What I've learned from this season...

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In a post, on a different forum it was asked what we have learned from this season. I started with a short and to the point answer which slowly mutated in what follows which warranted a new thread and I decided to share it with you guys, as well...

Despite the suffering I endured, I learned quite a bit about the little things. In a season where your expectations are marginal, you tend to not question all the bad things that can happen in a given season because you expected them. In 2007 my expectations were actually pretty low. Sure we were in the Play Offs the year prior, but we were all aware of our limitations at CB and so I felt are defense was going to get torched every week. My expectations came equipped with knowledge that this team was incomplete and could be exploited.

But in 2008, there wasn't a weakness to be found, for the exception of behind the QB and, hey, it's Romo, he doesn't get sacked. He's elusive. He's got a feel for the pocket. He knows how to avoid the defensive rush. Blah, blah, blah. CB was more than fortified with a healthy Newman and the additions of Pacman, Jenkins and Scandrick. Safety was manned by Pro Bowlers. The LB's and DL had a decent rotation. It was going to be the return of the Dooms Day defense coupled with an offense that outscored every team in the league the year prior. My expectations, needless to say, left no room for any excuses for failure, for the exception of injury.

And then injuries happened, but still...I had questions. And a good many of those questions were answered by my incessant need to feed off all things Dallas Cowboy's football related in any sports site available. And believe me, despite all that I already knew about this game I love, I learned so much more than all my years combined in this season alone because of this failure to my expectations. What did I learn?

You can't buy a Super Bowl. My boyhood perception of how the Cowboy's played other teams was somewhat skewed. I felt, they didn't simply win. They man-handled their opponents. I'm not sure how I missed it, but in hindsight, those games were hard. Every one of them was a mountain for that team to climb. My memories of Emmitt Smith play out like a highlight reel. But not every run Smith made yielded yards. Not every game was won with Emmitt's feet. Irvin didn’t make the acrobatic catch to win every game. Aikman, in his time, wasn't considered a great quarterback with the likes of Dan Marino, Joe Montana, John Elway, Jim Kelly, Phil Simms, Randall Cunningham, Warren Moon and Boomer Esiason playing at that time. They were in fact fallible. And character, well, the undesirables were starters on that roster too. . But everyone played and played hard. They worked together. It wasn't exactly what you would call a great composition of talent, either. There were players playing above their station, as the Super Bowl MVP of 1995 might have indicated.

I learned about the power of belief. Belief is a strong word in the world of football. I watched the interview of Ray Lewis prior to the Baltimore game assured in my own belief that the Cowboy's would win having the stronger offense in a game that featured two very stout defenses. But after the interview, I had my doubts. Why? You could see that Ray Lewis believed. And since we all know that he is what makes that defense play beyond their individual reputations, I knew that entire defense believed too. And then, when I saw their offense play with that same sense of entitlement to the win in this game, absolute dread seeped in. And harder still about that game is the Cowboys repeatedly gave me hope in that fourth quarter, only to see those hopes crashed on a shore of missed tackles and missed opportunities.

It reminded of something I remember seeing throughout that successful 2007 season. Remember Romo’s smile? Sure I wrote several articles about the power of his smile and how the offense seemingly played better when he wore that on his face. But I never really delved in, I don’t think, into what that smile meant. But I think we all know that ultimately it meant he believed. He believed in the plays being called, the players that surrounded him, and his ability to do whatever he wanted with that ball without contention. A fumble here, an interception there, but the next time we saw him in the huddle, there was that infectious smile again saying something like “Hey, will get them this time.” And typically he was right. He generally always followed up a bone headed mistake with something to make you forget all about it.

Throughout the offseason following the draft and through the preseason I had a sliver of a doubt about rather or not this collective of talent could play as a team. But that doubt was constantly assuaged away with sports analyst abroad stating with utter confidence this Cowboys team was going to be a force to be reckoned with. Like no team I have heard about in the preseason in years prior, this Cowboys team was the talk of the town with their impressive role call at training camp. This highlighted by the Hard Knocks crews turned the Cowboys into the ultimate Hollywood team. And with that, I wondered what type of effect it would have on these Cowboys. But I wanted to believe what they sold us: That’s part of being a member of the Cowboys. You have to get used to that attention because the Cowboys are America’s team. I learned that no football team is bulletproof to distraction; no body is immune to acting different under the encouragement of the stage lights. These guys, million dollar contract or not, are just like any of us.

