I think although on the first glance, the utter desperation of the Cowboys in this game was very embarrassing (sandlot plays, and the pitches on kick returns in the third quarter)
The Romo/Phillips situation needs to be addressed because it really was a bad point in the game. However this whole Romo "coaching" the Cowboys while Wade Phillips looks exasperated gimmick has been going on all season.
A lot of challenges Wade Phillips deferred to Romo's call rather than making his on read on the play at hand.
And then you have to keep in mind, that Phillips whole schtick is on the defensive side of the ball. So yeah, it almost seemed as if Romo was making Phillips second guess himself.
In tonight's game, yes there is nothing more embarrassing than seeing a starting head coach being told what to do by a player on the field. You just don't show up the coach in any sport.
Let's look at how this all played out:
1. Phillips elects to punt the ball, whether this is a good decision or not is up in the air, but it's his choice.
2. Romo stays on the field, tells the coach that they are getting the first down.
3. Although it works, Phillips looks bad, and now all the confidence and trust is in Tony Romo.
4. A few plays later, Romo fumbles.
5. Any momentum, trust, and confidence is now lost for Romo as well as Phillps.
Dallas needs a coach that first knows the situation well enough to know what to do in certain situations, and also has enough on the ball to make smart decisions to keep the team's trust in him. To me Wade Phillips lost this team, and well watching this all play out was probably the most embarrassing thing of the night.