I stopped getting mad after witnessing players laugh with the opponent after a loss while I was ready to jump off the roof. It's just a game. To them, it's a job, and they say all the right things to keep the money rolling in.
Case in point: I forget the year, but we were playing the girls in green. End of the game, and they were driving. McFlabb just ran for a first down, and was forced out of bounds by Bradie James. That put them in FG range. I was livid. Beyond myself. Then I saw the replay and saw Bradie laughing with McFlabb as they walked back onto the field. Will never forget it.
Ever since then I've been a changed man.