He is responsible for staying. Maybe its a youth thing but from what has been said it sure seems there was a lot of people talking to him, if only he would have listened. I believe in Personal Responsibility and I think he has not done himself any favors with his behavior.
I agree with what you say but you also have to understand that sometimes the victim plays their own role in allowing things to happen. It is a stance I have always maintained with my belief in personal responsibility no matter the situation. It is not a popular belief in many situation is what I have learned.
Sounds like your "personal responsibility " only applies to the person who was treated unfairly. What about "personal responsibility " for Goodell and the NFL front office.
These "personal responsibility" thoughts are generally proven to be a shallow one sided approach which is either lazy or lacking basic human empathy for anyone further than 6 inches from their face.
Personal responsibility is usually used as a whipping stick when someone wants to victim blame. I guess JFK should have taken personal responsibility and not gotten into that convertible. Or the rape victim should have taken personal responsibility and not wore that short skirt right?