Hostile;3182946 said:
Yawn at tough talking about over protective fathers. Have a daughter of your own and you will probably join the ranks of over protective fathers.
No one, and I mean no one, no matter how big and tough they are, or think they are, is going to come into my home and tell me where they are sleeping if they are not married to one of my two girls. I don't care if they knock knees regularly in their own homes. That is their house. They will respect the rules of my home, or the big bad tough guy won't need to even bother unpacking his suitcase. And he'd better have enough money for McDonalds or something else because I won't be feeding him either.
My home is always open, but not to anyone who thinks they are anything but a guest in my home and will abide by my rules.
Hey I don't disagree with ya Hosty, your house your rules, can't argue with that, nor would I try. I made it a point to say I'd never fight someone's dad, nor would I pull some tough guy routine. My size is merely a reason why I've probably never felt "Intimidated" by a father. NOt because I can beat them up, but because it's hard to feel intimidation from someone smaller than you.
I have little respect for people who vilify sex. If done responsibly there is nothing wrong with it. I don't go over to my GF's father's house and bang his daughter there, I do find that somewhat disrespectful if they arn't comfortable with it, but to be told we can't sleep (just sleep) in the same bed, is insulting. I won't argue, I won't even question it, I will merely act the proper guest in his home, then when it's time for bed, go back to my Hotel room/house. No big deal.
A man's home is his castle. 20+ years of being around and hundreds of overnight stays and I still ask my father-in-law if I may have a beer or soda from his fridge. Plus it's his tv remote.
This is a respect thing that I completely agree with. A guest is a guest, behave like one.
Until you have a daughter of your own. You have ZERO cred here.
Hope you realize that. How many kids do you have? hmm?
Classic defense/response. I have no children. People always say this, and far be it from me to say they are incorrect, but I disagree. Maybe we'll find out one day? I have some very deep set core beliefs about raising children that I find it hard to belief I will stray from simply because actually seeing my chlid is going to crush every opinion I've ever held on such things.
Again though, I have no children so ignore my opinion if you will.
That's a great story. You're quite the stud!
So, are you and the slutty GF still together?
Me and my Slutty GF just celebrated our 4th year together, and have been living together for 2 years now. We are terribly wicked and evil people for having sex before marrige, and having sex 4 months into our relationship (which only happened because she was a virgin at the time, while I wasn't, I waited until she was ready). We've never been in an argument, and I mean that in the most literal sense, not one argument ever, not over anything stupid, or anything serious.
I feel amazingly lucky to have found her, she's the light of my life. I have a fantastic relationship with her Father, and she has a fantastic relationship with my Mother (our other parents are deceased). Her father had major problems with me initially because I was an athiest, and he raised her southern baptist, but he got over it once he got to know me and we've been friends ever since.
Whats worse, my slutty GF has 1 year left before she gets her Bachalors degree in teaching! Her evil *** is going to be teaching children, isn't it awful? The poor children! She specializes in special needs kids, and works as a substitue teacher for SE class rooms, while working full time, and going to school. How we find time to have our dirty ritualistic sex, I'll never know.
We are such horrible people. All liberals must burn. Right?
Anyhow. My initial post came off incorrectly. I never intended to seem like I was acting like a "tough guy". I'm a very respectful person, especially to her father. He never refused me being able to sleep in her bed, and had he, like I said, there are plenty of hotels for us to sleep at near where he lives. Furthermore, we don't have sex over there, but that's mostly because she has a younger sister.
On the otherhand, the first time we slept at my mothers house, we had sex, because my mom understands that adults do that sort of stuff, and it doesn't bother her at all, thus no disrespect to her.
Fun times though. I love my slutty GF and her family.
Johnny cash still owns. And I sang a boy named sue last week at Karaoke.