Hawkeye0202
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My mother had an unforgiven cooking rule........never ever leave dirty dishes overnight. Now notice I said my mother, NOT my wife (LOL).

You let her watch the movie instead of doing the dishes. I wouldn't want her making the popcorn in a messy kitchen.I don't even let it get that far. I wash what I can as I'm cooking, then wash the rest as soon as I'm done eating. Actually had one girl get mad at me because I would let dishes sit until the movie was over.
Exactly right. Any dishes in my sink are totally scraped of all food residue and completely rinsed and ready for either a hand wash in the sink or to load in the dishwasher.A: Roll up my sleeves and wash.
The image does grind my gears in one way: food put in the sink. That annoys the bleepity-bleep out of me.
My folks taught their children to never leave food or drink on a plate or in a glass. "Eat everything or scrap what is left into the trash. Drink everything or pour it down the drain. Put leftovers in the refrigerator." Those were the rules. Exceptions were not optional.
People do not like me coming to their place and seeing a messy sink.![]()
I’m lucky. My wife’s Japanese. I bring home the bacon and she cooks cleans. She won’t have it any other way no matter how hard I try.
*Wouldn't...I meant wouldn't let the dishes sit.I don't even let it get that far. I wash what I can as I'm cooking, then wash the rest as soon as I'm done eating. Actually had one girl get mad at me because I would let dishes sit until the movie was over.
Exactly. That and she feels it’s her duty. I Americanized her in some ways but others, not a chance.Some women get downright hostile if you try to help clean...because they have a specific way of doing it and if your way differs, you are a terrible human being and must not be allowed to help.
Just load the dishwasher. Take 5 minutes and it's doing all the hard work so I can get to more important bedtime activities.
So, as for the OP, are you asking because there was a problem at home and you're looking for people to back up your side of a domestic squabble?