From T.O.: Sympathy, empathy, even humility...

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http://www.philly.com/inquirer/sports/20081229_From_T_O___sympathy__empathy__even_humility.html

Magnanimous guy that he is, Terrell Owens sent Tony Romo a text message yesterday telling him that no matter what happened against the Eagles, no matter how awful the quarterback played, he would shed tears for him again, the way he did last season after Romo stumbled against the New York Giants in the playoffs.

And Romo was indeed awful, unable to lead the talented Cowboys into the playoffs, or even into the end zone, as the Eagles humiliated them, 44-6, before a delighted crowd at Lincoln Financial Field.

"I just told him, no matter what, I'm still the same guy who shed tears for him at last year's press conference, and I'd do it again, because that's the type of person I am, regardless of what anybody thinks or says about me," Owens said.

For anyone expecting T.O. to point fingers at his teammates or coach, or to express resentment that his former team had won what was basically a playoff game to go to the playoffs, what they expected did not happen.

Maybe T.O. was gracious because he got his - 103 yards on six catches. Maybe he was still in shock and not in complete command of his thoughts. Whatever. He said he knew Dallas would get the best from the Eagles regardless of whether they had been knocked out of the playoffs before the kickoff.

"Those guys fought and hung around all year long," Owens said. "There was a lot of adversity going on here, and I know the makeup of that locker room, and I know the makeup of that coach. And he had those guys ready, and everything pretty much fell in their favor, with all the teams losing for them, and they gave us a butt-whipping.

"You've got to give credit to the Eagles. They took advantage of their opportunities. They took advantage of the turnovers we committed."

For the Cowboys, it was a shocking conclusion to a season they entered as one of the Super Bowl favorites. They have not won a playoff game since 1996 and will not even have a chance to do so this season. If they are still America's Team, standards in this country have slipped considerably.

But T.O. said he would be on board with whatever changes the Cowboys make during the off-season. He even offered to help owner Jerry Jones get things straightened out, if Jones asked him.

Asked if the players supported the coaching staff, Owens said, "I'm not sure. All I know is, I want to win. I want to be put in a position to win. I think we have the pieces here to get the job done. Whatever unfolds during the off-season has my full support. If Jerry asks for any advice, I will give him my honest opinion."

But he did not share those opinions when asked what he would change.

"I don't want to answer that right now," he said. "There were some opportunities as a team we let slip away. For myself, I know I can still play this game. We've just got to go back to the drawing board. This is a tough way to end the season with [losing] the last two games, really a shameful way to go out. We came here with our destiny in our own hands, and we kind of stunk it up. I don't have all the answers. I'm here to be part of the solution."

Each time he touched the ball, Owens was heartily booed. He smiled when asked about his reaction.

"They always get on me," he said. "I know it's a lot of love-hate in those situations. When I was here, those guys were behind me 100 percent. I understand me being here and going to a rival with the Cowboys, that's enough in itself.

"But, you know, they recognize I have talent. When I was here, we had some success and we accomplished some things, and probably could have accomplished a lot more, but those things didn't happen. We parted ways. I knew I was going to come in here and [Eagles fans] were going to give it to me the whole game long, and I just wanted to have fun with it. I don't let it get to me at all.

"I know, deep down in their hearts, if there was an opportunity to get me back, they'd have me back."
 

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TO must have forgotten he threw Romo under the bus.
 

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Ben Roflsberger;2539587 said:
no matter what the haters say he will always be one of my favorite athletes.

:hammer:

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Me too.

Sadly, this thread won't be as popular as the hate threads. :rolleyes:
 

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Doesn't really change all his crap during the season, but it's nice to know he can put together calm, rational thoughts that don't provide fodder for reporters after our season finishes in horrific fashion.
 

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How anyone can continue to defend this guy is beyond me. He is an absolute headcase. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt, but no matter how many supportive text messages, crying sessions or eloquent post season speeches he gives it does not change the fact that his skills, though impressive, aren't worth the associated baggage he brings with him.

Also, for those of you who are his fans, you remind me of battered women. You know, the stereotypical husband gets drunk and punches the wife in the face, the cops show up to arrest him and the wife turns on them because they are mistreating him. The cops and everybody else just don't understand the guy, he is under a lot of stress at work and things will get better. The problem is that pattern never changes and you just have a stupid person who keeps getting punched in the face expecting different results, but it isn't going to happen.
 

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Skin;2539644 said:
How anyone can continue to defend this guy is beyond me. He is an absolute headcase. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt, but no matter how many supportive text messages, crying sessions or eloquent post season speeches he gives it does not change the fact that his skills, though impressive, aren't worth the associated baggage he brings with him.

Also, for those of you who are his fans, you remind me of battered women. You know, the stereotypical husband gets drunk and punches the wife in the face, the cops show up to arrest him and the wife turns on them because they are mistreating him. The cops and everybody else just don't understand the guy, he is under a lot of stress at work and things will get better. The problem is that pattern never changes and you just have a stupid person who keeps getting punched in the face expecting different results, but it isn't going to happen.

What an incredibly idiotic comparison.
 

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Faerluna;2539650 said:
What an incredibly idiotic comparison.

