Jerry: ”I didn’t know it was going to be this tough”. Why it is this tough

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:hammer:You forgot grandiose, but it's part of the deal with egotistical.
Ultimately, we the fans and patrons have control. But we’ve continued to support a product we aren’t pleased with.

I assume we’re either addicted to the product having no will power , idiots or fools?

But in order to force our will we cumulatively must come together much like we would in mainstream.

If not then simply complaining will not make any difference. Jerrys going to laugh all the way to the bank.
 
What? By causing the S&L and real estate crashes of the late 1980's? Because without them, Jerry Jones may never have had the opportunity to buy the Dallas Cowboys.
You don’t believe half empty stadium and losing a million a month would get Jerry’s attention?
 
NO stop the BS

the easy and very obvious answer it is tough, teams like Philly just one their FIRST in 60 plus years of existence, outside of NE its very tough..period end of story..Bret Farve played 19 season and won one, Pmanning had one until he was brought it to not mess up and was handed one after also 19 years..these are quick off the top of my head answers but its not easy to win SBS or even get to them if you are not NE..

Has not much to do with Jerry himself..anyone keep pointing that out explain why all the other franchises arent getting there and winning either , some never have some have 1 in their entire existence.. what the Cowboys havemt been back in 25plus years and still 3rd all time for SB appearances and wins? all these teams have had chance over 24-30 years to show the Cowboys how jerry holding them back but cant..theres no formula..sometimes it is hitting it right and having luck and circumstances fall into place, not always the best team with best coaches and players get there..you catch lightening in bottle , for the Boys they seem to have used up the luck and have had the opposite but the teams have been talented enough at least 5 years to make the SB..we have Talent we have been good enough, just have not had the extra luck to out us over the top..

Not saying JJ hasnt made mistakes from 1999-2003 should have fired himself as GM, over 2003-2007 it got better but not perfect but really the last 10 years the entire drafting, FA, Cap, and winning a lot more has basically given us a shot and thats better then tons of teams out there..
The mistakes Jerry has made due to not understanding NFL football are monumental and many. It took him 20 years to even begin to comprehend the GM position.

Are you Jerry?
 
Glad you are happy with the only GM in the NFL who doesn't watch game film. Glad you are happy with zero playoff wins in 23 years. Glad you are happy with a GM that spends most of his time chasing tail and trying to land concerts and boxing matches while real NFL GMs are trying to make their teams better. Glad you are happy with Kellen Moore and Garrett getting the opportunity to "learn on the job" instead of hiring proven coaches with a winning track record.

The Pats are not the only successful team the past 23 years. The Bucs won a Super Bowl, the lowly Raiders made it to a Super Bowl. Which part of Hazey's truths make you mad?
Also doesn't watch player films before the draft, but then wants to make decisions.
 
In a recent interview with Jon Machota, the Cowboys beat writer from the newspaper we cannot mention here, Jerry Jones said one of the more revealingly stupid comments (even for him!) he’s ever said about why his team hasn’t been in a Super Bowl in 23 years:

I got involved (with the Cowboys) to win. I must tell you, I didn’t know it was going to be this tough..... It is just absolutely a stunning thing to me to think of why we’re not there (playing in Super Bowls) with what we commit and what we do to win Super Bowls.”
What is stunning to me is not that the Cowboys haven’t been in a Super Bowl in 23 years. What’s stunning is what is obvious to anyone who pays attention to how pro sports organizations who win consistently run their organization, is somehow not apparent to this 76 year old billionaire.

It’s actually easy to explain why this team hasn’t been to a SB in so long. It’s amazingly simple- in today’s NFL, having a kind hearted owner who also serves as its primary decision maker is inherently detrimental to winning. If you don’t have a steely eyed decision maker who does not allow sentimentality to influence decisions to run the team, you’re behind the 8 ball.

Below are the things most responsible for the last 23 years:

1. Excuses made and accepted at the top of the organization- Remember JJs famous quote calling a loss to Denver in 2013 “a moral victory”. Or excusing his HCs failures after 2015 and 2017 being tied to injuries and suspensions? An organization whose top executive makes and accepts excuses is killing itself. Our HC has 2 wild card wins in 8 seasons and our owner GM dreams of that guy being his “Tom Landry”. It’s delusional.

2. Nepotism and favoritism blinds the organization- when your organization has no one at the top who can question the leader, it’s deadly to success. And when the leader hires his children and favorite friends for sentimental reasons, it makes objectivity very difficult. There is a reason NEPOTISM is illegal in many workplace situations- it doesn’t work well. Who tells Jerry he’s wrong and is hurting this team?

3. A complete lack of real accountability at the top-
Name another pro sports General Manager with 23 years of mediocrity who still has a job. Which NFL Head Coach could still have a job after winning two wild card games in 8 seasons? In fact, the only accountability in the organization is with assist coaches and mid- bottom level players.
So in order to get back to the glory days of the past, this organization just needs do the opposite of the above 3 disasters:
1. Never make nor allow excuses...ever.
2. Stop being sentimental and allowing yourself, family and select friends to have “special privileges” without proving they are capable or without the ability to help us win.
3. Hold people at the top accountable for failure. A lack of results must be dealt with or failure will continue. People in key jobs, like HC, cannot be given special treatment.
I know Jerry probably won’t take proper action to right his failures as a leader but he shouldn’t act surprised when the ship sinks every year either. He needs to look in the mirror. The emperor is naked.

