A key component to the Ware negotiation to consider

[MarionBarberThe4th]

After looking up his wife, YUK!!!!

I can't blame him for looking around...LOL

Haha. sheesh

 

[Irving Cowboy]

Well when someone struts his stuff into this thread trying to give the impression that he ate dinner at the Ware's last night and that he is in the know about everything Cowboys, then still insist that he was right in his own kind of way even when he was proven 100% wrong, it can generate a few posts.

 

[BBQ101]

Would he be any less committed in another city? Plenty of committed parents share custody with great distances between them.

He has a few years left in his career and then he never has to work again and can spend more time with his kids than any married couple would. Would he then be more committed than a married couple?

It's not ideal but there's nothing about it that makes him less of a father and there's certainly nothing that would even guarantee that he doesn't see them just as often.

Doubt the ex is working and is probably just staying home raising small children. Ask her to compromise and spend 6 months of the year raising them in a another city for a few short years. They likely share blame for the falling out so it's not like this is only a one way street.

Share in the responsibilities of having been half the equation of a failed marriage and make some sacrifices of your own.

Be a committed mother who wants the father to remain as close as possible and has all the financial support anyone would ever need to make it happen and meet him in - what anyone who's never likely going to have to work again should be ecstatic to call - "the middle".

In my opinion, he would be less committed as a father if he spent time away in another city to play football. Seeing the kids less makes you less committed plain and simple. I am not saying it makes him a bad father, but yes it makes him less committed. You can't be as committed when you don't spend as much time with them. To me that is plain and simple. One scenario, he sees them all the time through-out the week. In the other scenario he sees them once a week perhaps. That is less committed. So in answering your first question, if he plays in another town from his kids, he is less committed. Not sure what the issue is with that thinking.

If the ex can move the kids to the same city he plays in, then that is a whole different story.

Anyway, I'm sure the Ware kids are going to be just fine, no matter the decision. However, I bet his role with the kids affects the decision on where he plays. As a father myself, I could never imaging living in a different city from my kids when they are still living in the nest. To me, what could be more important? However, I know this happens all the time, and I know that other people make it work. It just wouldn't work for me.

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