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Gay group calls for Dan Hampton to apologize for Cowboys 'Brokeback' comment

Posted at 11:26 PM on Tue., Sep. 7, 2010 | Permalink | Yahoo! Buzz
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The Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation has called for Hall of Famer Dan Hampton to apologize for referring to the Dallas Cowboys as more 'Brokeback' than Eastwood.

In a statement on its blog, a GLAAD official writes: "Hampton was trying to insult the Cowboys by comparing them to gay people - simple as that. Hampton wasn't actually saying the Cowboys players are gay, but by making this comment, Hampton telegraphed to his audience that gay men are not good enough, just as he doesn't believe the Dallas Cowboys are good enough. Hampton needs to apologize for this offensive and defamatory statement, just as he needed to apologize for his Katrina comment. We will be calling Pro Football Weekly to voice our concerns."

Read more: http://cowboysblog.***BANNED-URL***/archives/2010/09/dan-hampton-aplogies-for-katri.html
 

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Arch Stanton;3538419 said:
Gay group calls for Dan Hampton to apologize for Cowboys 'Brokeback' comment

Posted at 11:26 PM on Tue., Sep. 7, 2010 | Permalink | Yahoo! Buzz
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The Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation has called for Hall of Famer Dan Hampton to apologize for referring to the Dallas Cowboys as more 'Brokeback' than Eastwood.

In a statement on its blog, a GLAAD official writes: "Hampton was trying to insult the Cowboys by comparing them to gay people - simple as that. Hampton wasn't actually saying the Cowboys players are gay, but by making this comment, Hampton telegraphed to his audience that gay men are not good enough, just as he doesn't believe the Dallas Cowboys are good enough. Hampton needs to apologize for this offensive and defamatory statement, just as he needed to apologize for his Katrina comment. We will be calling Pro Football Weekly to voice our concerns."

Read more: http://cowboysblog.***BANNED-URL***/archives/2010/09/dan-hampton-aplogies-for-katri.html

Well that does it! Gay people are actually offended by being compared to the Dallas Cowboys. Our beloved franchise has sunk to new lows. No wonder Awakened is fading as a fan.:p:
 

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Arch Stanton;3538419 said:
Gay group calls for Dan Hampton to apologize for Cowboys 'Brokeback' comment

Posted at 11:26 PM on Tue., Sep. 7, 2010 | Permalink | Yahoo! Buzz
SportsDayDFW sports Bio | E-mail | News tips
The Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation has called for Hall of Famer Dan Hampton to apologize for referring to the Dallas Cowboys as more 'Brokeback' than Eastwood.

In a statement on its blog, a GLAAD official writes: "Hampton was trying to insult the Cowboys by comparing them to gay people - simple as that. Hampton wasn't actually saying the Cowboys players are gay, but by making this comment, Hampton telegraphed to his audience that gay men are not good enough, just as he doesn't believe the Dallas Cowboys are good enough. Hampton needs to apologize for this offensive and defamatory statement, just as he needed to apologize for his Katrina comment. We will be calling Pro Football Weekly to voice our concerns."

Read more: http://cowboysblog.***BANNED-URL***/archives/2010/09/dan-hampton-aplogies-for-katri.html

.....:busty:
 

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I don't really get why some are so offended by this. I lived in New Orleans (Belle Chasse) for 3 years, including when Katrina hit. I lost stuff and people that I knew. It was a terrible disaster. However, this is just some trash talk related to football. He obviously doesn't wish another hurricane to hit the city of New Orleans. He's not wishing another disaster, he's just talking trash. Whatever. I'm not the slightest bit offended.

I know it was probably ill-advised, but really, people just need to man up and move on.

Keep in mind that I don't like this turd, either. I just hate when people ride something forever, thinking the whole world eternally owes them sympathy. Some of my best friends still live there and they don't act like that.
 

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Venger;3537900 said:
Because Katrina left New Orleans in a shambles. Metaphor accomplished.

