OT: Tony Dungy's Son Dead***Condolence Thread***

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mickgreen58 said:
All accounts said the guy was 6-7.

tony_james_275.jpg


In that pick, Clinton and Tony Dungy seem to be almost as tall.

That was 5 years ago, and the kid was 13 at the time... I'm guessing he's grown some...

Then again, Clinton's something like 6-2 his own self...
 

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Family has always been bigger for Dungy

http://x.go.com/cgi/x.pl?goto=http:...chris_mortensen&name=SEARCH_m_archive&srvc=sz
By Chris Mortensen
ESPN.com


When I woke up this morning, I had a lot on my plate. Now, I have no taste for any of it. Not the NFL games. Not the Pro Bowl teams. Not rumors about coaches and executives on the hot seat. Not Christmas.

All I have is a broken heart for Tony and Lauren Dungy, parents of five children. Their eldest son, James, was found dead at 18 years old in his apartment near Tampa, Fla., this morning.

Who cares now that Dungy's Indianapolis Colts are 13-1 and not 14-0?

Tragedies and death happen all too frequently in our lives. There's just something about this tragedy that feels so raw and so hurtful that words cannot describe the emotions and grief. And it wasn't even my child.

Anybody who knows Tony Dungy understands these emotions. When I broke the news by telephone to Tom Jackson, my ESPN colleague, we could not disguise our broken voices and tears. I imagine there have been many of us around this league at every level feeling the same lows.

Of all of the wonderful people in the NFL, no man is more wonderful than Dungy. He's the role model in this league, but he's really a model who transcends the game. His football team means a lot to him. His faith and his family mean more, which is why this loss cannot be compared to any other Dungy has experienced.

I'll never forget the day Dungy was fired as the coach of the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. When I had the opportunity to speak to him, he was doing fine, which was no surprise. His greatest concern was for his children, who were struggling with the rejection and the uncertainties that surrounded their future. James was about 13 or 14 at the time.

It reminded me of some wisdom that George Young, the late general manager of the New York Giants, imparted on me during this time of year, when we have to speculate and report on people's job security.

"Just remember to show some compassion," Young said. "When you talk about firing a coach, you're not talking about how it affects one man. You're talking about how it impacts 14 families -- the family of every assistant coach. You're talking about 30, 40, 50 people and a lot of them are children."

We sometimes fall short of that compassion. We simply attach a name to a team and a win-loss record. We almost never attach the hearts.

With Tony Dungy, it's always been easy to attach the heart, which is why it is broken today.

That's it. That's really all I can write about for now. Instead, I'll resume praying for this family.

http://sports.espn.go.com/nfl/columns/story?columnist=mortensen_chris&id=2268721
 

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Aikmaniac said:
I know this isn't the right forum, but this is an unbelievable tragedy.

They're saying it's suicide.

www.nfl.com

or you can listen to our local radio here in tampa - www.620wdae.com/listen


Sympathies to the Dungy's.

Very sad. :(

I cannot believe this....and at Christmas time....although never a good time....prayers for Coach Dungy for the God to give him strenght.
 

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My condolences to the Dungy family. This puts life in a real perspective. It's more than just football. May God guide them through the holiday season.
Beautifully said, and seconded.

My prayers for Tony and his family.
 

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My thoughts and prayers to the Dungy family. Much too soon, much too young. This has to be especially hard on someone like Tony who stresses the importance of family.


mickgreen58 said:
Oh..man after reading that, I think he is telling that girl that in a joking manner.

You know, when you and some friends have not heard from somebody in a while you might say to that person on say...their blog or even on the phone when ya call them up

"Where you been at, you act like you cant talk to anybody anymore".

I think he was telling her that she acts like she cant talk to anybody anymore.

- Mike G.

I saw that and some others, and I think you're right. On another one of his myspace friend's pages he posted this:

12/21/2005 9:17:00 AM

fresh, preciate the invite juss hit me up and tell me where iss at. oh yeah i'm workin on my party right now cause az u may not kno, the 6th of jan. iz my day *****. one

12/21/2005 8:59:00 AM

fresh let me kno where the party @, i'm ther my ***** and ay i'm workin on my party cause mines iz on the 6th of Jan

This is his "myspace" page:

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=41899442

They reported on the news that his girlfriend said she left and he was fine, came back 10 minutes later and he wasn't breathing. The posts above don't sound like someone about to commit suicide, but if he was bipolar and didn't follow his regimen for his medication or something affects his medication, things can happen quickly.
 

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DLK150 said:
My thoughts and prayers to the Dungy family. Much too soon, much too young. This has to be especially hard on someone like Tony who stresses the importance of family.




I saw that and some others, and I think you're right. On another one of his myspace friend's pages he posted this:

12/21/2005 9:17:00 AM

fresh, preciate the invite juss hit me up and tell me where iss at. oh yeah i'm workin on my party right now cause az u may not kno, the 6th of jan. iz my day *****. one

12/21/2005 8:59:00 AM

fresh let me kno where the party @, i'm ther my ***** and ay i'm workin on my party cause mines iz on the 6th of Jan

This is his "myspace" page:

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=41899442

They reported on the news that his girlfriend said she left and he was fine, came back 10 minutes later and he wasn't breathing. The posts above don't sound like someone about to commit suicide, but if he was bipolar and didn't follow his regimen for his medication or something affects his medication, things can happen quickly.

