You don't love or like the person anymore and you try to remove yourself from the relationship, but they don't want you to. They go out of their way to make your life miserable for trying to leave. I have seen this obsession over and over and it is scary. I have seen men and women get violent, abusive, and crazy. I have seen extreme vandalism, theft, stalking, sabotage, slander, defamation of character, and completely false accusations. It can be a severely trying time for those involved with these psychos.
I also feel that if a woman wants to act lime a man and be violent towards a man, he should have every right to reciprocate. I used to feel that a man should never hit a eoman, but that gives women free passes to act stupid with their violence towards men. I would never physically abuse my wife, she is a treasure, a lady. But, I can understand how some men would harm their significant other, who was constantly starting the violence. A man should never instigate or start any violence towards woman, but like I said earlier, he should be allowed to reciprocate. If a man hits another man, a fight will break out most likely. If a woman hits a man, he has to walk away, which is BS. She is allowed by society to commit assault and abuse and still be seen as a victim.
You cannot control accusations against you. If someone decides in their mind you wronged them, then they can accuse you of whatever, even if it is completely false. In the NFL you would still get suspended. If I were the players, when Brady got suspended, as a league, I would have walked out until Roger caved. Send a strong message that his abuse of power will not be toletated. Hit him and the owners in their pockets and make it hurt.