Should people killed in the collapse of the WTC be offended by getting hit like a ton of bricks?

How about people who have been killed in a collusion with a Mack truck?

Each of your examples can be offensive to those *keen to be offended*. In this age of candy-***** victimology, there is always someone, somewhere ready to feel sorry for themselves and tear their clothes in phony consternation.

New Orleans is going down like the Titanic!

It's football. I think the seats for the sport some of you are looking for are in the ladies room...
Couldn't have said it better.:starspin
 

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PBJTime;3538513 said:
I know it was probably ill-advised, but really, people just need to man up and move on.

Most people have. The outrage is currently coming from people who are offended that Hampton had the audacity to apologize. Yet somehow, it's Katrina victims who are thin-skinned.
 

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Venger;3538300 said:
It must be more fun to play the timid, thin-chested (but grown-up - snicker) business PR flack ever so constipatedly uptight that someone, somewhere might put the blame for all their troubles on what Dan Hampton might say. This nonsensical issue is the result of a press vacuum - nothing going on so we'll expand whatever enters to fill a news cycle.

I'm sorry, I honestly have no idea what coherent point is supposed to be contained in these run-on sentences. I assume the point is to prove that you're an unashamedly politically incorrect guy who doesn't care what people think? If so, cool story bro.

I am the boss, and I'll say as I please. If it means retaining customers who aren't uptight and losing the kind of customer who is a constant minefield of obsessions and sensitivities, good RIDDANCE. Ask any businessperson - there are customers not...worth...having...
And I contend that a businessman who is so quick to get defensive and place customers in that category is perhaps more thin-skinned than these Katrina victims.

"GRRRR I'M A MAN I DON'T TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY ACTIONS!"

unless you are arguing that Hampton's comments endangered the NFL's business model.
He doesn't work for the NFL.
 

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NinePointOh;3538521 said:
Most people have. The outrage is currently coming from people who are offended that Hampton had the audacity to apologize. Yet somehow, it's Katrina victims who are thin-skinned.

I'm not outraged that he apologized. He did what he had to do because of the overwhelming number of people who are offended and faux-offended, I assume.

Then there are those who have NO connection to the city of New Orleans, whatsover, who are offended because he offended people.

It's absurd that it had to come to an apology. His comment had no real bearing on anybody's life.
 

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NinePointOh;3538527 said:
I'm sorry, I honestly have no idea what coherent point is supposed to be contained in these run-on sentences. I assume the point is to prove that you're an unashamedly politically incorrect guy who doesn't care what people think? If so, cool story bro.

And I contend that a businessman who is so quick to get defensive and place customers in that category is perhaps more thin-skinned than these Katrina victims.

"GRRRR I'M A MAN I DON'T TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY ACTIONS!"

I don't see how standing for a certain set of values and setting boundaries can be considered irresponsible...

Sometimes people decide what they are and aren't willing to tolerate, and then adhere to that. There is nothing wrong with that.
 

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PBJTime;3538537 said:
I don't see how standing for a certain set of values and setting boundaries can be considered irresponsible...

Sometimes people decide what they are and aren't willing to tolerate, and then adhere to that. There is nothing wrong with that.

Hey, you have a very durable and good set of defining criteria I have noticed. And I presume, Marine. I was a 'dogface.'
 

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Venger;3538357 said:
This is your response - an emoticon. Way to stake out the intellectual high ground.
"Emoticon" hate. :rolleyes: *oops*
Venger;3538357 said:
Well who can argue with such a detailed and rhetorically significant argument like that? I guess it's all settled, the metaphor was "not needed". Is there a flow chart or database somewhere we can tap into to know when the "needed" metaphors are required? What kind of argument is that? Are you a linguistic syntactician? Exactly what are you qualifications for determining which metaphors are indeed needed and not needed? Jeez...
You are overreacting. Answers: 1) No one should; 2) No; 3) It is not an argument. It is a statement and reasonable one at that. 4) No (and you are really overreacting now); 5) My "qualifications" should be the same as any other "reasonable" human being. You have taken the stance that any statement can be offensive to any and everyone. In the literal sense, that could be correct; but in the real world which we both live in, that does not happen.