This a post by the girl who he was talking to when he said, "cant talk to anybody"

hEy DunGy! juss stoppin by 2 show yOu some LoVe! cuz u say i never do which is a LIE

Which you can see that quote by her, on his site on the right hand side.

So he probably went to her site and ragged on her for not visiting his and not saying anything..

- Mike G.
 

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Very tragic and sad news.

Nothing worse than losing a child.

Thought's and prayers are with Tony and his family and friends.
 

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There is more to this story.

The GF said she went for a 10 minute walk at 1 am in the morning. When she came back he was dead. Something don't sound right there.
 

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sad sad sad. this has to be the worst feeling in the world for the dungy's. only God knows why this things happen to good people. my condolences to the dungy's and the tampa community
 

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Sarge said:
Very tragic and sad news.

Nothing worse than losing a child.

Thought's and prayers are with Tony and his family and friends.

Can't say it any better myself, condolences for the Dungy family.
 

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Son of Colts' coach Tony Dungy found dead of apparent suicide in Florida apartment


ASSOCIATED PRESS


TAMPA, Fla., Dec. 22 — James Dungy, the 18-year-old son of Indianapolis Colts coach Tony Dungy, was found dead of an apparent suicide early Thursday, the sheriff's office said.
James Dungy's girlfriend found him when she returned to the Campus Lodge Apartments at about 1:30 a.m., Hillsborough County Sheriff's spokeswoman Debbie Carter said.

''Based on evidence at the scene, indications are that this death appears to be a suicide,'' Carter said. She said an autopsy was pending.
Dungy wasn't breathing when he was found, Carter said. A sheriff's deputy performed CPR before an ambulance took him to University Community Hospital, where he was pronounced dead.
Tony Dungy took the team plane from Indianapolis to Tampa, Fla., where he had coached the Buccaneers from 1996 to 2001.
The Colts (13-1) travel to Seattle for a game Saturday, and team president Bill Polian said assistant head coach Jim Caldwell will take over ''for however long Tony will be away, and however long he will be away is entirely up to him.''
''The thoughts and prayers of everyone in this building are with Tony and (wife) Lauren, their children and their extended family, and for the repose of James' soul,'' Polian said at a news conference at the team's training facility in Indianapolis. ''This is a tragedy for the Dungy family and by extension for his football family here with the Colts.''
Dungy is immensely popular around the NFL and known for his soft-spoken style, ever-steady leadership and commitment to balancing family life with football — a rare trait in NFL coaches. He shared the blame when Indianapolis lost its first game Sunday against the visiting San Diego Chargers, ending what had been a perfect season.
''It certainly keeps things in perspective,'' two-time MVP quarterback Peyton Manning said. ''Players with families, it certainly hits home. Coach Dungy's close to a lot of these players. ... Players feel close to him as well as his family.''
Owner Jim Irsay and Polian met with team officials and players to break the news. ''It was not easy, and it was somber, to say the least,'' Polian said.
''I don't think there's anyone here that would wish to play a football game under these circumstances, but it's our obligation and we'll fulfill that obligation because that's what Tony wants us to do,'' Polian said.
The Dungys have four other children: daughters Tiara and Jade and sons Eric and Jordan. James Dungy spent his senior year at North Central High School in Indianapolis and graduated this year.
C.E. Quandt, the school's principal, said Dungy was a personable student who never flaunted his father's position, and had recently visited North Central. He said the death surprised and saddened everyone at the school.
''It kind of diminishes our school family,'' he said.
A woman who answered the door at James Dungy's girlfriend's home declined comment Thursday. Jessica James, 18, who described herself as a close friend, said she and a group of friends went to the movies with Dungy on Monday night.
''He was cracking jokes, just being himself,'' she said. ''This morning, it was so surreal.''
She said Dungy ''was just a really good kid, very laid-back. Unless you asked him, you'd never know he was Tony Dungy's son.''
The mood was somber Thursday at the Buccaneers' practice facility, located near the airport where the Colts' plane that brought Tony Dungy to Florida was parked. Players and coaches could see the plane from the practice field.
''It shakes you, there's no doubt about it. Tony and I first came together in 1992 and I got to see the boy grow up. ... Tony's got tremendous faith, and that's what will carry Tony through,'' said Bucs defensive coordinator Monte Kiffin, who worked for Dungy at Tampa Bay.
James Dungy was a frequent visitor to the Bucs' practices and games when his father coached the team.
''He was here all the time, hanging out in the locker room and with the players on the field,'' fullback Mike Alstott said. ''If James wasn't here, it was like: 'Where's James?' He was part of this football team.''
New York Jets coach Herman Edwards, one of Dungy's closest friends, called James a ''very, very good kid.
''The whole family is good people. You know Tony, how he raised a family,'' Edwards said from Jets training camp in Hempstead, N.Y. ''A tragedy. I know the prayers of the National Football League go out to him and his family.''
Two other NFL head coaches lost close family members this season, both in November. Don Parcells, brother of Dallas Cowboys coach Bill Parcells, died of brain cancer in New Jersey at age 62; Steve Belichick, father of New England Patriots' coach Bill Belichick, died at 86.


