Phillip Buchanon's story about money and his mom is sad but important

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By Frank Schwab21 hours agoShutdown Corner

There are plenty of stories of NFL players blowing their money, with the tales often involving family members having their hands out, but few are as stark, specific and revealing as the story Phillip Buchanon tells in his new book.


Fox Sports published an excerpt from Buchanon's book, "New Money: Staying Rich." In the excerpt, the former NFL cornerback talks about family members, particularly his mother, coming to him for money after he was drafted by the Oakland Raidersin 2002. Buchanon says his mother told him he owed her $1 million for raising him.

"Well, that was news to me," wrote Buchanon, who played 10 NFL seasons for five teams. "If my mother taught me anything, it's that this is the most desperate demand that a parent can make on a child. The covenant of having a child is simply that you give your child everything possible, and they owe you nothing beyond a normal amount of love and respect. There is no financial arrangement."

Buchanon wrote that he bought his mother a house instead, and told her to sell his childhood house. But he says she kept both houses, renting one to an aunt, and he ended up making the payments on both. He wrote that it was a mistake to buy such a big house for his mother, and proposed a solution.


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Ex-NFL player Phillip Buchanon shares drawbacks of newfound wealth
This week, Buchanon released his first book, "New Money: Staying Rich", an in-depth, and at times very scary account of what it's like to be a professional athlete. Buchanon discusses everything that comes with life in the NFL, and most importantly, what it's like dealing with the pressures of family members and friends who think that just because you made it big, they did, too.

"When I got to the NFL, I was all dollars and no sense," Buchanon recently explained to FOX Sports. "I want to make sure the next generation of athletes doesn't make the same mistakes."

Buchanon's book is, in fact, out, and he was nice enough to give FOXSports.com an exclusive excerpt. Here is Buchanon, discussing how his relationship changed with his mother, once he made it big:

Soon after the draft, she told me that I owed her a million dollars for raising me for the past 18 years. Well, that was news to me. If my mother taught me anything, it's that this is the most desperate demand that a parent can make on a child. The covenant of having a child is simply that you give your child everything possible, and they owe you nothing beyond a normal amount of love and respect. There is no financial arrangement. If you get old and infirm, and your kids are around to help you out at that point, then you're lucky. It's not written in the social contract. The mothers and fathers of the world have been rearing their kids for generations -- in every culture imaginable -- and it's a one-way street when it comes to money. If they pay you back someday, and you really are going through hard times, then that's just a bonus, a gratuity for being a great mother or father.

My mother had said my debt to her was a million dollars before, but this time she was more serious than ever. If you do the math, one million dollars divided by 18 years of raising me was approximately $55,555.55 a year in restitution. Except, at age 17 I decided to move out of my mom's house, choosing to live with a close friend and his father because I no longer felt secure in my own home. Why, you ask? Because my mother let people come in and out of our house and take what they wanted. So technically, even if we went by her logic, I only owed her $944,444.44 for her services over 17 years.


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Wow for some reason I always thought of him as a knucklehead, despite being undersized I always though of him as talented. The sooner these athletes from these less than ideal environments figure this out the better the chances of them succeeding on field. Nothing like family demanding money to suck the joy out of a childhood dream.
 

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Look at Tyron. Then at Dez. Sometimes family in no way shape or form deserves that label.

I thought he was a knucklehead as well but he certainly had an excuse. Good thing about Dez is that he is a better person and stronger then Buchanon.
 
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