ARTICLE: "This Vicious Rumor that's been Started..." (Jason Witten)

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ConcordCowboy said:
I've never seen a INNOCENT person sit back and take accusations and not shout...scream...freak out or whatever...

Witten isn't going through the Judicial system...He hasn't or isn't or ever going to be charged...He didn't do it. Or do you know something I don't?

He wants to Clear his name and if he has to Shout to do it he should...Good God.

or be a grown up and recognize that this isn't only about YOU - others involved suffered far worse losses than having a rumor directed at them.

but I can see I'm banging my head againt the wall trying to talk about class here.
 

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abersonc said:
or be a grown up and recognize that this isn't only about YOU - others involved suffered far worse losses than having a rumor directed at them.

but I can see I'm banging my head againt the wall trying to talk about class here.

Look my Mother Died when I was 10...After 10 years of Cancer and suffering...That's right she got it right after I was Born...I think I'm more than prepared to talk about loss.

So don't come in here and tell me about loss.
 

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ConcordCowboy said:
Look my Mother Died when I was 10...After 10 years of Cancer and suffering...That's right she got it right after I was Born...I think I'm more than prepared to talk about loss.

So don't come in here and tell me about loss.

I'm sorry for your loss but I think you are making a jump here that I don't understand.

I'm saying that a better approach for commenting would be to respect the loss over anything else -- don't make it about yourself when others are clearly suffering worse. As I've said several times, those comments make it sound like "poor me, there is a rumor about me" -- to me it comes off as self-centered. And you have to know if I feel that way that others will take it the same.
 

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As a bystander, this whole thread has really gotten out of hand if you ask me.

Look people...we don't know what either of them said word for word. The media doesn't publish or report EVERY WORD of an interview. Perhaps condolences were extended to the victims' families by both Witten and his car dealer friend before or after vigorously defending themselves, but that part of the story wasn't published or reported for whatever reason. There just isn't enough information given to say someone was being "insensitive" or that Witten and Grindstone (or whatever his name is) treated the victims as afterthoughts here.

JMO.
 

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abersonc said:
I'm sorry for your loss but I think you are making a jump here that I don't understand.

I'm saying that a better approach for commenting would be to respect the loss over anything else -- don't make it about yourself when others are clearly suffering worse. As I've said several times, those comments make it sound like "poor me, there is a rumor about me" -- to me it comes off as self-centered. And you have to know if I feel that way that others will take it the same.

Hey man I'm sorry I jumped on you about my Mom and the whole Loss thing...it's going to be 30 years this year and I guess I'm just a little touchy.:)
 

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It should be noted that Witten was not a part of that article, only the dealership guy was interviewed
 

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ConcordCowboy said:
Hey man I'm sorry I jumped on you about my Mom and the whole Loss thing...it's going to be 30 years this year and I guess I'm just a little touchy.:)

No problem man - that is totally understandable. Didn't mean to touch a nerve with my comments.
 

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This thread is... I can't think of an acceptable word. Yes someone was killed and reverence should be paid to that fact. However, murder or killing someone is a serious crime and a serious accusation and ANYONE who is wrongful accused has the right to say they had no involvment.
 

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Waffle said:
As a bystander, this whole thread has really gotten out of hand if you ask me.

Look people...we don't know what either of them said word for word. The media doesn't publish or report EVERY WORD of an interview. Perhaps condolences were extended to the victims' families by both Witten and his car dealer friend before or after vigorously defending themselves, but that part of the story wasn't published or reported for whatever reason. There just isn't enough information given to say someone was being "insensitive" or that Witten and Grindstone (or whatever his name is) treated the victims as afterthoughts here.

JMO.

:hammer:

A voice of reason.....Thank You
 

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this thread took an even worse turn after I left it at 5 pm......... geez... can we agree to disagree since it's obvious we'll never convince the other person of our view......:bang2:
 

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1fisher said:
this thread took an even worse turn after I left it at 5 pm......... geez... can we agree to disagree since it's obvious we'll never convince the other person of our view......:bang2:

yes. perhaps we should not make any efforts to express our views. god forbid a discussion might break out.
 

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abersonc said:
yes. perhaps we should not make any efforts to express our views. god forbid a discussion might break out.

hmmmm..... interesting discussion... I'm right and you're wrong. Sounds kinda one sided to me. See what I mean?:rolleyes:
 

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1fisher said:
hmmmm..... interesting discussion... I'm right and you're wrong. Sounds kinda one sided to me. See what I mean?:rolleyes:

Yes, I see now.

Let's all just type Go Cowboys over and over.
 

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abersonc said:
Yes, I see now.

Let's all just type Go Cowboys over and over.

ok.... you're right and I'm wrong........ feel better????:rolleyes:

by the way........ GO COWBOYS! :starspin :starspin :starspin :starspin :starspin
 

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This is stupid. It's not like they were blaming the death for the problems they're having. They're complaining about the rumors. Why does he have to go into being sorry that someone died? Why is it necessary? What does feeling sympathy for the family of the deceased have anything to do with the issues he and his family are dealing with because of stupid rumors?

I guess nobody should ever complain about anything again without first expressing their sorrow about someone that died at some point in time. Cowboys blow a big game? Can't complain, someone died somewhere in the world. Wife cheated on ya? Nope, can't complain.

And IMHO "class" is an evil twisted thing that should die a horrible death. A very stupid concept.
 

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ChldsPlay said:
This is stupid. It's not like they were blaming the death for the problems they're having. They're complaining about the rumors. Why does he have to go into being sorry that someone died? Why is it necessary? What does feeling sympathy for the family of the deceased have anything to do with the issues he and his family are dealing with because of stupid rumors?

I guess nobody should ever complain about anything again without first expressing their sorrow about someone that died at some point in time. Cowboys blow a big game? Can't complain, someone died somewhere in the world. Wife cheated on ya? Nope, can't complain.

And IMHO "class" is an evil twisted thing that should die a horrible death. A very stupid concept.

shhhhhh...... abersonc might hear ya....... Witten and Grinderstick should have kept their mouth shut? Who cares if you got blamed for killing someone! Abersonc certainly doesn't! Right ab?
 

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ConcordCowboy said:
Yeah that's what I meant...but he took it literally.

i'll stomp all night if i'm innocent

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Originally Posted by ConcordCowboy
I've never seen a INNOCENT person sit back and take accusations and not shout...scream...freak out or whatever...


honestly i don't care - i hate it when people get anal-nuts on a word anyway and make it mean what it means *to them* and not how the writer said it - but this does sound like you'd *scream*. pretty clear in several posts. : )
 
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