This is an honest question How can a post be destructive? and destructive to what? As long as it meets the spirit of the gernal forum rules - words and opinions are just that There are some people who put a great deal of effort into their posts, and by in large, I think the majority appreciate that. But being the anonymous internet, when you put yourself out there for praise, you have to be prepared for criticism. Either you let it roll off your back or you dont. This isnt an opinion on whose right or wrong - it is nature of the discussion on this medium. The ignore feature is highly underused by some people. I personally would never use it, because it is a slippery slope.