I think the difference between a kicker and the other position players, like Bledsoe, Newman, Davis, etc, is that those players are on the field contributing play after play after play...you expect some mistakes like Bledsoe's int, Newman's drop, and Davis's missed tackle. However, they are on the field contributing positively on 40-60 other plays, giving them a chance to make up for it, giving them an extremely high percentage of successful plays that kept us in the game, whether it was with passes defensed, tackles made, or passes thrown and td's scored.
The kicker is here to kick-off and make fg's. Cundiff had 1 fg attempt. It was from 34 yards, a distance most kickers are almost automatic from. I can guarantee you Parcells wasn't covering his eyes and praying for that kick to go through...he expected it to go through. Cundiff didn't get the job done on the 1 play of the entire game where he was expected to help us win.
In fact, you are correct about the game being won on many other occasions. But you are wrong, imo, for deflecting blame from Cundiff. There's a reason Cortez and Suisham were both cut. Other games could have and should have been won by anyone else making a play or a coach calling the right play as well. But with kickers, they are paid a lot of money to go out there and make the 34 yarder late in the fourth quarter when everyone else has battled their guts out.
Kickers aren't perfect, but Cundiff didn't do his job, and it played a huge role in our losing the game. Let's not forget that while the Bronco's would have been playing the final minutes differently trailing by 3, that we also would have been playing defense differently if leading by 3...that missed kick was demoralizing and planted the "oh no" thought in everyone's minds, not just the fans.
Let Cundiff miss another of those at crunch time and you'll find that Parcells has a slightly different view of who lost the game. Cundiff blew it...he shouldn't be fired, but he is on notice....if there was a consistent kicker available, he'd be a Cowboy, but we have to deal with what we have.