Another truly excellent post.
 
You don’t believe half empty stadium and losing a million a month would get Jerry’s attention?
Of course it would but that is not going to happen.

Booger is like taxes, I don't like them but they're just a reality of life. As a fan, I do have a choice and am far less emotionally vested in this team than I have ever been and that seems to lessen each season. And that old feeling has returned. When they lose, my consolation is him losing, him upset and disappointed. Somehow, that makes it alright. I have never given him a dime but that doesn't matter or make me feel special.

That's the problem I have with this team. I have to continually try and separate that awesome person from the team I grew up with and it gets more tiresome every season. No owner in the history of sports has gone this far to make themselves the face of the team. Not Steinbrenner, not Crazy Al, no owner has sought the spotlight like this and insisted on year round exposure.
 
In a recent interview with Jon Machota, the Cowboys beat writer from the newspaper we cannot mention here, Jerry Jones said one of the more revealingly stupid comments (even for him!) he’s ever said about why his team hasn’t been in a Super Bowl in 23 years:

I got involved (with the Cowboys) to win. I must tell you, I didn’t know it was going to be this tough..... It is just absolutely a stunning thing to me to think of why we’re not there (playing in Super Bowls) with what we commit and what we do to win Super Bowls.”
What is stunning to me is not that the Cowboys haven’t been in a Super Bowl in 23 years. What’s stunning is what is obvious to anyone who pays attention to how pro sports organizations who win consistently run their organization, is somehow not apparent to this 76 year old billionaire.

It’s actually easy to explain why this team hasn’t been to a SB in so long. It’s amazingly simple- in today’s NFL, having a kind hearted owner who also serves as its primary decision maker is inherently detrimental to winning. If you don’t have a steely eyed decision maker who does not allow sentimentality to influence decisions to run the team, you’re behind the 8 ball.

Below are the things most responsible for the last 23 years:

1. Excuses made and accepted at the top of the organization- Remember JJs famous quote calling a loss to Denver in 2013 “a moral victory”. Or excusing his HCs failures after 2015 and 2017 being tied to injuries and suspensions? An organization whose top executive makes and accepts excuses is killing itself. Our HC has 2 wild card wins in 8 seasons and our owner GM dreams of that guy being his “Tom Landry”. It’s delusional.

2. Nepotism and favoritism blinds the organization- when your organization has no one at the top who can question the leader, it’s deadly to success. And when the leader hires his children and favorite friends for sentimental reasons, it makes objectivity very difficult. There is a reason NEPOTISM is illegal in many workplace situations- it doesn’t work well. Who tells Jerry he’s wrong and is hurting this team?

3. A complete lack of real accountability at the top-
Name another pro sports General Manager with 23 years of mediocrity who still has a job. Which NFL Head Coach could still have a job after winning two wild card games in 8 seasons? In fact, the only accountability in the organization is with assist coaches and mid- bottom level players.
So in order to get back to the glory days of the past, this organization just needs do the opposite of the above 3 disasters:
1. Never make nor allow excuses...ever.
2. Stop being sentimental and allowing yourself, family and select friends to have “special privileges” without proving they are capable or without the ability to help us win.
3. Hold people at the top accountable for failure. A lack of results must be dealt with or failure will continue. People in key jobs, like HC, cannot be given special treatment.
I know Jerry probably won’t take proper action to right his failures as a leader but he shouldn’t act surprised when the ship sinks every year either. He needs to look in the mirror. The emperor is naked.

Get a real HC and some real OC's and find out how much easier it is.
 
Also doesn't watch player films before the draft, but then wants to make decisions.
Because he's the part-time GM, he doesn't want to work for it. He wants to be considered a "football man' but is not willing to do anything beyond what he wants to do to earn that.

He's more interested in the furthering of nepotism, playing the patriarch role and impressing people with his toys. He is far more impressed with himself than others are.
 
Of course it would but that is not going to happen.

Booger is like taxes, I don't like them but they're just a reality of life. As a fan, I do have a choice and am far less emotionally vested in this team than I have ever been and that seems to lessen each season. And that old feeling has returned. When they lose, my consolation is him losing, him upset and disappointed. Somehow, that makes it alright. I have never given him a dime but that doesn't matter or make me feel special.

That's the problem I have with this team. I have to continually try and separate that awesome person from the team I grew up with and it gets more tiresome every season. No owner in the history of sports has gone this far to make themselves the face of the team. Not Steinbrenner, not Crazy Al, no owner has sought the spotlight like this and insisted on year round exposure.
I agree but it still needs to be called out until everyone accepts we are cumulatively responsible.

Any personal justifications we have still indirectly contribute. I’m guilty as well. But I’m not complaining anymore or calling him out for not having more success.

I’ve accepted what we’ve become and adjusted my expectations. My comments are for those who still care or wonder why it’s not changing.
 
Jerry is fully aware of what he is doing.