The Texans in years past with David Carr under center taught us about how important the Offensive Line is, regardless of the other talent present on the field. But once again I made the mistake of believing irresponsible sports analyst who stated that the Cowboys OL are only second to the Browns, in terms of strength. Then, as the season progressed, I learned how he came to that determination; not through observation, but pure stats and a popularity contest known as the Pro Bowl. How effective were the passing and running games in the year prior? How often did the QB get sacked? Of these players, who went to the Pro Bowl? The first two questions could be answered naming one player: Tony Romo. He made both Jason Garrett and the Offensive Line look great! I was there; I saw it.

The last question answered itself over time. The Pro Bowl, unfortunately, take’s 1/3 of fans votes. And let’s face it, how many fans vote for players outside of their team? A huge bias is in place in the voting, and well, it pretty much has rendered the game to serving as an ability for a ‘popular’ player to petition for more money on his contract. But because some sport’s analyst from a credible source said my OL was great and I wanted to believe it, my questions of this assessment initially didn’t go very far…not until their performance demanded I do so. And to be honest, I was disgusted. Because I watched these players in the offseason and I saw that they thought very highly of themselves for all the recognition getting poured on them when any Cowboy faithful who watched the 2007 season should know these accolades were completely undeserved.

And so it is in the game football. Fans and analyst alike are not impervious to misleading concepts. As a fan I don’t watch every game and can’t expect a sport analyst to watch every game of the previous season for every team he decides to write an opinion on. But the ultimate lesson here, regardless of whose formula it is that measures performance, they are all based on stats which doesn’t always tell the whole story.

This leads me to my next lesson learned. The media is a monster; the worse kind of monster. Remember Aliens with Sigourney Weaver? The media is that kind of monster. You see, their pretty dangerous in their own right, but then their articles act like those spider-looking creatures with tails (or tales if you prefer) that plant little eggs in you which hatch and create more monsters. See the parallel? Then we get all these disciples regurgitating what was said by a previous reporter with an anonymous source and the epidemic spreads. This brings me to my last point:

This is my first year as a member of this forum. The phenomenon is fascinating that we see between wins and losses the Monday following the game. Contrary to what I felt would occur, there is actually more traffic following losses than there is wins. To me, I would think many would want to separate themselves from that disappointment for a few days before resuming their fanship. But not on this forum. Nope. Everyone has an opinion of who should be fired, who should be benched, and who should change as a player or coach. I've offered my opinion on these drastic changes a few times myself. Some even think posting suggestions of the Cowboys owner Jerry Jones firing the Cowboys GM Jerry Jones on billboards throughout the city will effect change in the Cowboys organization and are requesting donations of $5 from all those who agree.

Word? You think that might work? Sorry, I sense an epic fail in the making. Maybe if it was just a strange coincidence that both these individuals had the same name, just maybe, that would work. But we are talking about a wealthy man who made his money in oil. I’m sure he saw plenty of billboards suggesting he fire himself to save the environment and we all see how well he took that suggestion. He bought a football team with his earnings. He didn’t spend it repairing the environment or donating it all to some note worthy cause, though I’m sure he’s made a few contributions here and there that is not a drop in the bucket to his accumulative wealth; he purchased a football franchise to live out the ultimate Fantasy Football League and has been doing so now for twenty years.

So, write your letters. Sing your songs. Make your jokes. But know your role. As a fan, you are static. Your opinion does not effect change even if you have a plane with a huge banner circle Jerry Jones mansion. I have said it before: That is the rub of being a fan of anything in general; you share in the success and failures of outcomes you have nothing to do with as a spectator. It is a frustrating existence when your team loses. But the human condition forces us to believe that we can control all things, which is why we argue, debate, fight, and go to war. This concept in life is bigger than just the game of football. It affects everyone and everything around us. And when you broaden your view to see the big picture and all that it encompasses, such as the war, the suffering that surrounds us, the news filled with inhumanity in a world dominated by humans (irony intended), things like a losing season of your favorite football team seems so small. And that is the biggest lesson of them all…
 

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Nice post. I have to bookmark it before our next season opener. I refuse to be sucked in once again.
 

