1st Date Suggestions

[CashMan]

Are you going to bang her? And is she married?

 

[Jacobz]

wait is she married?????

 

[Jacobz]

covering my eyes if u do so but just let us know here lol

 

[Stryker44]

Are you going to bang her? And is she married?

Two unknown questions at this point. She had no ring when I met her, and she was with a group of other females. Impossible for me to know with absolute certainty at this point though, without asking explicitly.

 

[Jacobz]

hmm well then 90 percent chance she isn't married 10 percent chance she is and is filing for divorce She probably came with her friends for girl code/ 'protection'. Did u leave another date with just her?

 

[Tabascocat]

Two unknown questions at this point. She had no ring when I met her, and she was with a group of other females. Impossible for me to know with absolute certainty at this point though, without asking explicitly.

That should be the first question asked before taking her out.

The second question should be what is her favorite breakfast if question #1 is a "no"

 

[Stryker44]

hmm well then 90 percent chance she isn't married 10 percent chance she is and is filing for divorce She probably came with her friends for girl code/ 'protection'. Did u leave another date with just her?

What happened was at the end of the night we exchanged contact information, and since then its pretty much been an ongoing conversation where she's been writing me in the evenings and I responding in the morning before work. Thought about texting or asking if she wanted to skype, but don't want to overdo it on the live conversation, over over talk before the first real date.

I live about 35-45 minutes away, she lives in downtown DC.

I put the 29th out there just to not seem overzealous, and also because it would be very unlikely she'd have other plans 3-4 weeks beforehand.

 

[CashMan]

That should be the first question asked before taking her out.

The second question should be what is her favorite breakfast if question #1 is a "no"

/Agreed!

 

[CashMan]

Two unknown questions at this point. She had no ring when I met her, and she was with a group of other females. Impossible for me to know with absolute certainty at this point though, without asking explicitly.

Can you provide a picture of her?

 

[Jacobz]

Well she seems definitely interested, you should maybe send her flowers sometime if you are at that point with her. Just do it and see how she takes it.

 

[Cover 2]

I was raised that the person doing the asking pays, right? Its been a while since I've actually gone about the whole dating thing again.

That is one option.

If the date isn't going well you can always "forget" your wallet at home and have her pay for it. That way if you never plan on seeing her again at least you won't be out any money.

 

[Idgit]

I would take her to a bar.

Get extremely drunk. There's only one thing a girl finds more attractive than that, and that is the next step.

Pick a fight with somebody to show her how manly you are. You'll want to pick somebody smaller than you though, so you're guaranteed to win.

After this continue drinking so you can show her that getting in a fight is just another day in the life of Stryker, and it doesn't phase you. At this moment you'll want to reveal something extremely personal about yourself. Something the average person wouldn't share when getting to know someone. Don't be afraid to cry while doing it. This will show her that not only are you manly, but you're willing to be vulnerable as well. Women love a man that cries.

There's nothing people love more than hearing others talking about themselves. Make sure to talk about yourself and only yourself. DON'T EVEN BOTHER ASKING ANY QUESTIONS ABOUT HER. It's all about you and how awesome you are, and how lucky she would be to have you. Don't be afraid to point this out to her even. In fact I would encourage it.

By this point she'll more than likely want to go back to her place. I'm sure you can figure out the rest.

If you think you love her, don't be afraid to tell her so. Sooner or later, she'll get there.

 

[Cover 2]

If you think you love her, don't be afraid to tell her so. Sooner or later, she'll get there.

Exactly. Telling someone you love them on the first date just shows you know what you're looking for.

 

[Idgit]

Exactly. Telling someone you love them on the first date just shows you know what you're looking for.

I used to like to say it right before I closed the trunk. As a surprise. Ah, love!

 

[Stryker44]

Well she seems definitely interested, you should maybe send her flowers sometime if you are at that point with her. Just do it and see how she takes it.

Good idea - should probably wait to see how the first date goes though, I would think?

 

[CashMan]

Invite her over, make her dinner, and throw on some Kygo.

 

[Longboysfan]

Good idea - should probably wait to see how the first date goes though, I would think?

Yes. Correct - at least after the second date.

 

[Stryker44]

I found out the type of food she likes/doesn't like. Should I go ahead and just pick the restaurant? If so, how far in advance of the 29th (when we had it planned) should I mention it?

 

[basstapp]

I found out the type of food she likes/doesn't like. Should I go ahead and just pick the restaurant? If so, how far in advance of the 29th (when we had it planned) should I mention it?

I think you are thinking too much. I would suggest a restaurant to her and ask her if that sounds good. If it does then mark it down.

 

[Idgit]

Reading through this thread makes me wonder how the human race has not gone extinct by now. And that's not directed at you, OP, btw.