On the one hand, Hampton's comment may or may not have been offensive to members of the New Orleans Saints; but it was taken as offensive by some members of the city and the region. Not all, but some. That is the consequence of making an insensitive remark as he did.

On the other hand, it is highly unlikely that anyone, both within or outside the region would consider any of my examples as offensive to the degree as you would suggest. Mine were taken from commonly used phrases of speech. Any reasonable individual (or at least I thought were reasonable) has not observed others reacting overtly negatively to the examples which I suggested after hearing or reading them.

Venger;3538357 said:
Sigh... pedantic non-response. The point is that even YOUR phrases can be offensive to a group looking to take offense.
In the literal sense, you are right. Using an example which you gave in a previous post, I am sure that someone with access to broadcast or print media such as Hampton, has addressed comments, directed solely towards New York City residents, that someone or some organization should hit them like a ton of bricks.

However, the question would then arise in the course of discussion if that particular commentator qualified his statement by intentionally associating "a ton of bricks" as those (literally) which fell during the most worse blatant act of terrorism which the country has ever suffered. Would someone consciously and willfully state something such as "The Minnesota Vikings should hit the New York Giants like the ton of bricks which fell from the Twin Towers"?

Of course, that could happen. Has it happened? I am asking because I do not know. What I do know (and what I assume any reasonable person would as well) is that both "ton of bricks" comments would not be taken equally by its intended audience. The previous comment is taken from common speech. The latter is purposely associating deadly debris from an actual traumatic event in U.S. history. Question: Is this particular example really how you see everything spoken by anyone as being nonoffensive to everyone else?
Venger;3538357 said:
Really! What insight to see such a nuanced distinction... the thing is, had you addressed the point - that, again, violent metaphors all carry groups that can take offense should they so choose - we'd be further along.
Hampton's comment was taken as offensive to a set group. Regardless of whether he considered the aftereffects of his comment, that was his intention. Maybe you can provide quantifiable examples of "groups", large or small, whom have taken comments such as my examples as offensive as well.
Venger;3538357 said:
Again, you are missing something called "the point". There is a difference between giving, and taking, offense. Given the oversensitivities on display it can be taken where it isn't given, even in what you think are your "safe" examples.
I have not missed the point which you are maligning for your own self-interest. The natural disaster which ravaged the Gulf Coast has not been forgotten by the citizens which endured its wrath. Some of those same people, which numbers in the hundreds of thousands, heard or read Hampton's comments. They associated his phraseology with an event which changed forever their lives profoundly and fundamentally either personally or familially.

You believe that this particular group should just "shake it off" and "not take things personally". Unfortunately, it is not human nature to consciously adopt amnesia after living through traumatic events and your indifference to their feelings on the matter will not enact that change as well.
Venger;3538357 said:
I am not sure if you are being deliberately obtuse or not - this is like arguing with Rainman. Why is a sports metaphor regarding something that killed 1700 people okay on hand A, but not on hand B? Again, it's all back to taking offense, isn't it. Why are 1700 dead passengers "needed" for your sports metaphor, but 1700 dead Louisianan's "not needed"? Is it okay to hit the Dolphins like a hurricane? How about the Texans? Should it, for the sake of trembling cowardice everywhere, only be reserved for non-tropical locales? What hath female hormones in the water supply wrought?
:rolleyes: *oops*

1. Hampton did not just say hurricane. New Orleans and the Gulf Region have endured many hurricanes for nearly two centuries. He singled out and associated one of the most devastating hurricanes in history. While all human life is precious, the deaths of thousands of people due to natural disaster are commonly horrific milestones within the human psyche and are not considered as equal to that sustained by a few or only one or none at all.