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If other posters don't read this it is a travesty.

Nice job. One of the best things I have read all off season so far.
 

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Undisputed;2558991 said:
Nice post. I have to bookmark it before our next season opener. I refuse to be sucked in once again.

or post it on your TV everytime the Cowboys play
 

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A very good post indeed. Something to ponder in times like these. haha i like my plans for change though.
 

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Did you say you wrote this? If so, great job. If not, it's stll a good post.
 

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jday;2558929 said:
So, write your letters. Sing your songs. Make your jokes. But know your role. As a fan, you are static. Your opinion does not effect change even if you have a plane with a huge banner circle Jerry Jones mansion.


I disagree.

Or at the very least THAT wont always be the case.

The future is here.
 

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YoMick;2559189 said:
I disagree.

Or at the very least THAT wont always be the case.

The future is here.

I agree with you disagreeing. :D Fans are NOT static.
 

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Rowdy;2559201 said:
I agree with you disagreeing. :D Fans are NOT static.


I listened to a CEO speak one time and he said... and I am paraphrasing.... but here goes....

"I am under no delusions that our company is successful because of our great ideas and product.... the company is successful because of YOU... the consumer"


'nuff said. I agree with the CEO.
 

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YoMick;2559214 said:
I listened to a CEO speak one time and he said... and I am paraphrasing.... but here goes....

"I am under no delusions that our company is successful because of our great ideas and product.... the company is successful because of YOU... the consumer"


'nuff said. I agree with the CEO.

I think I can safely assume, that CEO is not inventer or producer, but the manager type CEO. Without someone inventing computer, there is no "Consumer" of computer.

One can only consume what is available. YOu cannot something that is not present or created. Of course if there is no market or "consumer" for the product, then it will go away.

Bottom line, without a great product, the consumer will not be there. Ala without a good football team, fans will eventually stop rooting or stop buying tickets. But Fans didn't create Football.
 

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Well written and an interesting read. Although i disagree with many parts. To say the 90’s Cowboys were over achievers?

It wasn't exactly what you would call a great composition of talent, either.

Then you say this--

I learned about the power of belief...

Then say this later--

...Your opinion does not effect change...

Then ended with the “be quiet and sit in your pew” mentality that i can’t stand.
 

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Not to be unpleasant, because a lot of work clearly went into drafting this, but I don't understand the miniature love-in you guys are having on the actual points being made by the OP.

The ultimate position of the post, at least to me, seems to be that fans ought to feel ashamed of themselves when they get too angry about the outcome of a game, that they should resign themselves to the eternal ups and downs of fandom, that they should embrace their inability to effect change with respect to the team - all of which mean that we shouldn't pour so much of ourselves into writing suggestion threads that will never come true, writing "demand" threads that are little more than smoke wafting up to the rafters and arguing over subjects that will never have practical import. Instead, we should enjoy our team and the games they play, and once the whistle sounds, reengage ourselves in thinking about political prisoners in China, the plight of teenage militiamen in the Sudan and the fight to combat AIDS in Sierra Leone.

Honestly, get real. The truth is that so many fans of football, whether it's the Cowboys or Texans, Giants or Colts, watch football and love football as much because fandom is an escape from the stresses and annoyances and frustrations of the week than anything else. The sport is so broad and has so much to offer everyone, rich and poor, intellectual and imbecile, that the breadth of places it allows people to pour themselves is simply enormous.

Message boards happen to be what some people choose as a release - I can't comprehend why it would be surprising to you that the boards are more populated after a loss. It can be a release, every bit as much as people going to the gym after a rough day at the office or overeating or going out for a smoke - whatever helps someone get through. The threads about Jerry firing Jerry? A release for the original poster, who deep down had no misconception that it would really accomplish anything, but would get an emotional reaction from the comaraderie of finding people who agreed with him and the amusement of squabbling with those who didn't.

Advising us all to just "give it up" with respect to threads to nowhere misses the point, because the vast majority of these threads are hyperbolic threads put forth by people who are dealing with their frustrations in a reasonably healthy way and being joined by others doing the same. The people who agree find someone of a like mind, and the people who disagree have the ability to gain whatever self worth they gain by putting forth an opposite point, and all get to share in their fandom and something that links them with other people. Are you suggesting that any activity on the face of the planet that people go to to escape the stresses of life and find individual joy, or to release emotional frustration, if it is ultimately irrelevant to the world at large, should be forgone in favor of meditating on the cruelties of humanity across the globe?