You are correct. It is insensitive to battered women everywhere. They deserve better than to be compared to TO.

My apologies.
 

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Skin;2539644 said:
How anyone can continue to defend this guy is beyond me. He is an absolute headcase. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt, but no matter how many supportive text messages, crying sessions or eloquent post season speeches he gives it does not change the fact that his skills, though impressive, aren't worth the associated baggage he brings with him.

Also, for those of you who are his fans, you remind me of battered women. You know, the stereotypical husband gets drunk and punches the wife in the face, the cops show up to arrest him and the wife turns on them because they are mistreating him. The cops and everybody else just don't understand the guy, he is under a lot of stress at work and things will get better. The problem is that pattern never changes and you just have a stupid person who keeps getting punched in the face expecting different results, but it isn't going to happen.

You know... they say sometimes it's best to remain quiet instead of utilizing the keyboard and removing all doubt. That's just what they say. Don't shoot the messenger. :popcorn:
 

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Skin;2539644 said:
How anyone can continue to defend this guy is beyond me. He is an absolute headcase. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt, but no matter how many supportive text messages, crying sessions or eloquent post season speeches he gives it does not change the fact that his skills, though impressive, aren't worth the associated baggage he brings with him.

Also, for those of you who are his fans, you remind me of battered women. You know, the stereotypical husband gets drunk and punches the wife in the face, the cops show up to arrest him and the wife turns on them because they are mistreating him. The cops and everybody else just don't understand the guy, he is under a lot of stress at work and things will get better. The problem is that pattern never changes and you just have a stupid person who keeps getting punched in the face expecting different results, but it isn't going to happen.


terrible comparison. absolutely terrible.
 

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Skin;2539662 said:
You are correct. It is insensitive to battered women everywhere. They deserve better than to be compared to TO.

My apologies.

apology accepted, though you compared TO supporters to the battered women, and TO to the abusive men.
 

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AmishCowboy;2539616 said:
Most of the time he seems like the only one who cares,

:hammer:

But the media spins it as he's a cancer...he only cares about himself...blah blah blah...
 

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Even an angry wolf smiles before he devours his prey. ;)

Let me use a better analogy.

T.O. reminds me of the guy who gave you grief all during your life then wants to say something nice about you at your funeral.

Well, the 2008 Dallas Cowboys season is DEAD. Of course, he's going to say nice things about Tony Romo, who messed up AGAIN.

But what about in-season when this club was trying to gain unity or when Romo was having a bad time? Where were these comments then? Why was he on television talking about "I can't throw it to myself?"

We needed the same attitude from T.O. when the season was in session and when we badly needed a leader to step up and say, "Things aren't looking good but we need to stay together as a team." "It aint about your stats or my stats, it's about winning."

I don't remember hearing that from him.

So please, spare me the post-mortem eulogies.

We need the flowers and roses during the regular season, not when the Cowboys are pushing up daisies after the season.
 

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tyke1doe;2540707 said:
Even an angry wolf smiles before he devours his prey. ;)

Let me use a better analogy.

T.O. reminds me of the guy who gave you grief all during your life then wants to say something nice about you at your funeral.

Well, the 2008 Dallas Cowboys season is DEAD. Of course, he's going to say nice things about Tony Romo, who messed up AGAIN.

But what about in-season when this club was trying to gain unity or when Romo was having a bad time? Where were these comments then? Why was he on television talking about "I can't throw it to myself?"

We needed the same attitude from T.O. when the season was in session and when we badly needed a leader to step up and say, "Things aren't looking good but we need to stay together as a team." "It aint about your stats or my stats, it's about winning."

I don't remember hearing that from him.

So please, spare me the post-mortem eulogies.

We need the flowers and roses during the regular season, not when the Cowboys are pushing up daisies after the season.

Yep. Not sure where this attitude was when he went on with Deion after a WIN to tell the world how he wasn't getting the ball enough.

Or when he was spatting with Jason Witten.

What a joke.
 

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Skin;2539644 said:
How anyone can continue to defend this guy is beyond me. He is an absolute headcase. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt, but no matter how many supportive text messages, crying sessions or eloquent post season speeches he gives it does not change the fact that his skills, though impressive, aren't worth the associated baggage he brings with him.

Also, for those of you who are his fans, you remind me of battered women. You know, the stereotypical husband gets drunk and punches the wife in the face, the cops show up to arrest him and the wife turns on them because they are mistreating him. The cops and everybody else just don't understand the guy, he is under a lot of stress at work and things will get better. The problem is that pattern never changes and you just have a stupid person who keeps getting punched in the face expecting different results, but it isn't going to happen.


Wow. What a dumb comparison. That realy has to be one of the worst ones I've ever seen.

Faerluna;2539650 said:
What an incredibly idiotic comparison.

Agreed.



As for the article that is one of the reason I'm willing to continue to root for Owens and will not be upset if he's back. yes I know just by having him causes stuff cause the media can't wait to try and force a TO blow up but the guy does geniunely seem to care and he does work hard and you can tell he really does care about winning.

I have no issue with that.
 

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TO will be back and I'm glad... The cat wants to win. If only the other teammates would work as hard and hated losing as he does....
 
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