CowboyWay;3431559 said:
But to me, its not about being capable. I'm sure she's a fine sailor. But this is a highly risky proposition for even the most skilled sailor in the world. One rogue wave man, just one rogue wave, and its all over. If she's sleeping, and a rogue wave hits, she's gone. Simple as that. And considering several experts are on record as saying she left at the wrong time of year, I don't think its reasonable or prudent for a parent to let their child do this sort of thing. Its all about a stupid record. And I won't risk my childs life for a record.
I said it before and I will say it again, there are all kinds of risky propositions that young people love.
I loved football. Are you going to tell me I was never at risk of being paralyzed?
I rode bulls as a teenage with my friends. Several went on to actually compete in rodeos, including my younger brother. Are you going to tell me they were never at risk?
I rode dirt bikes and I have even jumped them. I think my longest jump was around 80 feet. Are you going to tell me I was never at risk?
I drag raced cars. Are you going to tell me that I was never at risk?
I fought fires in a volunteer department and later as a paid fireman. Are you going to tell me there was no risk?
Teenagers go through a rite of passage. This was hers. Who are you to say she has no right to this? Who are any of us? I have read all about the time of year problems. Guess what, stuff can happen in the right time of year too. She and her family knew the risks.
There is no correlation between a 16 year old sailing the world and a 6 year old having a rattlensake or a 4 year old playing with gasoline. Yet those are the comparisons thrown out there.
Kids, every day skateboard, ski, ride BMX bikes, and do all kinds of dangerous things like river raft, sky dive, climb mountains, and even play football. Sometimes the danger drives the pursuit. I know it did for me in firefighting. The edge of danger was like a drug.
I think we'd live in a dull world if there were restrictions on everything because it had a danger quotient that someone felt was too high.
Yeah, she is young. Yeah, it was dangerous. So what? From where I sit, she proved she could accomplish it and would have but for a fluke accident which disabled her craft. That's life. She's alive. She clearly wasn't simply going for a record because it was already broken by someone even younger.