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The unmarked man

Former Olympian, Cowboys player Bob Hayes remains without headstone

Norm Frauenheim
The Arizona Republic
Aug. 16, 2007 12:00 AM


He was always way ahead of everybody. That's why they called Bob Hayes the World's Fastest Man. Go ahead and argue with the title. There was Jesse Owens before him and Carl Lewis after him.

But it was never more appropriate than during the end of an era, just before high-tech sole on tartan track replaced spikes on cinders. Hayes didn't turn those tracks into cinders. It just seemed like it.

Look at the pictures: Hayes is so far out in front in winning the 100-meter dash at the 1964 Olympics, or so far away from the nearest defensive back as a Dallas Cowboys receiver, that he is virtually alone. Nobody can catch him, capture him or perhaps know him.
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But fast shouldn't mean forgotten and, sadly, that is what is happening to an athlete who is unique on any clock and in any time.

Hayes is buried in an unmarked grave in his hometown, Jacksonville, Fla., according to the Florida Times-Union. A street, sports complex and high school track meet are named after him. But there's no headstone above a patch of grass where Hayes was buried after he died nearly five years ago, Sept. 18, 2002.

It's hard to believe that the Cowboys, or the NFL, or the United States Olympic Committee or USA Track & Field hasn't provided a headstone. How about the NFL Players Association? The union is under attack these days for not doing enough for retired veterans. A Hayes headstone would be a small but powerful answer to Mike Ditka's complaints.

Hayes' unmarked grave is sad because it represents a life that went unappreciated.

His receiving records in Dallas - 20 yards per catch and 71 touchdowns - put him in the Cowboys' Ring of Honor. Football historians put him in their book because he changed the game by forcing defenses into sophisticated zones. But there was never induction to the Pro Football Hall of Fame, probably because of a 10-month sentence on cocaine charges in 1979. Sports Illustrated's Paul Zimmerman quit the selection committee over a slight he argued was an outrage.

By then, Hayes knew too much about slights. Other than his unrivaled speed, he knew little else. He grew up in Jacksonville during segregation. In late 1950s and early 1960s, the old Jacksonville Journal, an afternoon newspaper, published two sports sections, White and Black.

For the White schools, there were big headlines and photographs. For the Black schools, there were only the results, which the papers acquire on the phone from correspondents.

Just before Hayes burst onto the world scene in 1961 and then 1962 at 9.3, 9.2 and then 9.1 in the 100-yard dash as an 18-year-old freshman at Florida A&M, he was at Jacksonville's Gilbert High.

Even then, there were whispered stories about this kid, "R. Hayes," on the streets and sandlots of downtown Jacksonville.

At all-White Robert E. Lee High, however, there was a kid making big news with a 9.9, sometimes 9.8, 100-yard dash.

In the small print at the back of the paper, however, R. Hayes, Gilbert, kept showing up at 9.5, 9.4.

An old copy editor was responsible for taking results for the Black schools. Finally, he said, he asked the Gilbert correspondent, a coach, about R. Hayes.

"Is this R.. Hayes really running a 9.4, 9.5?"

"Yes, sir, maybe faster."

"Well, why haven't you told us more about him?"

"Well, sir, we never thought it was that big a deal."

"You've got to be kidding. Why?"

"Because, sir, he's been doing it in the sand."

While at Florida A&M there's a story he was clocked at 9.0 in 1962 at a Black-college meet in South Florida. But his time was officially listed at 9.3. His coach reportedly told him nobody would believe 9.0 because all of the officials were Black.

Two years later, Hayes won Olympic gold in a pair of borrowed spikes. He blamed boxing gold medalist and future heavyweight champ Joe Frazier for kicking one of his own shoes under a bed. He didn't realize half his spikes were missing until he reached the Tokyo stadium. Luckily, somebody had a pair that fit.

Then, there was his 1964 anchor leg on America's 4-by-100 relay. Hayes had a running start. But what a finish. With the world watching him and the clock, the slowest estimate of his 100-meter split was 8.9.

Unbelievable, but true.

As unbelievable and true as an unmarked grave.
 

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This is a situation that has gone on for over a year, maybe a little longer.

Many have said they would donate and IMO it is something that the family of Bullet is dragging their feet on.

In an article they said the wanted to have a mausoleum built for him. I don't know if they are just not caring much about it or if they are asking for so much money or what the case is.

But I have said it before and I will say it again...I think the family is the hold up on this issue as there is no excuse why they could not have a headstone for him by now.
 

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Agree. Don't know the cost of tomestones in Florida but should be around $500. Frankly the family could have it installed on the grave while doing whatever they are going to build a more permanent structure. Frankly, I think it's something Jerry Jones should be doing for a former great Cowboy. On the other hand, maybe the family would interfere or put there hand out to unfairly get a whole lot more from him.
 

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TVMan;1590369 said:
Hayes is buried in an unmarked grave in his hometown, Jacksonville, Fla., according to the Florida Times-Union. A street, sports complex and high school track meet are named after him. But there's no headstone above a patch of grass where Hayes was buried after he died nearly five years ago, Sept. 18, 2002.
I'm even more disappointed with Jerry Jones now than I was when this story first broke. This is an embarrasment to the entire Cowboy organization.
 

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I'm even more disappointed with Jerry Jones now than I was when this story first broke. This is an embarrasment to the entire Cowboy organization.

