... the results of these games don't actually affect the events of your life, if you don't let them. The responsibility to build a great team is not on you. It's on other people. When your team lays an egg, there's nothing to stop you from doing great things in your life. It's normal to feel bummed out after a season-ending loss. If you need to take some time to lick your wounds, that's perfectly fine. But when you're done, do some things that are good for you and your family. Upgrade your career. Upgrade your physical health if you can. The team could go 17 and 0, and win the Super Bowl, and it wouldn't upgrade your life, other than perhaps in some of your Dallas Cowboys decorations. But a loss doesn't have to downgrade your life either. If you've been meaning to get an exercise program going to get fit, do it. If you've been meaning to learn to play an instrument or to learn another language, do it. These are the things in life that can change when you put effort into them. No amount of lamenting over the bad play of your team will fix them. That's the responsibility of other people.
I know this is only common sense that many of you may already know, but I wanted to say it. There's nothing wrong with reinforcing it, and there may be some fans out there who hadn't thought of this. Rooting for a team is a vicarious experience. It's not your real life.
Anyway, I wanted to wish all the fine people on CZ all the best.
Good post. I was thinking about writing something similar but didn't get to it, since yours is very good and also reminder of not letting the game and the team we love take our spirit down that much, I'll pitch something else...
I was looking for the radio calls of Brad and Babe of the Tampa game and bumped into the story of Babe's son Luke who died of cancer, I didn't know about it, the story really is heart breaking, specially to me because I recently lost my nephew of 18 years old to cancer too. It struck me that Luke's story and my nephews's is so similar, Babe and my brother, both loving fathers who suddenly are hit with a ton of bricks when their sons face their inevitable end. I felt the grieve of the full process again now for Luke and his family. Also, I discovered in watching something really unexpected, the human side of no other than everybody's favorite robot, Jason Garret.
Jason according to Babe was his biggest supporter and a brother to him through out Luke's illness, he convinced him to give the eulogy at his son funeral, something Babe didn't think he could do. Jason spoke from the heart about Luke in a press conference too, he loved him too. Other members of the Cowboy family like Troy and Rodger were there for Babe and Luke. To this day I try to do the same thing for my brother. We both love the Cowboys, he introduced me to them when I was a kid, my nephew loved the Cowboys too, the three of us used to watch the games together, at his funeral we had his favorite jersey hanging on a frame.
I know this has nothing to do with Dak and Zeck performances or Diggs or anybody, I know football is football, and winning is all to it, but, what if we can use the frustration and change it to something else, learn a little bit about humanity. I recently watched Dak's story about loosing his mother and brother too and it helped me appreciate his effort and struggle. I used to hate Jason Carrothead, now I hate him a bit less, LOL.
I still love the Cowboys, but that love is not so painful and competitive anymore, they are part of my life story and my loved ones, so I'll keep loving them no matter what, as you love your family, with patience, our day is coming, and if I don't get to see it for some reason, nobody can take away all the good memories.
Love to all of you brothers and sisters.