My personal tipping point came when I realized this is just a game. It is owned by billionaires, played by millionaires and neither cares as much about winning as the fans do.
I know that is hard for some to accept, that playing football is just a job but that's all it is. It is a fun job to some of them but it is still a job.
I am not dependent on what any team does for my happiness and refuse to get bummed by any of them. Being a fan allows for certain forgiveness to oneself for getting a little crazy but passion is a true force.
I have approached an area that I never thought I would reach and I do not know if it is just aging or conditioning to expectations but I watch with a level of detachment. I used to use the term "we" to discuss my teams and now it is "them".
And as I like to do when the occasion arises, I used to be a rabid fan and by rabid I mean nobody wanted to be around me when we were losing. I was a total jerk. I regret that so much now but the best I can do is not be that guy and I am not. Please, if you feel you are approaching being that guy, take yourself out to the woods and kick your own butt. It is just a game and not worth it. Games are supposed to be fun.
I’m there too. I long ago stopped letting a loss or disappointment in sports spoil even an hour of my life. My sports appetite is all about enjoying the experience. I want the Cowboys (and my other favorite sports teams like the Mavs, Texas Tech football and basketball) to win. But if they don’t, it changes nothing about my life.
Maybe that’s just a by product of being older; maybe it’s the perspective that time brings but whatever happens with the Cowboys changes nothing about my health or happiness. I want them to win as they are my childhood team that my dad, brother and I all bonded around. I have seen every single Cowboys playoff game since 1966- all on television. So many fond memories with my family where the Cowboys were the backdrop.
For that reason alone I have stayed loyal because I refuse to let the Jones buffoons steal the joy I once had about being a Cowboys fan. I will always want them to win. I no longer expect anything but what we’ve been getting. With the Jones way of running this thing, it is clear unless they take a backseat, only a stunning miracle of planet alignment would allow them to win anything of consequence.
With the current way this organization is run, it is more likely to snow in Dallas on the 4th of July than the Cowboys winning a SB.