I don't know if it is right to place blame on Jones, this is a family matter and without knowing the entire situation I think it would be a bit unfair to come down on Jones.
 

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truely a tragedy, but lets not embellish on his Track records. He did not run 100 meters in 8.9 seconds, it was yards back then..sorry but that just bugs me becasue taht would beat the world record today by almost a second.

He was an amazing athlete and deserves to be paid his due, even if its long after it was due.
 

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I talked to a Mr. Carl Lines last year at the cemetary where Bullet Bob is buried, and there were plans for his being moved to a Mausoleum with a proper recognition. Jerry Jones and ESPN were supposedly involved. A couple of months ago when this story again it described the problem as infighting in Hayes' family. They can't decide what to do for the man and in the meantime, nothing is being done.

I meant to call Mr. Lines again to get the latest but have not done it yet. I will try to rectify that today if at all possible. I am more than willing to create a website to raise money if that is the issue. I have a feeling that is not the issue, but I want the true story.
 

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Crap, this was actually 2 years ago on Valentines Day. I am looking for his number right now.

Hostile said:
I spoke with Mr. Carl Lines at the cemetary for Bullet Bob. The reason for no headstone is because of a family dispute. On the anniversary of Hayes' death they will be moving him to a Mausoleum and he will have proper recognition.

ESPN and the Dallas Cowboys are in contact with him. He attended Bob's funeral and is a Cowboys fan. I invited him to join this site. He might. He met Roger Staubach among others.

Hayes' gravesite is managed by his sister and no one has any purchase agreement on his remains or burial site. All of the nonsense yesterday was just that, nonsense.

Mr. Lines assures me that his memory and gravesite will not be desecrated or compromised.

I left him my phone number. According to him Hayes' sister may need help with the costs of the move. I asked him that if fans can help to please contact me and a pay pal account will be set up where anyone wishing to assist may do so.

He believes the Cowboys will cover any costs that Hayes' family cannot.

At no time has there been any plan to leave his grave unmarked. It is currently solely because of a family dispute.
 

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Left a message for him to call me back. I will keep everyone updated.
 

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suspenceman;1590451 said:
truely a tragedy, but lets not embellish on his Track records. He did not run 100 meters in 8.9 seconds, it was yards back then..sorry but that just bugs me becasue taht would beat the world record today by almost a second.

He was an amazing athlete and deserves to be paid his due, even if its long after it was due.

If you read it again, it is talking about the olympics. That would be meters not yards, even back then.
 

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Update:

Bob Hayes mother has also passed away. The family wishes that they be entombed in the Mausoleum together. Mr. Lines wishes this as well. So much so that he lowered his price by almost 50% for the Hayes family.

He cannot tell me how much is owed because of privacy issues of someone's account, but the reason this has not happened yet is that money is still owed. Bob's sister makes monthly payments on this. This is her only way of accomplishing this.

I have requested that my phone number be given to her, and he says he will do that. So now I'm waiting for her to call.

My hope is that she will allow Cowboys fans to work with her to accomplish this and close this tragic chapter.
 

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Hostile;1590534 said:
Update:

Bob Hayes mother has also passed away. The family wishes that they be entombed in the Mausoleum together. Mr. Lines wishes this as well. So much so that he lowered his price by almost 50% for the Hayes family.

He cannot tell me how much is owed because fo privacy issues of someone's account, but the reason this has not happened yet is that money is still owed. Bob's sister makes monthly payments on this. This is her only way of accomplishing this.

I have requested that my phone number be given to her, and he says he will do that. So now I'm waiting for her to call.

My hope is that she will allow Cowboys fans to work with her to accomplish this and close this tragic chapter.

thanks Hos
 

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Hostile;1590534 said:
My hope is that she will allow Cowboys fans to work with her to accomplish this and close this tragic chapter.
I hope so to. The remaining balance that is due would be helpful. Zoners WILL step up if they are given a chance. Book it!
 

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I will donate, if this is possible.

Hos, it's good if you can talk to the sister. In some states, a person cannot just buy a headstone and put it on a grave without the families approval.
 

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cowboyfan4life_mark;1590717 said:
I will donate, if this is possible.

Hos, it's good if you can talk to the sister. In some states, a person cannot just buy a headstone and put it on a grave without the families approval.
Mr. Lines said that almost every week he has someone offer to do just that and he can't.

Bob Hayes' sister lives in the DC area. I hope she will call me and I hope that they will allow something to be done. I will need to be very tactful about how I handle it. I don't want here to feel at all insulted or that Cowboys fans are disappointed in her and her efforts.

I just want her to know that if we can help, we will.
 

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big dog cowboy;1590446 said:
I'm even more disappointed with Jerry Jones now than I was when this story first broke. This is an embarrasment to the entire Cowboy organization.

Well, why don't a bunch of concerned fans simply organize, and request donations to purchase the headstone for Bob Hayes, rather than rag on Jerry Jones. I'm sure a Cowboy fan in Jacksonville could ask the family as to their wishes.
 

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FLcowboy;1590745 said:
Well, why don't a bunch of concerned fans simply organize, and request donations to purchase the headstone for Bob Hayes, rather than rag on Jerry Jones. I'm sure a Cowboy fan in Jacksonville could ask the family as to their wishes.
Aren't we?
 
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