You’re right: there’s absolutely no shame in it.
Your team had a very, very good tournament. They’re full of talent and are very probably only a few minor tweaks away from a major tournament win.
However, none of that takes away from the fact that Argentina, overall, were the better team on the night. They deserve the credit, and implying that England simply let them off the hook is disrespectful and frankly inaccurate.
I do believe that, even if England had done the better thing and kept pressing instead of sitting deep for the last 40 mins, they would still have lost. Argentina didn’t need a boatload of possession to score those two goals.
The problem was not that England not are an elite-level side (they are), but that Argentina have two things that England don’t. Those are:
- A winning mindset that has been born from having to get over the line vs the best in the world. By contrast, England haven’t beaten a major international team in the knockout stages of a World Cup since the final in 1966. If they break that drought, then getting into a winning habit vs top-10 ranked teams is the sort of thing that will help propel them into genuine contenders
- A true difference maker like Messi. Bellingham is becoming a real talisman for them. He will never be Messi. However, the time will probably come when he is able to take what he did against Mexico and Norway (i.e. grab the game by the scruff of the neck and get it done virtually on his own), and do the same against a top-10 or even top-5 team in the world. Until he makes that leap though, it’s going to be that bit harder for the team overall, barring a favourable tactical matchup, or plain good luck.
You could argue that there’s a third thing missing in a genuinely top goalkeeper, but I cannot stand Martinez (after his borderline-cheating antics in the ‘22 final) so I don’t want to give him the benefit of the comparison with Pickford.