Count me out.
 

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Shinywalrus;2559537 said:
Not to be unpleasant, because a lot of work clearly went into drafting this, but I don't understand the miniature love-in you guys are having on the actual points being made by the OP.

The ultimate position of the post, at least to me, seems to be that fans ought to feel ashamed of themselves when they get too angry about the outcome of a game, that they should resign themselves to the eternal ups and downs of fandom, that they should embrace their inability to effect change with respect to the team - all of which mean that we shouldn't pour so much of ourselves into writing suggestion threads that will never come true, writing "demand" threads that are little more than smoke wafting up to the rafters and arguing over subjects that will never have practical import. Instead, we should enjoy our team and the games they play, and once the whistle sounds, reengage ourselves in thinking about political prisoners in China, the plight of teenage militiamen in the Sudan and the fight to combat AIDS in Sierra Leone.

Honestly, get real. The truth is that so many fans of football, whether it's the Cowboys or Texans, Giants or Colts, watch football and love football as much because fandom is an escape from the stresses and annoyances and frustrations of the week than anything else. The sport is so broad and has so much to offer everyone, rich and poor, intellectual and imbecile, that the breadth of places it allows people to pour themselves is simply enormous.

Message boards happen to be what some people choose as a release - I can't comprehend why it would be surprising to you that the boards are more populated after a loss. It can be a release, every bit as much as people going to the gym after a rough day at the office or overeating or going out for a smoke - whatever helps someone get through. The threads about Jerry firing Jerry? A release for the original poster, who deep down had no misconception that it would really accomplish anything, but would get an emotional reaction from the comaraderie of finding people who agreed with him and the amusement of squabbling with those who didn't.

Advising us all to just "give it up" with respect to threads to nowhere misses the point, because the vast majority of these threads are hyperbolic threads put forth by people who are dealing with their frustrations in a reasonably healthy way and being joined by others doing the same. The people who agree find someone of a like mind, and the people who disagree have the ability to gain whatever self worth they gain by putting forth an opposite point, and all get to share in their fandom and something that links them with other people. Are you suggesting that any activity on the face of the planet that people go to to escape the stresses of life and find individual joy, or to release emotional frustration, if it is ultimately irrelevant to the world at large, should be forgone in favor of meditating on the cruelties of humanity across the globe?

Count me out.

Great post. Just Great. :bow:
 

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Shinywalrus;2559537 said:
Not to be unpleasant, because a lot of work clearly went into drafting this, but I don't understand the miniature love-in you guys are having on the actual points being made by the OP.

The ultimate position of the post, at least to me, seems to be that fans ought to feel ashamed of themselves when they get too angry about the outcome of a game, that they should resign themselves to the eternal ups and downs of fandom, that they should embrace their inability to effect change with respect to the team - all of which mean that we shouldn't pour so much of ourselves into writing suggestion threads that will never come true, writing "demand" threads that are little more than smoke wafting up to the rafters and arguing over subjects that will never have practical import. Instead, we should enjoy our team and the games they play, and once the whistle sounds, reengage ourselves in thinking about political prisoners in China, the plight of teenage militiamen in the Sudan and the fight to combat AIDS in Sierra Leone.

Honestly, get real. The truth is that so many fans of football, whether it's the Cowboys or Texans, Giants or Colts, watch football and love football as much because fandom is an escape from the stresses and annoyances and frustrations of the week than anything else. The sport is so broad and has so much to offer everyone, rich and poor, intellectual and imbecile, that the breadth of places it allows people to pour themselves is simply enormous.

Message boards happen to be what some people choose as a release - I can't comprehend why it would be surprising to you that the boards are more populated after a loss. It can be a release, every bit as much as people going to the gym after a rough day at the office or overeating or going out for a smoke - whatever helps someone get through. The threads about Jerry firing Jerry? A release for the original poster, who deep down had no misconception that it would really accomplish anything, but would get an emotional reaction from the comaraderie of finding people who agreed with him and the amusement of squabbling with those who didn't.

