We know for a fact the Cowboys want guys who LOVE Football. Guys who love the game more than almost anything else outside of family.
I can only imagine that also want guys who aren't going to distract their teammates (IE TO) to a point where can cause even more drama that doesn't relate to football. We have enough football drama to deal with. Clock management, play calling, injuries, etc. Amen?
So you take a guy like Burficitz (SP) off your board because he showed that for that 1 most important season of his football life, he mailed it in. Not only did he disrespect the game of football by not playing with everything he had but he also showed that he didn't care about his teammates. MAJOR RED FLAG.
Now You see how much talent he actually has and My goodness we all saw how devastatingly good he was in college.
Here's the problem though. Something has shown up in his character to make quite a few teams feel that he will be a major problem down the road. One that they don't want sitting in their locker room ticking like a time bomb. Not worth the risk of putting your money, time, effort, or energy into.
Think Duke Basketball. That's what Jason Garrett envisions this team to be. Not the Jimmy Johnson led Miami Hurricanes. He wants a long lasting career as the head coach of the Dallas Cowboys. Jimmy hasn't had that anywhere but Fox.
Garrett has to do it his way because once it's all said and done, he will be judged by his results. Those results have to come from what he embodies as a coach and person. None of us would do it "someone else's way" would we?
You have to know that once He took over this job, He and Jerry fully discussed that. While Garrett has certain ingredients that I'm sure he feels he must have to do this job his way he also understands that sometimes you have go outside your comfort zone or you might be the only one in your comfort zone.
Each player is different and I'm sure each situation is scrutinized a million times over. At the end of the day you have go with what YOU feel is best. Not just for right now either, it has to be judged based On the long term. I'm sure that's why you see a guy like Leary signed as a UDFA but others taken off the board completely.