Doomsday101
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That's pretty much how my folks were. They were at every single game and practice, and dad would drop everything to play catch with me in the yard, but he never "coached" me. He would give tips and advice, but never in an intrusive way. They had the same rule - you don't have to play sports, but if you start a season, finish it. And never play it again if you don't want to.
One exception was soccer when I was about 7. We had a coach that would scream at us and have us running for entire practices without even kicking a ball. The first few weeks were 'conditioning' to get us into shape. At 6 and 7 years old. He treated it like boot camp and we were in 1st and 2nd grade. There was absolutely no joy in the sport, and it was miserable - as were most of the other kids. I've never played soccer since, and that's exactly the reason parents/coaches can't do that to little kids who are trying to learn a sport. I'm sure soccer is a great sport, but he killed any passion I ever would have had for it.
No doubt there some dad/coaches who have no business coaching little kids. I do think there are many life lessons to be learned in organized sports that can benefit men and women later on in life. Back to the mercy rule I just think it teaches kids that it is alright to quit. When things look bad don't worry just quit. I would much rather lose than be a quitter