Associated Press Writers Cliff Brunt in Indianapolis and Mitch Stacy in Tampa, Fla.,; and AP Sports Writers Andrea Adelson in New York and Mike Marot in Indianapolis contributed to this report.
 

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ConcordCowboy said:
Son of Colts' coach Tony Dungy found dead of apparent suicide in Florida apartment


ASSOCIATED PRESS


TAMPA, Fla., Dec. 22 — James Dungy, the 18-year-old son of Indianapolis Colts coach Tony Dungy, was found dead of an apparent suicide early Thursday, the sheriff's office said.
James Dungy's girlfriend found him when she returned to the Campus Lodge Apartments at about 1:30 a.m., Hillsborough County Sheriff's spokeswoman Debbie Carter said.

''Based on evidence at the scene, indications are that this death appears to be a suicide,'' Carter said. She said an autopsy was pending.
Dungy wasn't breathing when he was found, Carter said. A sheriff's deputy performed CPR before an ambulance took him to University Community Hospital, where he was pronounced dead.
Tony Dungy took the team plane from Indianapolis to Tampa, Fla., where he had coached the Buccaneers from 1996 to 2001.
The Colts (13-1) travel to Seattle for a game Saturday, and team president Bill Polian said assistant head coach Jim Caldwell will take over ''for however long Tony will be away, and however long he will be away is entirely up to him.''
''The thoughts and prayers of everyone in this building are with Tony and (wife) Lauren, their children and their extended family, and for the repose of James' soul,'' Polian said at a news conference at the team's training facility in Indianapolis. ''This is a tragedy for the Dungy family and by extension for his football family here with the Colts.''
Dungy is immensely popular around the NFL and known for his soft-spoken style, ever-steady leadership and commitment to balancing family life with football — a rare trait in NFL coaches. He shared the blame when Indianapolis lost its first game Sunday against the visiting San Diego Chargers, ending what had been a perfect season.
''It certainly keeps things in perspective,'' two-time MVP quarterback Peyton Manning said. ''Players with families, it certainly hits home. Coach Dungy's close to a lot of these players. ... Players feel close to him as well as his family.''
Owner Jim Irsay and Polian met with team officials and players to break the news. ''It was not easy, and it was somber, to say the least,'' Polian said.
''I don't think there's anyone here that would wish to play a football game under these circumstances, but it's our obligation and we'll fulfill that obligation because that's what Tony wants us to do,'' Polian said.
The Dungys have four other children: daughters Tiara and Jade and sons Eric and Jordan. James Dungy spent his senior year at North Central High School in Indianapolis and graduated this year.
C.E. Quandt, the school's principal, said Dungy was a personable student who never flaunted his father's position, and had recently visited North Central. He said the death surprised and saddened everyone at the school.
''It kind of diminishes our school family,'' he said.
A woman who answered the door at James Dungy's girlfriend's home declined comment Thursday. Jessica James, 18, who described herself as a close friend, said she and a group of friends went to the movies with Dungy on Monday night.
''He was cracking jokes, just being himself,'' she said. ''This morning, it was so surreal.''
She said Dungy ''was just a really good kid, very laid-back. Unless you asked him, you'd never know he was Tony Dungy's son.''
The mood was somber Thursday at the Buccaneers' practice facility, located near the airport where the Colts' plane that brought Tony Dungy to Florida was parked. Players and coaches could see the plane from the practice field.
''It shakes you, there's no doubt about it. Tony and I first came together in 1992 and I got to see the boy grow up. ... Tony's got tremendous faith, and that's what will carry Tony through,'' said Bucs defensive coordinator Monte Kiffin, who worked for Dungy at Tampa Bay.
James Dungy was a frequent visitor to the Bucs' practices and games when his father coached the team.
''He was here all the time, hanging out in the locker room and with the players on the field,'' fullback Mike Alstott said. ''If James wasn't here, it was like: 'Where's James?' He was part of this football team.''
New York Jets coach Herman Edwards, one of Dungy's closest friends, called James a ''very, very good kid.
''The whole family is good people. You know Tony, how he raised a family,'' Edwards said from Jets training camp in Hempstead, N.Y. ''A tragedy. I know the prayers of the National Football League go out to him and his family.''
Two other NFL head coaches lost close family members this season, both in November. Don Parcells, brother of Dallas Cowboys coach Bill Parcells, died of brain cancer in New Jersey at age 62; Steve Belichick, father of New England Patriots' coach Bill Belichick, died at 86.


Associated Press Writers Cliff Brunt in Indianapolis and Mitch Stacy in Tampa, Fla.,; and AP Sports Writers Andrea Adelson in New York and Mike Marot in Indianapolis contributed to this report.
were u find this???
 

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Suicide is such a selfish act. You hurt everyone who loves you. At 18 he was old enough to know better. He stole the greatest time of his dad's life.
 
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