But he has no awareness of his failings.
I disagree. He’s fully aware and what this is all about speaking about how hard it’s been.

Remember a few years ago he admitted he’d of fired himself as GM. That’s purely understanding his failings. But he doesn’t care. Or he’d change. And we haven’t forced his hand so he doesn’t have to change.
 
You don’t believe half empty stadium and losing a million a month would get Jerry’s attention?

Great. We should all work on recreating the same economic crash of the Texas economy that led to the team changing hands in the 80's. I mean, it worked before. :rolleyes:
 
I agree but it still needs to be called out until everyone accepts we are cumulatively responsible.

Any personal justifications we have still indirectly contribute. I’m guilty as well. But I’m not complaining anymore or calling him out for not having more success.

I’ve accepted what we’ve become and adjusted my expectations. My comments are for those who still care or wonder why it’s not changing.
I got hammered on the old site for "lowering my bar" but what else can one do to manage frustration but to manage expectations.

I changed my thinking from a 16 game season to 16 1 game seasons and if they get beyond that, that's a bonus. I also don't get carried away with this "we should be winning more playoff games and a SB". Why should we? Because they're the mighty mighty Cowboys? No, they're not. They were not the best NFC team or the most talented, ended up in the final 4 and that was a bonus.

Fans, especially, the long time ones will never be happy until they lose that sense of entitlement that the owner shares with them. Because of what they were, that is who they should be now?

How much of ego is entangled with being a fan? They cannot be this because I am a fan. I am going to be angry because they should be better. There is little logic in being a fan so I should not expect it but it still mystifies me with the Dallas Cowboys entitlement.
 
I disagree. He’s fully aware and what this is all about speaking about how hard it’s been.

Remember a few years ago he admitted he’d of fired himself as GM. That’s purely understanding his failings. But he doesn’t care. Or he’d change. And we haven’t forced his hand so he doesn’t have to change.
Yep, when he admitted that, that revealed the truth along with his comment "let them put up 140M of their own money". Owners of pro sports franchise just do not make those comments. But he can because he knows he's bulletproof.
 
Agreed.

Jerry, to me, thinks that since he was super successful in the oil business and marketing the Cowboys that he therefore will be super successful in EVERYTHING he does.

That's not too uncommon in the NFL, even players. How many players have started businesses, like Harvey Martin's bbq restaurant, that were failures because they also thought since they were successful NFL players they can "do anything" even with zero experience and training in the business world.

NO one is smart at everything, the smartest realize that and hire people who are smart at what they aren't...
Agreed.

Jerry, to me, thinks that since he was super successful in the oil business and marketing the Cowboys that he therefore will be super successful in EVERYTHING he does.

That's not too uncommon in the NFL, even players. How many players have started businesses, like Harvey Martin's bbq restaurant, that were failures because they also thought since they were successful NFL players they can "do anything" even with zero experience and training in the business world.

NO one is smart at everything, the smartest realize that and hire people who are smart at what they aren't...

Good post.

And yes, I agree with your post here and CowboysfaninHouston's post concerning Jerrys obvious marketing talent but also his inability to see that the business side of Football and building a consistently successful team on the field are totally separate and need to be run outside of his comfortable family/friend circle that he has constructed.

AND ...Jerry's individual EGO (His Way Only) approach combines to create that skewed perception of football success in the Jones' family's eyes based on the profit sharing from all the outlying Cowboy brand ventures. But NONE OF this non football related success should ever be even remotely confused with how you build a consistently winning pro football team. And this is where all the Joneses and Garretts are confused. None of them see on field football success as separate from their profit share. That comfortability with the status quo permeates every fiber of every perso in any sort of leadership position within this organization, from the very top, on down. Therein lies your culprit in my opinion.
 
Things Jerry simply does not comprehend:

Why Escobar was a terrible pick.
Why Cox should've been the guy we trade up for instead of MO.
Why a scheme insisting on lightly built DT's doesn't work in the playoffs.
The importance of a FS.
The importance of quality at HC, DC, OC.
Putting together a blueprint for success in the NFL.
Why Austin was a terrible deep threat.
Why Marion Barber was not a full time RB.
Why the Center is the key to the OL.
Lateral agility.
Burst.
First step quickness.
Stone hands.
Height/weight ratio.
The importance of the middle of both the O and D.


Did I miss any?
 
In a radio interview, Jerry agreed to talk with the fans. So they took phone calls.

One fan asked Jerry when he was going to hire a real GM.

Jerry's come back. "Did you like the Super Bowls."

As I remember the radio station cut the caller off without allowing a fracas to ensue. Because the caller was surely going to come over the top and say that was Jimmy's team, because Jimmy was in charge of hiring the talent.
In my opinion, it would be more advantageous if Jones were 'forced' into more of those types of conversations that the caller tried and was prevented from engaging him with. Hitting Jones in his ego has vastly more potential of getting him to do exactly what he does not want to do above any other conceivable strategies.

Narcissists are extremely difficult to dissuade from doing what they want already. Jones is a narcissistic billionaire. Extreme wealth is an extra variable that makes it exponentially much more difficult in modifying embedded personality.
 
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