Awakened;4847722 said:
You're probably right, but it was the phrase "growing up" that spurred my comment. I admit that I don't believe in separating who a person is from their potential as a player. Michael Irvin might have been a crazy *** cocaine using adulterer, but I'll guarantee you he'd never hit his mom. A dude that does that is messed up at the core. Outside of some major psychological/ spiritual turn around, the trajectory of that guy's life as a person and player won't end well. That's my opinion, and I'm sorry if it sounds judgmental. It's just the way I believe.
Understandable.
im not an advocate of that either (though i have seen some abusive parents that create awful situations where one watching would wish someone would take it to them).
We cant do anything about the past, and i was starting to think the cowboys should cut ties with Dez.
But i do beleive people can change and grow and develop good character. Some have a lot further to grow than others and some have greater difficulty on their path than others.
The reports are that he is working very hard and we see improvement in his play on the field so im encouraged he may be able to become someone who develops into a good player and a good person.
But just to be clear, im not a supporter of people that always get into bad situations or legal trouble and play the victim card.
You make your choices and reap the results.
I do beleive everyone makes bad choices at one time or another, and everyone has a range as far as what they are capable of doing (good or bad) depending on the circumstances or pressure they are put in. The ability to control your emotions and anger is something that a lot of people need to develop.
I dont know all of what happened with Dez and his mom or the history there, but I hope he can be the player and person we would want him to be.