peplaw06;3962021 said:
I've never been a party to a pure business mediation... but every time I've been in any mediation where there was a third party neutral mediator, the parties were never in the same room unless it was at the very beginning or when the agreement was being signed... and usually not even then.
Outlaw may have a different experience but he has stated here his experience in negotiation. Its not the same as mediation. However he may mean mediation. And he may have been in a mediation done with the parties in the same room. I just have rarely heard of it being done that way.
I agree. (Peplaw and I agree! Put it in Headlines!)
I was surprised to hear other attorneys say they were surprised by this. (I guess Gomer would say, "Surprise! Surprise!) This is the only way I've ever been involved in mediation.
Usually it starts with a group session where everybody explains their position and their goals to the mediator, then the parties split into separate rooms for what is referred to as a "caucus". If the parties are particularly confrontational, the group session, other than introduction and ground-rules is skipped. The mediator then meets with each party separately and makes "point-counter-point" argument in hopes of reaching common ground. The "caucus" discussions are priviledged and the mediator cannot reveal to each side what the other said without authorization to do so. It cuts down on the friction between the parties, and because the mediator is neutral, he can find a common ground that "hackles-up" parties can't see.
With that said, mediation is usually how most cases are settled. In my practice mediated settlements outnumber trials at least 9-1. As judges always say, "if you mediate a settlement, you have some control of the outcome, I you don't, you have no control, I get to decide, and usually, nobody is happy with my decision."
The other side of it is that in most mediations, discovery has been complete, and each side knows what the other side has. Here, there has not yet been discovery. And, just so you know, it has been my experience that mediation before discovery is usually fruitless. That doesn't mean that mediation stops, it ususally means that mediation is put on hold until both sides have enough information to gauge their position better, and you try again after discovery.
To sum all that up, there is a very distinct difference between negotiation and mediation.