My stance has always been the same. Romo hasn't played his best in a lot of those "Tony Romo" games (might as well call them that since no other player in the history of the NFL seems to have an "elimination game" stat), but nobody else has done anything either. And I don't care how good of a QB you are, you're not going to win if you don't have a good team around you. For many years, Dallas has had a number of big name players (some with more name than game), but just hasn't had a very good team. Does the QB have something to do with that? Sure, but there have been so many games where Romo has been great, and the team still loses. How many times has the team won, when Romo didn't play well, or at least lead a drive at the end of the game to win it? How many times has he put the team in position to win, or kept the team in the game, only to see us lose?
It's not that Romo doesn't have poor games. He does, just like every other QB out there. And yes, sometimes it comes in big games - just like every other QB out there.
My problem comes when people want to throw out the idea that Romo is the main reason - and sometimes the only reason - why the team hasn't had much success. That's just lazy, ESPN/NFLN shove-an-agenda-down-your-throat thinking. When was the last time we had a really good defense? One that could be counted on to keep things under control when the offense sputtered? When was the last time we had really good coaching?
Romo isn't on the same level with Brady, or Brees, or Rodgers. He has had bad games at bad times. But you put him on the Seahawks last year, he has a SB ring. You put him on the Ravens two years ago, and give him all the help and breaks that Flacco had, he has a ring. Put him on the Giants three years ago, and give him all the help and breaks that Eli had, he has a ring. The QB is arguably the most important player on a team, but it is still a team game, and the team wins because it's the better team. We haven't been.