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So I am in the market to get a new home. The homes here in Anchorage are pretty expensive, mainly because there just isn't anywhere to build single family homes within the city limits anymore. It's pretty much all built up and the zoning in the city is a JOKE.
The stickler is that I am trying to decide what to do. The home I really want is about 20k more than what I would like to spend. It's a gorgeous home w/ plenty of space for my son and I, probably too much but I am not moving anytime soon. It sits on a corner lot and faces the sunshine all day and has major upgrades throughout the home. The house also sits near the schools I want my son to attend.
It hasn't been on the market but a couple of weeks atm, and I would hate to miss out on it. I am just trying to decide if I want to spend the monthly payment it would cost me. I make pretty good money and after budgeting w/ utils and everything I expect from owning it plus all of my outgoing costs on other debt, it leaves me about 28% of my monthly take home left over for personal savings/w/e $$. Is that not enough? Would this be what they call "house poor"?
Another thing I am curious about is say I like the home and want to make an offer, what offer should I turn in w/o insulting the seller? I know you have to start somewhere, but I honestly don't know where to begin.
Where should I come in at if I wanted them to assist in closing costs and less asking price?
If you have any input, it would be appreciated.
Thanks guys/girls.
The stickler is that I am trying to decide what to do. The home I really want is about 20k more than what I would like to spend. It's a gorgeous home w/ plenty of space for my son and I, probably too much but I am not moving anytime soon. It sits on a corner lot and faces the sunshine all day and has major upgrades throughout the home. The house also sits near the schools I want my son to attend.
It hasn't been on the market but a couple of weeks atm, and I would hate to miss out on it. I am just trying to decide if I want to spend the monthly payment it would cost me. I make pretty good money and after budgeting w/ utils and everything I expect from owning it plus all of my outgoing costs on other debt, it leaves me about 28% of my monthly take home left over for personal savings/w/e $$. Is that not enough? Would this be what they call "house poor"?
Another thing I am curious about is say I like the home and want to make an offer, what offer should I turn in w/o insulting the seller? I know you have to start somewhere, but I honestly don't know where to begin.
Where should I come in at if I wanted them to assist in closing costs and less asking price?
If you have any input, it would be appreciated.
Thanks guys/girls.