded brain buster? He hardly gets a scratch in the ring, yet he ends up with wheels for legs because he stood by the wrong door?
So, yeah, Urbanski has a hard time choosing the worst moment of his life, because the daily headaches are "20 on a scale of 10", and he's got only a 6% chance of walking again, and his hands don't work right, adn his spleen is gone, and he's on two-hour megadoeses of painkiller that last only an hour and a half.
If Urbanski could talk to the man who shot him, he'd say one thing: "You took my legs, but you'll never take my life."
I saw in your ad, Pacman, that you believe NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell, who suspended you for conduct detrimental to the league, was giving you "unprecedented punishment."
Urbanski can relate to that. He's just trying to figure out what he did...


Nice find Dakota. Can't say I disagree with much of the slant presented here.
 

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I've changed my mind. Up to now, I thought that the season-long suspension would be adequate punishment. Now I see that Goodell is being far too lenient. Oh well. That's life, I guess.
 

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Disagree with it. I think it's an excellent article re a man who must deal with the aftermath of a malee to which he had no involvement but Pacman sure did. Frankly, I hope that somehow or other someone can come forward to confirm Pacman's involvement to the extent he faces a major lawsuit. Pacman is a thug and deserves whatever happens to him. I'm sure many on this board will somehow justify Pacman claiming he wasn't charged etc. What's that old saying, you are either part of the solution or part of the problem.

In separate story, I watched a television program this morning dealing with bullying in our schools. Seems that a 14 year old girl at her school became target of bunch of bullites cause she had a friend with an accent. When she had an epiletic (sp?) spell, they made even more fun of her and bullying got worse including physicals threats to her, etc. She moved on to another school and it started up there. Same went at the next school and including gang of kids surrounding her and threatening to beat her up. Don't know when it happened, but at some encounter her leg was broken. Her mother called some of the parents involved. While one parent sympathized, 6 of the other 7 were upset she contacted them and complained it was no big deal and why they being bothered. The girl and her mother then discovered her "I hate (her name was there) and urged kids to sign up; don't recall whether this site was on ******* or where. The girl constantly thought about committing suicide and won't tell her mother until her mother dropped the girl off at some kind of party and there some of the kids told the mother what was going on. Sounds to me that people like Pacman are alive and well in a lot of places in this country.

But the author of above article is certainly right. People like Pacman and those above bullies are cowards of the worst kind but in the girl's case above the parents of those kids are just as guilty cause they are enablers. And unfortunately I wonder how many on this board are the same.
 

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DallasEast;1520367 said:
I've changed my mind. Up to now, I thought that the season-long suspension would be adequate punishment. Now I see that Goodell is being far too lenient. Oh well. That's life, I guess.


Pacman, and all the other knuckleheads, got to decide if the wanna be ganstas or pro football players. Well, I guess Pacman has already made that decision. The Commish might make it for the rest of them.
 

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It's a tragic story - but Reilly's an idiot.

I'll take my journalism yellow. Thanks, Alex.
 

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I didn't read the article after the first couple paragraphs got annoyed.

Is there a civil suit against pacman? (yes I know the article wasn't about that)
 

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Anybody that pulls a weapon on somebody else, be it a gun or a knife, whether they use it or not ... well, we don't need them in society.
 

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superpunk;1520376 said:
It's a tragic story - but Reilly's an idiot.

I'll take my journalism yellow. Thanks, Alex.

I don't know what's so sensationlist about the article
 

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WV Cowboy;1520388 said:
Anybody that pulls a weapon on somebody else, be it a gun or a knife, whether they use it or not ... well, we don't need them in society.

Someone should probably tell the military. :eek::

Bob Sacamano;1520389 said:
I don't know what's so sensationlist about the article

Then I would likely be unable to explain it to you.

We'll say it's a tragic incident, and leave it there.
 

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superpunk;1520392 said:
Then I would likely be unable to explain it to you.

We'll say it's a tragic incident, and leave it there.

:rolleyes: :jerk:

Yellow journalism is a pejorative reference to journalism that features scandal-mongering, sensationalism, jingoism or other unethical or unprofessional practices by news media organizations or individual journalists.

punk, please point out to me any piece of that article that fits under the description of yellow journalism
 

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stealth;1520390 said:
did pacman shoot the guy?
pretty sure it wasn't him.
The guy was allegedly one of Pacman's posse. Does he not feel responsible at all for what happenned? I wonder if Pacman feels any obligation to assist financially with the medical bills?
 

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AtlCB;1520406 said:
The guy was allegedly one of Pacman's posse. Does he not feel responsible at all for what happenned? I wonder if Pacman feels any obligation to assist financially with the medical bills?


if I was pacman, I would pay the guys bills and call it a day.
He didn't shoot the guy.

In a point the finger kinda way or you are responsible for your friend's actions when you are with them angle ya he was at fault.

This guy the article is about is really unlucky for being in the wrong place at the wrong time, but from that point of view so was pacman.
The whole thing rings of stupidity from head to toe to me. The bar probably knew it was for show, the stripper got cute, and then pacman's posse got cuter. It really sounds like a bunch of morons involved. Darwin at work if you ask me. I have been called cold before though.
 

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dont bother with super. Nothing anyone says or does will convince him Pacman is a thug untill he is convicted in a court. Probably thinks OJ was innocent too.
 

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AtlCB;1520406 said:
The guy was allegedly one of Pacman's posse.
Are you sure about that?

I was under the impression that they have no idea who it was.

burmafrd;1520418 said:
dont bother with super. Nothing anyone says or does will convince him Pacman is a thug untill he is convicted in a court. Probably thinks OJ was innocent too.

Everytime I think "There's no way burmafrd can be THAT dense", you post something like that....and totally outdo yourself.
 
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