Really don't get that part of it. I know that it is part of Risen's schtick but we aren't in grade school anymore. Really classless to call people names that you do not know, just for some cheap laughs.
The confusion you have is I'm not a 2021 version of a man. Where words are so hurtful and we should all cry about it. I'm a product of an era where there was still a semblance of masculinity left.