1st Date Suggestions

[Longboysfan]

 

[Fletch]

So I met someone last Friday while out at a techno event...we shared a vibe and exchanged contact information, and that was it.

Since then, we've been talking and I get the feeling we have alot in common aside from being single and liking similar music.

We live about 45 minutes to an hour from each other. I'm typically only downtown once a month or so, usually for something music or sports related.

There is an event I was planning to go to on the 29th with similar music as where we first met, but also feel like I should find a place to be able to talk to her face to face with less noise beforehand. I asked her what her schedule looked like on the 29th, and she hinted she didn't have anything planned yet, so I take that as a good sign

Its been awhile since I've put myself out there or even gone on anything resembling a date...I'm thinking probably best to keep it something chill and simple like grabbing a beer or coffee. Should I mention the event I was planning to go to anyways that evening?

Is there a nearby Applebee's?

 

[Doomsday]

 

[YosemiteSam]

Take her to a Slayer concert. That always works.

 

[joseephuss]

Is there a Top Golf in your area? I hear that is a cool place to hang.

 

[LittleBoyBlue]

Is this one married, too?

It's probably same woman.

 

[Stryker44]

It's probably same woman.

Its not, and to be frank, that was a bit uncallfed for to insinuate.

 

[rynochop]

It's probably same woman.

Or Manti Te'os ex girlfriend.

 

[Tabascocat]

So, did you close the deal??? Inquiring minds wanna know

 

[MonsterD]

Take her to techno event, show her your moves and impress her.

 

[RastaRocket]

So I met someone last Friday while out at a techno event...we shared a vibe and exchanged contact information, and that was it.

Since then, we've been talking and I get the feeling we have alot in common aside from being single and liking similar music.

We live about 45 minutes to an hour from each other. I'm typically only downtown once a month or so, usually for something music or sports related.

There is an event I was planning to go to on the 29th with similar music as where we first met, but also feel like I should find a place to be able to talk to her face to face with less noise beforehand. I asked her what her schedule looked like on the 29th, and she hinted she didn't have anything planned yet, so I take that as a good sign

Its been awhile since I've put myself out there or even gone on anything resembling a date...I'm thinking probably best to keep it something chill and simple like grabbing a beer or coffee. Should I mention the event I was planning to go to anyways that evening?

All I can say is don't make the event your first date. If you do want to go to the event, go somewhere before with just you two like you mentioned. Don't overthink where to go and try to make it perfect, just do something fun where you'll have a chance to get to know each other. You'll figure it out, enjoy.

 

[Seven]

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[Stryker44]

We are going out for dinner and drinks on the 29th. Figured that would be better than a music event because there its hard to tell if the chemistry extends beyond the music or not.

I was raised that the person doing the asking pays, right? Its been a while since I've actually gone about the whole dating thing again.

I'm glad we met in person spontaneously and by total random chance....rather than online (no offense to others that have).

 

[Longboysfan]

No matter what the others say to make you . and say why did I ask here.
Good choice - low key you pay.
Reminder - not a place where there are TV's playing to distract conversation.

 

[DallasEast]

We are going out for dinner and drinks on the 29th. Figured that would be better than a music event because there its hard to tell if the chemistry extends beyond the music or not.

I was raised that the person doing the asking pays, right? Its been a while since I've actually gone about the whole dating thing again.

I'm glad we met in person spontaneously and by total random chance....rather than online (no offense to others that have).

It would be wise if you skipped the drinks. Having a face like Rowdy is bad enough. Looking like a sloppy drunk Rowdy is just begging for a police sobriety checkpoint stop. It doesn't matter if she's the designated driver. Just take a glance in the mirror. They will drag you from the passenger seat and start beating you like they did that San Bernardino, California horse thief a month ago. That's not how a date night should end.

 

[Future]

Woodfired pizza and wine.

I'm 2 for 2 with it lol

 

[Jenky]

So I met someone last Friday while out at a techno event...we shared a vibe and exchanged contact information, and that was it.

Since then, we've been talking and I get the feeling we have alot in common aside from being single and liking similar music.

We live about 45 minutes to an hour from each other. I'm typically only downtown once a month or so, usually for something music or sports related.

There is an event I was planning to go to on the 29th with similar music as where we first met, but also feel like I should find a place to be able to talk to her face to face with less noise beforehand. I asked her what her schedule looked like on the 29th, and she hinted she didn't have anything planned yet, so I take that as a good sign

Its been awhile since I've put myself out there or even gone on anything resembling a date...I'm thinking probably best to keep it something chill and simple like grabbing a beer or coffee. Should I mention the event I was planning to go to anyways that evening?

Please be sure to include pics every time you post a story like this.

 

[Keifer]

I would take her to a bar.

Get extremely drunk. There's only one thing a girl finds more attractive than that, and that is the next step.

Pick a fight with somebody to show her how manly you are. You'll want to pick somebody smaller than you though, so you're guaranteed to win.

After this continue drinking so you can show her that getting in a fight is just another day in the life of Stryker, and it doesn't phase you. At this moment you'll want to reveal something extremely personal about yourself. Something the average person wouldn't share when getting to know someone. Don't be afraid to cry while doing it. This will show her that not only are you manly, but you're willing to be vulnerable as well. Women love a man that cries.

There's nothing people love more than hearing others talking about themselves. Make sure to talk about yourself and only yourself. DON'T EVEN BOTHER ASKING ANY QUESTIONS ABOUT HER. It's all about you and how awesome you are, and how lucky she would be to have you. Don't be afraid to point this out to her even. In fact I would encourage it.

By this point she'll more than likely want to go back to her place. I'm sure you can figure out the rest.

Great advice. But you forgot to tell him about hitting on all the other girls in the bar. Its important she knows that you have other options... they love that

 

[Jacobz]

aahhhh hope u have an amazing time I remember for my date like 3yrs ago I went to this place http://www.astrologyjunction.com/ nd it had like what u should give your spouse / gf/ date based on their zodiac sign..doesn't have it any more :// but ur question reminded me of it. Now in all seriousness I think being very very very respectful, listening, giving a compliment, at times being very spiritual and religious u can get a pretty strong connection with another person. I would say go to a dinner, or go ice skating doing something adventurous works

 

[Jacobz]

here i just looked this up http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/advice/g1033/romantic-first-date-ideas/ (depending on ur budget)