Sounds like a touchy /feely approach to me. The fact is, a lot of teaching shouldn't be necessary on game day. Sure there has to be some discussion about what went wrong, and we've seen that with Kitna as well as Romo, but they aren't drawing new plays in the sand on game day, and to a large degeree if players are running the wrong routes it's generally a lack of focus or hustle. Yes, Romo makes a gesture about where they should have gone, but I don't see the stern rebuke, the demeanor that conveys that they either get it right or they won't get the chance anymore. Romo talks to them on the sidelines, and Kitna does as well, but like I said in an earlier post, it strikes me with Romo as more as a discussion where thoughts are exchanged rather than a take charge, force them to understand kind of thing.
There is no room on game day for the receiver to have his own ideas. He has to be where the QB expects him to be. Maybe Romo gets that across, maybe not, and maybe Kitna doesn't get it across as well as I think, but the demeanor from Kitna seems more in line with getting it across. I just don't like having the impression that receivers be treated as if everything's all right, we can talk about it and get it right next time. To me the expectation has to be to get it right this time, and if you don't you are failing to do your job.
And before you go there, I understand that I don't know exactly what is said or hw the players receive Romo or Kitna, I'm just going with what I perceive from what I see, just like we all are.