Hampton did not thumb through American meteorological history, selected a hurricane which came ashore and inflicted minimal damage and/or loss of life. He picked Katrina. That was his intent. He wanted the association to qualify his comment. Perhaps it seems reasonable to some that all "natural disasters" are equal and the same, but they are not. Hurricanes (plural), in particular, hit the United States every single year. Category Four and Five hurricanes do not and occasionally some do not cause the loss of life in the magnitude which Hampton pinned his words onto.

2. The team and city of Miami have endured hurricanes (again plural) as well. Even their most visible university's nickname reflects them. However, while you may neither understand nor see it, there would be a marked difference between Hampton (for instance) stating that, "The Minnesota Vikings should hit the Dolphins like a hurricane" and "The Minnesota Vikings should hit the Dolphins like Hurricane Alex" (which the city fortunately did not suffer a direct impact from).

3. (see #2)

4. Devastation and loss of large numbers of human lives are not overlooked by some. Any form of devastating disaster, whether natural or manmade, should be solemnly reflected upon. That would be a reasonable mindset for some. Others would may say, "meh. get over it".

5. You are still overreacting.
Venger;3538357 said:
Oh gee, self righteousness - who'd have guessed... you're fighting for good - how heroic of you! What time are you and the other Superfriends getting together at the Hall of Justice?
Well, I always fancied myself being Black Lightning!!! Still, that guy never wore pants...

Maybe it was because his legs transformed into lightning..?

Ah, who cares? A superhero wearing short-shorts while fighting crime? I don't THINK so! :mad:

*oops*
 

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PBJTime;3538531 said:
I'm not outraged that he apologized. He did what he had to do because of the overwhelming number of people who are offended and faux-offended, I assume.

Then there are those who have NO connection to the city of New Orleans, whatsover, who are offended because he offended people.

And then there are still others who are offended that he "had" to apologize for offending people. But which of these offended groups insists they have thick skins?

PBJTime;3538537 said:
I don't see how standing for a certain set of values and setting boundaries can be considered irresponsible...

A "certain set of values" can mean just about anything. Do your "values" really include feeling self-entitled to say whatever you want to your paying customers without ever apologizing to them? If so, that's your own choice, but you'd probably want to avoid going into service industries.

You can beat your chest all you want, but if you want to get anywhere in business, in marriage, or in life, sometimes it means you do have to man up and issue an apology, even if you don't think what you did was that bad.

Sometimes people decide what they are and aren't willing to tolerate, and then adhere to that. There is nothing wrong with that.
Unless, of course, you happen to disagree with what they're willing to tolerate, right?

There's something wrong with Katrina victims being offended by Hampton's comments, but there's nothing wrong with "politically incorrect" junkies being offended by the fact that he felt the need to apologize.
 

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31smackdown;3537171 said:
I guess I'm just insensitive but I wasn't offended.. Did anyone actually think that he was wishing bad things on the city and trying to inflict emotional pain on people? .. It's an analogy...

If a fight commentator in reference to a smaller guy taking down a bigger guy said " he crumbled like the twin towers" is that supposed to upset me because he referenced a historical disaster which caused widespread and personal grief?

I could see if the small guy was muslim and the large guy was from NY.. it would illicit a "that's kind of messed up" response.. but why do people get so angry and offended? ... because it's deemed as poor taste? ..because they are referencing a negative and sad event? .. these things still happened .. they should be able to be referenced.. it's different than saying something like "I wish another Katrina on the city" .. he's not actually implying ill-will towards people.. he saying Minnesota has to go down there and "destroy" them "on the field" . But I guess he should have just said that because that would be more acceptable to just say destroy the other team and leave the city out of it.. as if he actually meant they should go down and ransack the city.

Sometimes I think people just like to act offended and slighted and make things personal for no reason other than to make themselves feel more important and righteous.

I agree, this is just ridiculous. The Vikings are not a Hurricane and they are not going to tear anyones building down obviously. He wants to destroy the football team, the Saints, like Katrina did the city.

