Urlacher vs Ex GF: War of (bad) words

[DallasEast]

The face which launched a thousand bad words.

 

[Hoov]

For those who have never been through a child custody batle you have no idea what it feels like for an outside source to tell you when you can and cannot see your child.

And on top of that often one parent will use the child as manipulation and revenge on the other, not showing up with the child when the other paranet has waited all week for a chance to spend sometime with the kid, changing things around all the time, being late on purpose, having the child stay with grandparents or friends while they are away when the child could have been with the other parent because "so sorry, its not your w/e".

I rememeber my daughter calling me up on NYE crying cause mom ditched her again to go drinking with friends and left her with a babysitter when i was willing to stay home and have her spend the evening with me or take her ice skating, but it was not my year to have her for that particular hoilday.


That will make a sane person and usually well controlled person "lose it". I have been through all of that BS with my ex and the first year of the divorce was very brutal. I rememeber on easter sunday when i was manipulated out of time with my daughter all week and w/e and i showed up to get her at 5 pm when i should have had half os spring break and esater sunday with her, only to be in the middle of a huge fight with my ex and her mother told me i have too much time already with my daughter and she was going to try and do something about it.... i exploded and was screaming obscenities on her front porch and called her mother the c word.

My ex's parents got a restraining order saying i cant come to their house but have to wait at the end of the driveway for my daughter. Later they rescinded the order and we worked things out.

The next time she tried to prevent me from seeing my daughter on my appointed time i called my lawyer and that took care of things pretty quickly.

But custody arrangements can be heartwrenching. Ive been dicorced for 6 or 7 years now and when i have to return my daughter after my w/e on sunday evening i still get very upset saying goodbye to her. sometimes i cant even go home because its just to hard so i go stay with a friend or find something to do. You'd think after 7 years id have gotten over this or adjusted but i havent. And im pretty lucky that my daughter is with me 2 nights out of the week and every other w/e, i have equal time with her and joint legal custody, i dont know how people manage that only get to see their kids 2 w/e's a month.

 

[jterrell]

The face which launched a thousand bad words.

I am pretty sure it wasn't her face that Brian was convinced to date.

 

[trickblue]

I am pretty sure it wasn't her face that Brian was convinced to date.

I suspect it was that giant shiny white grill that caught his eye...

 

[Bob Sacamano]

getting into something serious w/ a stripper is the worst thing a man can do, especially a man w/ alot to lose, as Flatley has seen, Urlacher should have saw what happened to him and stayed away

btw, how does Flatley figure on claiming 100mil from a stripper? or anybody besides a billionaire or some rich corporation

 

[Chocolate Lab]

I am pretty sure it wasn't her face that Brian was convinced to date.

Did they even "date", or just ...?

You'd think these guys would be smart enough to be extra, extra cautious with the money and fame they have -- but I guess some aren't.

 

[Bob Sacamano]

The face which launched a thousand bad words.

she must have one hell of a bod

 

[03EBZ06]

she must have one hell of a bod

Or one hell of ...., well you get the idea.

 

[03EBZ06]

Bears | Urlacher does not remember sending text messages to ex-girlfriend

Wed, 11 Jul 2007 11:25:04 -0700

Rummana Hussain, of the Chicago Sun-Times, reports Chicago Bears LB Brian Urlacher says he does not recall ever sending profane text messages to his former girlfriend, Tyna Robertson. Robertson claims Urlacher sent her more than 30 abusive text messages since January. "I'm not sure if I sent the message or not," Urlacher said when questioned during a court appearance Tuesday, July 10. "I can't remember." The court hearing was over Urlacher's request that Robertson be held in contempt for violating an agreement that requires they meet at the Hinsdale Oasis on days he has scheduled visits with their son, Kennedy. Urlacher said Robertson repeatedly failed to show up during scheduled pickup times in May and June.

http://www.kffl.com/hotw/nfl

 

[Bob Sacamano]

ah, the old cloudy memory defense

what next, the liar, liar, pants on fire defense?

 

[notherbob]

A big strong fool is one thing; a big strong fool on steroids is another.

 

[McCordsville Cowboy]

A big strong fool is one thing; a big strong fool on steroids is another.

So now he is on the juice because he talks **** to his ex-stripper girlfriend who is the mother of his kid. He is just talking to her on her level.

And dont act like this is an isolated incident. This happens EVERY DAY to alot of people. It's sad but its reality.

 

[Seven]

War of (bad) words

VISITATION BATTLE | In latest court fight, Urlacher's ex-girlfriend accuses him of sending abusive text messages. His attorney says they haven't reviewed this filing but points to 'her self-serving fiction' in their past dealings

July 8, 2007

BY MARK J. KONKOL Staff Reporter/mkonkol@suntimes.com


"Go to hell you f------ ----."
"Grow the f--- up and quit praying and get a job." "You're a f------ fruit cake."
"Your raising a little p---y."


