36 years married here, .. 40 together!
Wouldn't trade her for anything or anybody in the world.
I think if you find the right one, it is absolutely the best thing in the world, but from what I hear from friends, if you find the wrong one, it can turn in to the absolute worst thing in the world.
It breaks my heart when people get divorced. I hate it.
I think it is normally the man's fault when a marriage fails, but I know that is not always the case.
Overall though, men need to stand up, grow a pair, be the man in the relationship, and lead.
Many times they don't.