Advising us all to just "give it up" with respect to threads to nowhere misses the point, because the vast majority of these threads are hyperbolic threads put forth by people who are dealing with their frustrations in a reasonably healthy way and being joined by others doing the same. The people who agree find someone of a like mind, and the people who disagree have the ability to gain whatever self worth they gain by putting forth an opposite point, and all get to share in their fandom and something that links them with other people. Are you suggesting that any activity on the face of the planet that people go to to escape the stresses of life and find individual joy, or to release emotional frustration, if it is ultimately irrelevant to the world at large, should be forgone in favor of meditating on the cruelties of humanity across the globe?

Count me out.
Actually, I'm trying to keep things in perspective. It's the last stage in recovery from such a bitter end to what was already a dissappointing season. Ask my wife: when the Cowboys lose, she hates to be around me. I'm a huge fan and have been since I was a little boy. This was not intended to be a charge against the masses or to proport myself over others. If you interpreted it that way, I apologize. I too am guilty of joining in, but then again, win or lose, I'm always here. This is because I have a job that on average takes me half my day to finish and I have nothing better to do but sit in my cubicle and read/write about the Cowboys.
 

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Everlastingxxx;2559431 said:
Well written and an interesting read. Although i disagree with many parts. To say the 90’s Cowboys were over achievers?



Then you say this--



Then say this later--



Then ended with the “be quiet and sit in your pew” mentality that i can’t stand.
Wow! Just so we are all clear, while I did poke a little fun at the billboard idea, I did not intend this to be sermon...if it came off as preachy, my sincerest apologies.

Well written and an interesting read. Although i disagree with many parts. To say the 90’s Cowboys were over achievers?

I actually didn't say that. By "great composition of talent" I meant not every player on that team was a star. If they were, we wouldn't have what's known as the Triplets.

Then you say this--


Quote:
I learned about the power of belief...

Then say this later--


Quote:
...Your opinion does not effect change...

Then ended with the “be quiet and sit in your pew” mentality that i can’t stand.

Honestly, I hope no one took this as a suggestion that it is wrong to post on this site or to voice your opinion, because cleary I would be contradicting myself by posting this to begin with. That's not what I intended this to be about. This is about what I learned and how to gain a little perspective in the end to put a bandaid on a rather deep wound in my fan heart. Believe me, next year I'll be screaming at the television again, but my expectations will still be tempered, I won't be so gullible to the media, and at the end of the day should the Cowboys lose at some point I'm going have to come back to the reality of the situation: There is nothing I could have done to change the outcome of that game - that is what I meant about fans being static. Obviously buying their merchandise and tickets to the game helps support that franchise; that is not debatable.
 

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It is true that, as a lifer-fan, "how" the Cowboys do or don't do has no impact on my life in real terms. Unless you're an over-zealous betting man, and habitually wager the milk and mortgage money on the Dallas Cowboys week-in and week-out, a 1-15 season or a SB Trophy bears little to no impact upon my (and your) daily affairs. Our health, our finances, our families, raising our kids or taking care of our parents, our careers, etc, etc,..............
The hour-by-hour, day-by-day minutia and decisions we make, by the hundreds per day, are not either swayed or effected on yesterdays win or loss. We grown-ups know this, no matter how many jerseys we own or license plate holders we put on our trucks.
However, because life can be both rewarding and difficult at times, diversions and entertainment can and does play a large part in escaping from some of the listings above. America's "pass time" used to be only MLB. But, "pass time" in our generation can be, of course any sport you enjoy following, playing video games, spending time with family. Whatever your cup of tea, as long as you're not breaking any laws or hurting others.
Think about how you feel, on a Thursday at 5:00, during another work week where you are once again fulfilling your responsibilities of work, providing, sheltering, etc............And in your mind, you know that the weekend is fast approaching. Another Friday, Saturday, and Sunday like thousands of weekends before. What's so special that has your mind and wiring seeing "visions of sugar plums" again in your head?
Your personal "pass time" is approaching again. Those 48-50-some hours that you usually get to call "your own". Hours that the world and the economy and job and the bank DOESN'T own YOU or DICTATE to you. There's the freedom and enjoyment rush in your brain, on that Thursday at 5:00, knowing that "one more shift", one more day, and I'm once again in la-la land, even if only for a few hours.
For us Cowboy fans, and for sports fans across the board...........every sport, every season, whatever.................THAT'S when being simply a fan becomes important and real. Because every and all mental health workers agree that, without a "pass time", and outlet, without rewarding yourself in the short term entertaining yourself with activities and things that you enjoy, you'll "burn-out". I know that we save and plan and make good for the "long haul" in life. But we also need to savor and enjoy the fruits of our labors short term.
The Dallas Cowboys provide some of that for folks around these parts. And it is "real" and tangible and rewarding and escapist to wrap our minds around the entire ball of wax beginning with the anticipation of the game(s) approaching this weekend. The actual arrival and watching of the game, and the release AFTERWARDS of either our elation or disappointments.