'SHUT UP YOU'RE AN IDIOT ILL DO IT MYSELF NEXT HE COMES TO STAY WITH ME'

In court documents filed Friday, Tyna Robertson alleges that her son's father, Bears linebacker Brian Urlacher, sent her text messages, including:

Jan. 1, 1:57 p.m.: "I haven't even left you tell them to turn around"

Jan. 17, 6:17 p.m.: "Go to hell you f- - - - - - - - - - I was sick"

Jan. 23, 8:51 p.m.: "F - - - You"

Jan. 25, 6:59 p.m.: "Im def going to the super bowl so get them pulled whats the big deak"

Jan. 25, 7:08 p.m.: "Shut up you're an idiot ill do it myself next he comes to stay with me"

Feb. 2, 12:28 p.m.: "You're a f - - - - - - fruit cake why the hell would you come down here you know im busy you always gotta be in the middle of s - - -"

Feb. 12, 3:05 p.m.: "Im not sure yet but it will be this weekend"

Feb. 14, 3:52 p.m.: "Your f - - - - - - nuts I just got done with a long season of work you wouldn't know what that's like so Im taking some time off"

Feb. 19, 8:59 a.m.: "Go to hell Ill be there when I get there"

Feb. 21, 4:05 p.m.: "That's not a favor we agreed on 7 and your not even out of town jack ***"

Feb. 21, 4:22 p.m.: "You are one jealous b - - - - quit threatening me you got no pull in court"

Feb. 21, 11:23 p.m.: "Fyi: F - - - you

Feb. 22, 4:54 p.m.: "maybe Sunday night before I leave down again and I can see him when you I get back"

Feb. 24, 11:55 a.m.: "Ok then don't meet me Ill see him I get back thanks"

Feb. 24, 2:40 p.m.: "Beat it no more of my time will be wasted on your skanky ***"

Feb. 26, 10:59 a.m.: "Your an idiot"

March 6, 11:24 a.m.: "You are one jealous b - - - - leave for what"

March 11, 9:12 p.m.: "Your raising a little p - - - y let him live with me it would be much better for him then you could do whatever the f - - - you want"

March 13, 5:59 p.m.: "F - - - off hooker I don't have time for you"

March 13, 6:01 p.m.: "That right b - - - -"

March 29, 7:23 p.m.: "Ill pick him up there im on my way unless you wanna meet me [somewhere] on the way"

March 31, 10:33 a.m.: "I cant get him a ticket this late"

April 14, 8 p.m.: "Just landed bout to be on the way"

April 28, 11:28 a.m.: "Shut up don't try to turn this around don't worry bout the judge the next one wont like you either"

April 29, 10:13 a.m.: "Then you find a way to do what your suppose to make one of your pimps drive you around"

May 18, 7:14 p.m.: "Quit threatening me with that spiritual bull s - - - ill be in Hinsdale at 2 tomorrow."

May 21, 1:49 p.m.: "according to you everyone is racist cuz they don't like you need to grow the f - - - up and quit praying and get a job."

June 2, 11:22 a.m.: "Funny stuff you can bring him to my house so I can spend more time if not leave me alone."

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Man, what a messy child custody/visitation battle.

What?

 

[jay cee]

Somewhere Ray Carruth is saying, "Man you could have avoided all of this drama."

No one needs to say anything, I already know it was in poor taste. I just couldn't resist. :

 

[InmanRoshi]

Sounds like he knows how to pick'em. Didn't he also date Paris Hilton?

 

[tyke1doe]

Sounds like he knows how to pick'em.

That's exactly what I was going to say.

Such a shame and a child is caught in the cross-fire.

 

[jay cee]

That's exactly what I was going to say.

Such a shame and a child is caught in the cross-fire.

Just another thuggish jock. I can't believe some people are trying to defend this behavior.

 

[Facin'Fools]

So now he is on the juice because he talks **** to his ex-stripper girlfriend who is the mother of his kid. He is just talking to her on her level.

And dont act like this is an isolated incident. This happens EVERY DAY to alot of people. It's sad but its reality.

Let me get on your level, never mind I'll just see you after you get out of pre-algebra third period

-Your Hero

 

[notherbob]

So now he is on the juice because he talks **** to his ex-stripper girlfriend who is the mother of his kid. He is just talking to her on her level.

And dont act like this is an isolated incident. This happens EVERY DAY to alot of people. It's sad but its reality.

You could be right, he may not be on steroids and his reactions may not be roid rage, but is doesn't not look like it.

You are also right that many thousands of people go through this type of thing when they break up and it truly is sad that the children suffer because of the bull-headedness of adults who cannot or do not control their emotions when the passions that held them together become the passions that hold them apart and they no longer care who else is hurt as long as they can inflict suffering on their ex.

It's a sickness that infects both of them and only they can resolve it but I doubt they will ever get along well enough again to resolve it. Forgiveness is what it is all about but it takes two to make peace just as it takes two to fight.

It doesn't affect me so I really don't care, one way or another.

On the bright side, TC starts in a couple of weeks.

 

[sacase]

You know its funny, we act like we know the players we see on TV but in reality we don't. All we know is the public image they put out in their interviews and how they carry themselves. We know hardly ever know anything about how they really are and how they deal with people on a day to day basis. Its far more probable that he is just an ***, rather than him being on steroids.