Amazing Photograph

[Kristi]

DANG IT!!! There's ANOTHER pick-up line I'm not gonna be able to use on you now Kristi.

:

Aww. Aren't you just so sweet. Thanks for putting a little smile on my face. Been a tough week for me.

 

[Hostile]

Aww. Aren't you just so sweet. Thanks for putting a little smile on my face. Been a tough week for me.

Get it off your chest if you wish. A lot of us do.

 

[DallasCowpoke]

Aww. Aren't you just so sweet.

Welllllllll, I'd ask around. You'll likely get varying opinions on that. :

Thanks for putting a little smile on my face. Been a tough week for me.

Buck-up there soldier. After all, it's not everyone who can sit around all day, yet still accomplish their goals, right!!??
:

 

[Bob Sacamano]

DallasCowpoke

this isn't Match.com

 

[Kristi]

Get it off your chest if you wish. A lot of us do.

My now ex bf of 11 months just up and stopped talking to me after Valentine's Day. I have asked in email and on voicemail what is going on and if it is over and WHY is it over and he won't give me an answer. I need some sort of closure. The not knowing is killing me. I can move and can get pissed off it's another woman, I can try and understand if he just doesn't love me anymore, and I can understand if he is moving, but not knowing hurts more than anything. It is so hard to move on when you don't know. I know this because I went through the exact same thing about 4 years ago and it took me until I met Nate to fall in love and trust another guy again. I rebelled and dated some bad guys and knew they were and went down a very bad path emotionally.

Today I changed my relationship status even though I was prepared it was over a couple of weeks ago. If he can't be man enough to tell me after 11 months with not even so much as a fight in those 11 months than I have to move on. Closure would help in that moving on process, but I don't think I am going to get it.

I have removed all pictures, contacts, etc. so I'm not tempted. I know I deserve better. Still doesn't make the hurt go away. I barely sleep or eat anything and I cry more often than not. I adore his parents and his family as they do me and talking to his sister in law she probably bets no one knows. I haven't had the heart to tell my parents yet as they loved him too. My brother in Vegas knows and offered to have one of his friends come kick his butt for me. Such a brother thing to do.

It is such a cold and heartless thing to do. There are so many things I want to say to him, but I would just be wasting my breath. It's over. I was good to him. Probably too good to him. He was going to get spoiled for his birthday and our anniversary coming up in March, but it's all going back now.

I'm an emotional wreck, but getting better. I am heartbroken to say the least. I'm a foggy mess trying to do my school work or anything constructive. I work out a little bit, but the energy is pretty low for it. I know it will get better over time, but this completely sucks!!

 

[HoleInTheRoof]

My now ex bf of 11 months just up and stopped talking to me after Valentine's Day. I have asked in email and on voicemail what is going on and if it is over and WHY is it over and he won't give me an answer. I need some sort of closure. The not knowing is killing me. I can move and can get pissed off it's another woman, I can try and understand if he just doesn't love me anymore, and I can understand if he is moving, but not knowing hurts more than anything. It is so hard to move on when you don't know. I know this because I went through the exact same thing about 4 years ago and it took me until I met Nate to fall in love and trust another guy again. I rebelled and dated some bad guys and knew they were and went down a very bad path emotionally.

Today I changed my relationship status even though I was prepared it was over a couple of weeks ago. If he can't be man enough to tell me after 11 months with not even so much as a fight in those 11 months than I have to move on. Closure would help in that moving on process, but I don't think I am going to get it.

I have removed all pictures, contacts, etc. so I'm not tempted. I know I deserve better. Still doesn't make the hurt go away. I barely sleep or eat anything and I cry more often than not. I adore his parents and his family as they do me and talking to his sister in law she probably bets no one knows. I haven't had the heart to tell my parents yet as they loved him too. My brother in Vegas knows and offered to have one of his friends come kick his butt for me. Such a brother thing to do.

It is such a cold and heartless thing to do. There are so many things I want to say to him, but I would just be wasting my breath. It's over. I was good to him. Probably too good to him. He was going to get spoiled for his birthday and our anniversary coming up in March, but it's all going back now.

I'm an emotional wreck, but getting better. I am heartbroken to say the least. I'm a foggy mess trying to do my school work or anything constructive. I work out a little bit, but the energy is pretty low for it. I know it will get better over time, but this completely sucks!!

And to make matters worse, we gave Cory Procter a 2nd round tender.

Like, what is up with that?

 

[Hostile]

My now ex bf of 11 months just up and stopped talking to me after Valentine's Day. I have asked in email and on voicemail what is going on and if it is over and WHY is it over and he won't give me an answer. I need some sort of closure. The not knowing is killing me. I can move and can get pissed off it's another woman, I can try and understand if he just doesn't love me anymore, and I can understand if he is moving, but not knowing hurts more than anything. It is so hard to move on when you don't know. I know this because I went through the exact same thing about 4 years ago and it took me until I met Nate to fall in love and trust another guy again. I rebelled and dated some bad guys and knew they were and went down a very bad path emotionally.

Today I changed my relationship status even though I was prepared it was over a couple of weeks ago. If he can't be man enough to tell me after 11 months with not even so much as a fight in those 11 months than I have to move on. Closure would help in that moving on process, but I don't think I am going to get it.