So what, its football, its an analogy.

Grow up people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Arch Stanton;3538419 said:
In a statement on its blog, a GLAAD official writes: "Hampton was trying to insult the Cowboys by comparing them to gay people - simple as that.

Uh...duh

Glad we have groups like these to clear up issues such as these :rolleyes:
 

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DallasEast;3538614 said:
Snipped for brevity...
You believe that this particular group should just "shake it off" and "not take things personally". Unfortunately, it is not human nature to consciously adopt amnesia after living through traumatic events and your indifference to their feelings on the matter will not enact that change as well.
:rolleyes: *oops*
Ugh such a tediously bleating, overacted response - "enact that change". The more you dramatize your point, the more pathetic and phony it sounds. I can practically hear your shirt rip as you rend your clothing in the public square - self-soothing empathy, or at least self-serving. Because Dan Hampton has the power to make or break hurricane recovery efforts and the spirits of those involved! Give us all a big fat break.

1. Hampton did not just say hurricane.
Tortured repetitive overstatement of this snipped No, he didn't say hurricane at all, did he? Point? That if he'd mentioned Hurricane Camille, all would be okay? Or would the same misery peddlers and clothes-renders have still managed to work up the same frothy amount of whining? "Hit New Orleans like a hurricane". The SAME handwringing and pantwetting would have happened, and you'd be here trying to "enact that change". Giggle.

Others would may say, "meh. get over it".
You've been doing this through your post, conflating attitudes toward the event with references about the event. Saying Hampton's comments aren't a big deal isn't saying Katrina wasn't a big deal. Quit acting like it is. It's dishonest in the extreme. Quit it, we all see it, it's cheap and it isn't fooling anyone.

5. You are still overreacting.
Says the guy with the Katrina stigmata and rended clothing in the public square! The overreaction is with those who peddle in grievances and victimization. The folks in New Orleans are big boys and girls, and as rational adults can figure out the difference between a sports metaphor and a real life disaster (which, frankly, was man made in nature, the hurricane itself was not particularly spectacular).

If someone says they are going to hit the Cowboys like a bolt of lightning or a tornado, I don't expect to see Coach DeCamillis go fetal and wet himself on the sideline - I expect he's man enough to know the difference between a metaphor and praying for the Wind God to strike down the Cowboys with mortal injury. HELL, the joke within the first hours of the event was "the Cowboys usually wait until the post-season to collapse, hardy har har". Are we men or are we so feminized, so castrated that we are threatened by rhetorical boogeymen, fleeing under the bed until we make the bad people stop their painful words? Criminey, you're a grown man, act like it!!!

Well, I always fancied myself being Black Lightning!!! Still, that guy never wore pants...
I think you are thinking of someone else perhaps... pretty sure he wore pants. Not alot of superhero options for the brothers, perhaps you are thinking of Black Vulcan? And why couldn't he just be Vulcan? It isn't White Superman!
 

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LandryFan;3537148 said:
I saw no apology for his stupid "brokeback" reference to the Cowboys. That guy is just an idiot.

Why should he have to apologize for that?
 

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baj1dallas;3539274 said:
Why should he have to apologize for that?
Because similar to the Katrina comments he was being insensitive to gays. He went all out prejudice in his commentary that day trying to be funny. It wasn't.
 

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Hostile;3539307 said:
Because similar to the Katrina comments he was being insensitive to gays. He went all out prejudice in his commentary that day trying to be funny. It wasn't.

so it's insulting to gays to compare them to Cowboys players? Don't let the skins fans here you say that!
 

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So not only are we supposed to embrace them and happily add gays to our culture, we can't be "insensitive" to them either.

Let's go play some "smear the queer" as we used to say on the playground!
 

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Why the heck can I open another internet window, surf to Cowboyszone, open this thread, post a quick reply, BUT I can't post a long reply right now?

Stupid work internet filter! :banghead:
 
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