So, I get what the OP is saying. But being "only" and "insignificant" fan may be true in Jerry's world, or the media's world. In the players world. Yeah, maybe. But in our world, being a fan "greases the wheels" of life and provides "pass time", enjoyment, release and maybe even a little escape before suiting up for OUR game again on Monday mornings.
 

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RCowboyFan;2559249 said:
I think I can safely assume, that CEO is not inventer or producer, but the manager type CEO. Without someone inventing computer, there is no "Consumer" of computer.

One can only consume what is available. YOu cannot something that is not present or created. Of course if there is no market or "consumer" for the product, then it will go away.

Bottom line, without a great product, the consumer will not be there. Ala without a good football team, fans will eventually stop rooting or stop buying tickets. But Fans didn't create Football.



You are psychoanalyzing my post too much. My point, which is crystal clear is... the fans are not static and they do affect "things".
 

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It is true that, as a lifer-fan, "how" the Cowboys do or don't do has no impact on my life in real terms. Unless you're an over-zealous betting man, and habitually wager the milk and mortgage money on the Dallas Cowboys week-in and week-out, a 1-15 season or a SB Trophy bears little to no impact upon my (and your) daily affairs. Our health, our finances, our families, raising our kids or taking care of our parents, our careers, etc, etc,..............
The hour-by-hour, day-by-day minutia and decisions we make, by the hundreds per day, are not either swayed or effected on yesterdays win or loss. We grown-ups know this, no matter how many jerseys we own or license plate holders we put on our trucks.
However, because life can be both rewarding and difficult at times, diversions and entertainment can and does play a large part in escaping from some of the listings above. America's "pass time" used to be only MLB. But, "pass time" in our generation can be, of course any sport you enjoy following, playing video games, spending time with family. Whatever your cup of tea, as long as you're not breaking any laws or hurting others.
Think about how you feel, on a Thursday at 5:00, during another work week where you are once again fulfilling your responsibilities of work, providing, sheltering, etc............And in your mind, you know that the weekend is fast approaching. Another Friday, Saturday, and Sunday like thousands of weekends before. What's so special that has your mind and wiring seeing "visions of sugar plums" again in your head?
Your personal "pass time" is approaching again. Those 48-50-some hours that you usually get to call "your own". Hours that the world and the economy and job and the bank DOESN'T own YOU or DICTATE to you. There's the freedom and enjoyment rush in your brain, on that Thursday at 5:00, knowing that "one more shift", one more day, and I'm once again in la-la land, even if only for a few hours.
For us Cowboy fans, and for sports fans across the board...........every sport, every season, whatever.................THAT'S when being simply a fan becomes important and real. Because every and all mental health workers agree that, without a "pass time", and outlet, without rewarding yourself in the short term entertaining yourself with activities and things that you enjoy, you'll "burn-out". I know that we save and plan and make good for the "long haul" in life. But we also need to savor and enjoy the fruits of our labors short term.
The Dallas Cowboys provide some of that for folks around these parts. And it is "real" and tangible and rewarding and escapist to wrap our minds around the entire ball of wax beginning with the anticipation of the game(s) approaching this weekend. The actual arrival and watching of the game, and the release AFTERWARDS of either our elation or disappointments.

So, I get what the OP is saying. But being "only" and "insignificant" fan may be true in Jerry's world, or the media's world. In the players world. Yeah, maybe. But in our world, being a fan "greases the wheels" of life and provides "pass time", enjoyment, release and maybe even a little escape before suiting up for OUR game again on Monday mornings.

Great post...but just so I'm clear, are you debating something I said?
 
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