I have removed all pictures, contacts, etc. so I'm not tempted. I know I deserve better. Still doesn't make the hurt go away. I barely sleep or eat anything and I cry more often than not. I adore his parents and his family as they do me and talking to his sister in law she probably bets no one knows. I haven't had the heart to tell my parents yet as they loved him too. My brother in Vegas knows and offered to have one of his friends come kick his butt for me. Such a brother thing to do.

It is such a cold and heartless thing to do. There are so many things I want to say to him, but I would just be wasting my breath. It's over. I was good to him. Probably too good to him. He was going to get spoiled for his birthday and our anniversary coming up in March, but it's all going back now.

I'm an emotional wreck, but getting better. I am heartbroken to say the least. I'm a foggy mess trying to do my school work or anything constructive. I work out a little bit, but the energy is pretty low for it. I know it will get better over time, but this completely sucks!!

First of all, guys are a dime a dozen. Especially ones who will treat you bad. I'm sorry you're going through this, but I hope there was some therapy in getting it out.

Things will improve and get better. Have faith in that.

 

[Bob Sacamano]

just one question

do you know if the guy is in trouble or not?

 

[vta]

There's beauty all around us.

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Aww, that's so sweet. How long have you two kid's been an item?

Thanks for sharing.

 

[the fake norm hitzges]

The alter of Baal? j/k Looks like the Cistene Chapel to me.

there is alot of babylonian pagan symbolism in that pic.

 

[Kristi]

just one question

do you know if the guy is in trouble or not?

Yes, I know for a fact he is not in trouble. That was my first concern too since he lives out of town about 40 miles, but works here.

I had to find out from his SIL that he was fine, just not talking to me.

 

[the fake norm hitzges]

Yes, I know for a fact he is not in trouble. That was my first concern too since he lives out of town about 40 miles, but works here.

I had to find out from his SIL that he was fine, just not talking to me.

forgive me for saying this.
its hard for me to believe a guy would just walk away from you.
you look like a very classy attractive young woman.

i say that respectfully.

 

[Hostile]

forgive me for saying this.
its hard for me to believe a guy would just walk away from you.
you look like a very classy attractive young woman.

i say that respectfully.

Sometimes men are stupid. She is all that and if he is walking away, then he blew it.

 

[Kristi]

Thank you guys. Y'all are real sweet.

The only reason I can think of is there is another woman and he doesn't have the balls to tell me.

I know dating a woman in a wheelchair is different and I always worry that I will limit a guy from doing things, but in this case I was the more outgoing one. The only thing he did that I couldn't do was golf and I was slowly, but surely working on that until the organization that was going to help me pulled out of helping me do a fundraiser for accessible golf carts (the one is 10 grand and the way cooler one is 20 grand).

BUT if my disability had anything to do with it than I wish he would have told me. It was brought up a couple of times in the beginning and he assured me it didn't bother him. He ASKED me out, not the other way around and in 11 months he had plenty of time to get used to it and or leave with that explanation of he can't handle it. Other than a push up a hill or picking me up in the heat of the moment because it was quicker he never had to do anything for me. Not like he didn't know the wheelchair was stuck to my butt permanently. Ha! I try to have a sense of humor about these things. That's how I roll. :

It is his loss. I never cheat, I am loyal and trustworthly. He would tell me at times when we went out that guys were checking me out, but he never once said it bothered him. And it shouldn't bother him because I was with him and going home with him.

Spring break is coming up -- I think I'll enjoy being single for that. Shinedown, Sevendust in the same week and then headed to Vegas to see Elton John in April with my dad and to see my brother. Gambling, shopping, music, FUN! I'll be a perfect little angel the entire time.

 

[Bob Sacamano]

Yes, I know for a fact he is not in trouble. That was my first concern too since he lives out of town about 40 miles, but works here.

I had to find out from his SIL that he was fine, just not talking to me.

then he's a dick

 

[HoleInTheRoof]

forgive me for saying this.
its hard for me to believe a guy would just walk away from you.
you look like a very classy attractive young woman.

i say that respectfully.

Cyber Romeo.

 

[Kristi]

Boy, we sure got OT of the picture, didn't we?

I'm dealing with it better meaning I am crying less about it and getting more ticked off at it. I realize that my life will be better without him and hopefully I can find a guy that I have more things in common with when I decide I am ready to date again.

I am meeting with his mom on Thursday to give her the gifts from Thailand. I'm not sure how I am going to react when I see her. His parents treated me like a daughter, sweetest people on the face of the planet. I'm wearing my big black sunglasses just in case I do start to breakdown. Part of me hopes she has some answers and part of me thinks she doesn't even know. Who is to say I'll ever see her and her husband again. He wanted to build a ramp into their house so I could come see them more often. Guess they can cross that off their Spring projects.

His SIL emailed me this weekend and she feels horrible and wish he had handled it better.

I still wish I had an answer of some sort. It would make things a lot easier on me, but I'm not holding my breath in waiting for one because like you said. He's a dick!

 

[Zaxor]

Hey, I was in that Church...we got a church here where I live that is also impressive but there are really quite a few of them here in Europe.

Kristi...

no words I have can ease the lose or pain....but you might consider yourself very lucky that it happened now and you know what kind of guy he is.