I know exactly what you are talking about. Seen it happen/experienced it myself.tupperware;3678563 said:Gonna tell a little story. I was going to put this into its own thread but whatever.
A few years ago I was hired as a store manager for a local restaurant. The manager before me was fired for stealing. The staff was very respectful and listened to everything I said. But me, being the good and nice guy that I am (And still young too, relating to most of my workers who were only 6/7 years younger than I) naturally became friends with them eventually. As time went on, the respect slowly dwindled away. The niceness that I showed was taken advantage of, they basically lost respect for me. It's no different in the NFL I imagine. You can't make friends with these players and demand respect. You can't be nice to the point of ickyness. You just can't and when you add in the lack of accountability from the owner down and the lack of consequences you get what we've got.
The poor attitudes and quitters need to go in the offseason. I really don't care at this point if they're a little talented, if they give up, get rid of them. I want someone who comes to work every day, rain or shine and puts up 100% effort.
Direct hit.tupperware;3678563 said:Gonna tell a little story. I was going to put this into its own thread but whatever.
A few years ago I was hired as a store manager for a local restaurant. The manager before me was fired for stealing. The staff was very respectful and listened to everything I said. But me, being the good and nice guy that I am (And still young too, relating to most of my workers who were only 6/7 years younger than I) naturally became friends with them eventually. As time went on, the respect slowly dwindled away. The niceness that I showed was taken advantage of, they basically lost respect for me. It's no different in the NFL I imagine. You can't make friends with these players and demand respect. You can't be nice to the point of ickyness. You just can't and when you add in the lack of accountability from the owner down and the lack of consequences you get what we've got.
The poor attitudes and quitters need to go in the offseason. I really don't care at this point if they're a little talented, if they give up, get rid of them. I want someone who comes to work every day, rain or shine and puts up 100% effort.
